u/wreckedBunny

Hey all! My daughter is trying to come up with something to call me besides dad? Her birth mom and her do not have a good relationship and I dont want to be apart of the bad feelings she has with her.

I just dont want to get clocked for this everytime. So, something neutral or feminine. I live in conservative florida and am just starting my journey on hrt. I dont dress fem but wear skinny jeans/ straight and pastel floral button up shirts. My hair is wear down and it goes to my butt. So I dont use fem pronouns or anything. My plan is to start in 6 months all depending on how i grow on hrt.

Just curious for some ideas or what yall did or tried! Thanks and I love yall! 🩵💖🤍💖🩵

Posting to keep this going for finding_myself26.

Tell me something good!

I've been on spiro for a week and start estradiol within the next week. I'm just starting but at least I'm moving.

How bout ya'll?!

Greetings and Good day!

Question please... I'm taking my Spiro at 4 to 6 pm. I notice after I take it, um... it seems to emotionally dampen me? Not sure if thats quite what I mean. Come morning, 8 am... I feel really emotional. Didn't do it first day, but each since.

Just me? Did I finally lose it? I hadn't read about this as a symptom on Spiro. Im waiting on estradiol to arrive so im just on Spiro.

I may split it and take 12 hours apart...

Thanks all!

Took my first Spiro, waiting to get estradiol vial. Doing injections once I get. Dr agreed to treat the way id like. So happy.

Im shocked im doing this.... im so ready. Trying to get home before I cry

😁

Started Spiro 100mg daily. Gonna split in half and take 12 hours apart. Going on estradiol injections when I get it, not too long.

Doc is willing to do whatever I really wanted after discussion. Well, within reason.

Going on Spiro until t crashes. Then monotherapy for a bit to see if that holds well.

I may get an orchi in the next 12 months... thinking about it.

Um... 😁

God and Trans people

Question

This has been a hot topic where I'm at and I was putting some serious thought into it.

I'm looking for holes or logic issues and if its just flat out wrong. Not looking for opinions but grounded arguments. I've stumped those locally I speak with so am casting a larger net now.

This has nothing to do with sexual attraction or gender dysphoria in minors. I am also not differentiating between learned trans behavior and actual gender dysphoria, those are other topics for other people.

The question:

If a person lived their life believing they were and looked like a man, attending church and serving God as a man, but found out they are intersex and biologically female, would the church ask them to stay as male or be female as they biologically are?

I ask because every arguement I hear is almost always about the chromosomal marker, which was only obtainable recently. I am arguing that some gender dysphoria is a different kind of intersex.

The arguement:

Intersex issues, deformities, and many other corrective surgeries are done and the church, the people who believe in the Bible, Christians, tend to have no issue with these corrections. However, a trans person is not afforded the same corrective abilities. My argument is that those who suffer from gender dysphoria have something wrong in the brain (some data points to this but not enough research has been done) and transitioning with surgery is the fix. This would mean the person transitioning would need to fill the role of the man or woman as the Bible describes. But from what I cam see is not a sin. Its a deformity being corrected as best we can.

A little about me:

I am 41, have been Christian my whole life and served God as best I have known how to. I am at a crossroads and my faith is something important to me, a part of my whole being. I have gender dysphoria and first knew something was off at 10 years old, maybe even 8 but at 10 I have clear memories. It never was something I gave into. I have prayed almost every day of my life for help, to be strong enough, to take it away, to be changed. I sought help over the years. I have a teen daughter, full custody, I tried to be a husband (the mom crashed out after my daughter was born). Im just trying to make the right decision and not rebuke my God.

Thanks for any help.

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This has been a hot topic for me and I was putting some serious thought into it.

I'm looking for holes or logic issues and if its just flat out wrong. Not looking for opinions but grounded arguments. I've stumped those locally I speak with so am casting a larger net now.

This has nothing to do with sexual attraction or gender dysphoria in minors. I am also not differentiating between learned trans behavior and actual gender dysphoria, those are other topics for other people.

The question:

If a person lived their life believing they were and looked like a man, attending church and serving God as a man, but found out they are intersex and biologically female, would the church ask them to stay as male or be female as they biologically are?

I ask because every arguement I hear is almost always about the chromosomal marker, which was only obtainable recently, or homosexuality which is a different topic as thats attraction.

The arguement:

Intersex issues, deformities, and many other corrective surgeries are done and the church, the people who believe in the Bible, Christians, tend to have no issue with these corrections. However, a trans person is not afforded the same corrective abilities. My argument is that those who suffer from gender dysphoria have something wrong in the brain (some data points to this but not enough research has been done) and transitioning with surgery is the fix. This would mean the person transitioning would need to fill the role of the man or woman as the Bible describes. But from what I cam see is not a sin. Its a deformity being corrected on the body as best we can since we cant fix the brain.

A little about me:

I am 41, have been Christian my whole life and served God as best I have known how to. I am at a crossroads and my faith is something important to me, a part of my whole being. I have gender dysphoria and first knew something was off at 10 years old, maybe even 8 but at 10 I have clear memories. It never was something I gave into. I have prayed almost every day of my life for help, to be strong enough, to take it away, to be changed. I sought help over the years. I have a teen daughter, full custody, I tried to be a husband (the mom crashed out after my daughter was born). Im just trying to make the right decision and not rebuke my God.

Thanks for any help.

God and Trans people

Question

This has been a hot topic where I'm at and I was putting some serious thought into it as ive recently made some decisions. Im curious to see how wrong I am.

I'm looking for holes or logic issues and if its just flat out wrong. Not looking for opinions but grounded arguments. I've stumped those locally I speak with so am casting a larger net now.

This has nothing to do with sexual attraction or gender dysphoria in minors. I am also not differentiating between learned trans behavior and actual gender dysphoria, those are other topics for other people.

The question:

If a person lived their life believing they were and looked like a man, attending church and serving God as a man, but found out they are intersex and biologically female, would the church ask them to stay as male or be female as they biologically are?

I ask because every arguement I hear is almost always about the chromosomal marker, which was only obtainable recently.

No matter which way this is answered, it affects the trans argument and may show another area where man has added their own rules or maybe im just blinded.

The arguement:

Intersex issues, deformities, and many other corrective surgeries are done and the church, the people who believe in the Bible, Christians, tend to have no issue with these corrections. However, a trans person is not afforded the same corrective abilities. My argument is that those who suffer from gender dysphoria have something wrong in the brain (some data points to this but not enough research has been done) and transitioning with surgery is the fix. This would mean the person transitioning would need to fill the role of the man or woman as the Bible describes. But from what I cam see is not a sin. Its a deformity being corrected as best we can.

A little about me:

I am 41, have been Christian my whole life and served God as best I have known how to. I am at a crossroads and my faith is something important to me, a part of my whole being. I have gender dysphoria and first knew something was off at 10 years old, maybe even 8 but at 10 I have clear memories. It never was something I gave into. I have prayed almost every day of my life for help, to be strong enough, to take it away, to be changed. I sought help over the years. I have a teen daughter, full custody, I tried to be a husband (the mom crashed out after my daughter was born). Im just trying to make the right decision and not rebuke my God.

Thanks for any help.

This has been a hot topic where I'm at and I was putting some serious thought into it.

I'm looking for holes or logic issues and if its just flat out wrong. Not looking for opinions but grounded arguments. I've stumped those locally I speak with so am casting a larger net now.

This has nothing to do with sexual attraction or gender dysphoria in minors. I am also not differentiating between learned trans behavior and actual gender dysphoria, those are other topics for other people.

The question:

If a person lived their life believing they were and looked like a man, attending church and serving God as a man, but found out they are intersex and biologically female, would the church ask them to stay as male or be female as they biologically are?

I ask because every arguement I hear is almost always about the chromosomal marker, which was only obtainable recently.

No matter which way this is answered, it affects the trans argument and may show another area where man has added their own rules.

The arguement:

Intersex issues, deformities, and many other corrective surgeries are done and the church, the people who believe in the Bible, Christians, tend to have no issue with these corrections. However, a trans person is not afforded the same corrective abilities. My argument is that those who suffer from gender dysphoria have something wrong in the brain (some data points to this but not enough research has been done) and transitioning with surgery is the fix. This would mean the person transitioning would need to fill the role of the man or woman as the Bible describes. But from what I cam see is not a sin. Its a deformity being corrected as best we can.

A little about me:

I am 41, have been Christian my whole life and served God as best I have known how to. I am at a crossroads and my faith is something important to me, a part of my whole being. I have gender dysphoria and first knew something was off at 10 years old, maybe even 8 but at 10 I have clear memories. It never was something I gave into. I have prayed almost every day of my life for help, to be strong enough, to take it away, to be changed. I sought help over the years. I have a teen daughter, full custody, I tried to be a husband (the mom crashed out after my daughter was born). Im just trying to make the right decision and not rebuke my God.

Thanks for any help.