Experience using this specific carrier

Experience using this specific carrier

Hi all!

I'm 26+2 and I'm really getting deep into what we need to buy to be ready for baby girl, especially since they said I'll have to deliver by 37wks due to high BP.

I have maaaany nieces and nephews and have helped consistently in their upbringing since birth but I've never done baby wearing with littles, only 4-6m and up ish. I know I'm going to want to start right away with my little girl, and I know the rigid types tend to not work as well on plus size bodies. For context I'm 5'10" and was 265 before getting pregnant. Now 280. Ive read a few posts about the sling or wrap styles being better. I'm almost certain I'm gonna hate the wrap style just due to ease of use. But I don't want to drop this kind of money on a sling style without some community research first lol

So! If you've used this brand or have any insight on styles like this, lmk!

https://www.hopeandplum.co/products/anemone-ring-sling?variant=48223169577205

u/youcancallmecoop42 — 5 days ago

Rapid weight gain

Hiya!

Just looking for advice

I didn't weigh myself pre-pregnancy at all. Even denied it at the doctor's office. So I don't have a pre-pregnancy weight per-se. However I usually hovered around 265 +/- a couple.

Once I got pregnant I started keeping up with it semi-regularly starting at 6wks pregnant.

6w: 267

9w: 267

15w: 272 +5lb in 6wks

20w: 273 +1lb in 5wks

21w: 277 +4lb in 1 wk <--- see how insane this is given the above?

I have, admittedly, been much hungrier the last couple weeks and I've always had a sweet tooth. However, never in my life have I gained like that in a week. Even at my most depressed, binge eating sugar and laying in bed doing nothing.

I know I'm only supposed to gain like 20lb total given my starting weight and I don't see how that's possible at this point if I keep getting hungrier, and moving around gets harder.

Side note, I'm heavy and always have been, I've never felt like I needed to eat this often. I usually have a good breakfast and a large meal around 3, and then midnight snack like popcorn. I don't know how to keep up with being this hungry lol.

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u/youcancallmecoop42 — 1 month ago

In search of like minded soon to be parents group

Hi!

I'm pregnant, due in January, and I'd love to find local parents with similarly aged kids to connect with, but everything about the typical "mom's group" feels distinctly conservative. Which. Like. You do you, but that's not my vibe.

I was looking to maybe connect with some leftist parents. This may be a long shot and I may be opening myself to some mean comments but I think it's on us to make our own community and it's worth a shot.

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u/youcancallmecoop42 — 2 months ago

Rehoming Sacramento area

Looking to re-home my 3.5ish year old male BP. Got him over a year ago and was told he was 2 at the time.

He's around 4ft and weighs 1148g as of tonight

He eats a small frozen thawed rat (about 50-60g but the weight varies) once every 3-4ish weeks depending on if shed happens near feeding because he will not eat at that time at all.

Otherwise, he's a good eater most of the time. We did have a couple months of refusal and we got him to eat again with a frozen thawed chick, which he did seem to enjoy.

I really do love having this snake but life has gotten wild and I don't feel like I'm providing him with nearly enough enrichment. He seems to like exploring and being handled for the most part and I haven't had the time to do that enough. I feel terrible as I haven't had him that long and, at the time of purchase, I absolutely intended on keeping him for a long time, and if he was a snake that didn't seem to like being out and exploring, I could justify it. But I don't feel like I'm doing him right and don't want to be selfish in keeping him.

He's in a bioactive tank, which might need a boost of cleanup bugs at this point.

Photos and snake plants are doing really well in the tank. He has a heat lamp (no light) on the right side and a UV light source on the left.

He used to have 3 hides but he NEVER went in the third one so I removed it and let the plants grow more which I think he enjoys. You can have the third one though if you want to change things around. His favorite hide is his half log, which I've placed against the side wall so there's only one opening. The top is lined with tin foil to keep temp regulated and has a silicone sheet on top of the center to weigh and help with temps. Not the prettiest but it works!

Whole setup includes:

4x2x2 tank.

water bowl.

Terracotta pot (to fill with water and bury in dirt to keep dirt moist).

Black hide with cork round hot glued to top

Half log hide.

Stacked stick climbing thing (rly dont know what this is called).

Stick secured to wall for climbing.

Climbing rings hung from top.

Mushroom decoration.

UV light

Heat lamp

Temp control thermostat

Extra hide

Extra hammock not installed

Enclosure shown in .5 and normal, both sides.

$100 for everything except the shelving the enclosure is on.

Sacramento area

u/youcancallmecoop42 — 3 months ago

Birth options, wellspace

Hiya!

I'm with wellspace and I'm 12w pregnant

It's a little early but I like to research as much as possible

With wellspace you have the choice between sutter or kaiser in Sacramento.

I've never been to either as I'm up in Roseville.

I typically use Sutter for everything that wellspace doesn't provide, and emergency visits, so they're what I'm used to, but I was hoping for input from folks that have delivered their babies at both locations.

So, if you've delivered at either, or both, in the past, what's your feedback? The good the bad and the ugly please, I'd like to know all the facts before making my choice.

Thanks in advance :)

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u/youcancallmecoop42 — 4 months ago

Can anyone add our last team member to the group photo? No AI. $15

Hi there, our real estate team got together to take group photos but one of us couldn't be there! :(

I've asked her to take a couple sitting photos to see if we can add her to the group.

I've included the following

A group shot

Each of us sitting individually for reference/shoes/positioning/whatever you need

4 shots of her sitting in various places.

She's totally willing to take more shots if you think you'll need something else from her.

You have creative freedom as long as it looks like she's with us. Including changing the couch or background or whatever.

I also have the download codes for high quality photos if you want that please dm me.

Thanks in advance!

u/youcancallmecoop42 — 4 months ago

Hi!

Posting on behalf of a friend who's not on reddit

She's moving up here to be closer to family and is basically ready once she lands a job

She's SO incredibly experienced and smart but, like everyone I've heard of, having a hard time with the job search.

Anyone know of anywhere hiring in the financial world and or hotel world.

Experience in finance, primarily hotels, since 2018

Very brief version of her resume below:

Petroleum company: Accounts Receivable

03/2018 - 02/2019

Marriot hotel: Night Auditor

02/2019 - 06/2021

Marriot hotel: Front Desk Supervisor and Night Auditor

06/2021 - 06/2022

Hilton hotel: Accounting Clerk and Analyst

06/2022 - present

Currently in school for Accounting and Business, expected 2027 graduation.

Experienced in Excel, Tableau, PMS Hotel Accounting

Skills:

Data Entry and Analysis

Payment Processing

Financial Reporting

Ledger Reconciliation

Critical Thinking

Training and Onboarding

Refund Auditing

Accounts Receivable

Customer Service

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u/youcancallmecoop42 — 5 months ago