r/BeforeNAfterAdoption

Image 1 — Nikki was dumped by the side of a busy road on a 103 degree day. This is her in the pound the day she was brought in, and after a good bath the day we adopted her.
Image 2 — Nikki was dumped by the side of a busy road on a 103 degree day. This is her in the pound the day she was brought in, and after a good bath the day we adopted her.

Nikki was dumped by the side of a busy road on a 103 degree day. This is her in the pound the day she was brought in, and after a good bath the day we adopted her.

u/Ok_Minimum_5962 — 1 day ago
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The cat who went through 8 years of abuse before finding her forever home: meet munchkin.

meet munchkin, the 8 year old cat who spent 7 of those years being abused and tossed between homes. when she came to us in the first picture, she had pieces of her fur torn out from stress. she was limping and covered in fleas and terrified of any sudden movements. since then, with the help of a veterinarian team, weve been able to bring her to the second image, where shes cuddly, confident, and flea-free! we are now working on getting her trained and registered as an ESA because of her naturally affectionate personality helping me with my panic attacks. after 8 years shes finally gotten her happy ending and we are so happy to be permanently accepting her into our home!!

u/m_anon__ — 1 day ago

From being days away from death to loving every day

We adopted Dotty a year ago from a bird rescue after she was surrendered due to the death of her owner. She was very ill and we were warned she mightn’t have long left but we took her determined that even if she only had a short time with us we would give her a calm, loving, and dignified end. She had come from a home where she was very neglected and at our initial meeting with her she just seemed defeated and exceptionally sad, weary, and wary—this was a bird quite literally stuck in fight/flight mode (pun not intended). We got her to a vet pretty quickly and discovered she had sustained several fractures in both wings that were left untreated which just seems so unfathomably cruel and as a result her muscles have atrophied to a point she can no longer hold her wings up so they sit, drooping, on the ground which obviously causes her even more issues particularly around balance, comfort, and pain. Significantly, she was in severe, almost end stage, liver and kidney disease. We’ve worked closely with a vet for the last 12 months to get her back into good health physically and mentally. Despite this awful 13 years of life, this sweet sweet old lady has slowly accepted the love we’re offering and in a state of pure bravery on her part has extended her trust to us. 

Still working to lessen some trauma-based behaviour, notably eating her own poop because I think she’s experienced times where that was all that was available to eat. She is slowly becoming less panicked when we take her food bowl for refreshing each morning, something that stressed her out to an extreme level for many months. She knows now that new, fresh food is coming and rather than panicking that her food bowl has been taken she now waits patiently at the cage door for her breakfast. 

The first pic is a before and after and possibly the photo that feels most polarising; its hard remembering how poorly she was when she first came to us but seeing how her colouration (and therefore overall health) has gone from that toxic neon yellow to a beautiful yellowy grey feels like such an achievement. Her eyes look less weary and wary and we see more glimmers of attempted happiness every day. She’s still working through some issues but she is so exceptionally trusting and I’ll be forever grateful she has allowed us the opportunity to let her relax and feel safe. That in itself has been a huge privilege to be gifted by this sweet old lady who was very hardened to life just one year ago.

The last two pics are Dotty playing with her first keyboard which was a 1 year anniversary gift she got today. It took almost a year for her to show any interest in toys because I’m not sure she ever had any so for her to take an interest and play is heartwarming to see.

u/jjalcb05 — 3 days ago

Walker Delwood

First pic is the day I found him on the road, second pic is what a happy boy he is now! (He didn’t have a chip. He was either dumped, or he escaped from someone who didn’t care enough to look for him. I posted him to all the local lost animal pages at the time, and reported him as found to the vets and the shelter. He was so full of fleas you could see them walking up and down the white stripe on his face, and he had a belly full of worms. Our vet said he had been “bachin’ it” (living on his own like a bachelor) for a while, and he was only 12 weeks old!! Nobody claimed him, so we kept him!) He’s six years old this year!

u/gir6 — 5 days ago

Rescued a pitbull 1 year ago. I love her, but I'm stuck in the gray area: some days I want to rehome her, some days I don't. I need support.

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I'm in recovery from a severe affective disorder and two addictions. Two hospitalizations in the last few years. This is my raw, unfiltered situation. I need to lay it out in points, because my head is a mess.

  1. The rescue.

I rescued a pitbull who was either going to end up on the street or be euthanized. She had no chance. I grabbed her because I couldn't stand the thought of her dying. At that time, I was also on the verge of collapsing myself. We were both hopeless.

  1. The bond and the doubts.

During this year, I created a real bond with her. I love her. But I've always had, and I still have, doubts because of the statistics surrounding pitbulls. I've already played with fire in my life—with my addictions, with my mental health—and I got burned badly. I don't want to get burned again, and I don't want her to get burned because of me. The truth is, I couldn't take care of her in the best way. My illness made me absent. I have two addictions wrapped around my affective disorder. Some days I could barely take care of myself.

  1. The ticking clock.

At any moment, I could have a relapse or a mental health attack. It's a reality I have to accept. And if that happens, she would suffer for it. I know, deep down, that she probably has better options than me. She could live in a more stable home, with people who don't disappear into their own heads for days. She deserves that stability.

  1. The gray area (and my dilemma).

This is where I'm stuck. It's not black and white. Some days I wake up and I'm absolutely sure: I need to find her a new family, for her sake. Other days, I hold her and I can't breathe at the thought of letting her go. I want to keep her forever. The decision swings back and forth, and it's exhausting.

I need support. I need words. I need advice from people who have been through this—people who have rehomed a dog (especially a pitbull) even though they loved them. How did you do it? How did you deal with the back-and-forth in your head? How did you finally make peace with letting go?

I don't want a quick "keep her" or "give her away." I know life isn't that simple. I just need to hear from others who have walked this gray path. Because right now, I feel like I'm failing her no matter what I choose.

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u/Expedicionista — 4 days ago

Update 1 year on

So the "not-so great start to life" manifested as quite severe fear-reactivity to some people and most dogs. So we are rocking the Big Snoof muzzle when out and about and working through all that but he is an absolute sweetheart at home and we will do whatever it takes to give him a great life.

u/Unlikely_Comedian_75 — 5 days ago

This beautiful boy just showed up!

Hes now very happy in a loving home! One day this handsome tuexie with a big floofy tail just appeared! he was desperate to get inside so, he came in. His name is Sylvie, and he loves the car very much. He scared the crap out of my senior boy, but is so sweet and affectionate, someone must have ditched him in my neighborhood, well he found the right house!l

Got him his shots, he wasn’t fixed so he got neutered. And a good grooming for his beautiful floofy tail. Hes with a friend so ill get to see him and get updates.

u/Choice-Warning-703 — 5 days ago

Celebrating one year together

Matted and abandoned at 3 months old to a very handsome boy with the best smile. Photos are him at the shelter vs him today.

u/HedgieCake372 — 8 days ago

Marinara and Meatballs

My two new rescues! Meet both

Marinara and Meatball they're both ten years old... strays that showed up at the local shelter and rescued on their last day... why buy dogs when the shelter has beauties like these:-),

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u/InternationalSea3867 — 10 days ago