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Finally on T!

Finally on T!

I’ve waited for this since I was 12 years old now I’m a college freshman going through the correct puberty living the dream🥹🥹

u/No-Shock16 — 1 day ago

pink nips

i’m assuming this is normal they were fine yesterday but i believe the ‘ nexroform petroleum non adhering dressing had some play into this , it’s just freaking me out a bit 🫩

u/Agitated-Drink-9624 — 2 days ago

Friends From NJ?

Hello! I’m Cameron :D. I’m 21 and I’m looking for other friends in New Jersey :). I don’t really have any irl ppl I vibe with, so I’d love to have a friend or even a small friend group 🙏🏾🏳️‍⚧️🥹

u/camthetransbean — 2 days ago

I feel like I have no potential

15 pre t. I don't feel like I have a bright future. My face kinda looks fat. No masculinity in sight. Everytime I look at myself, I start to cry. I can barely do anything cuz of how my mom is. Is there any tips I can do whenever I can? Or just any motivation? I feel hopeless

u/KitchenFun7716 — 4 days ago

Thank you for the tips!

Thank you to all the guys in this sub for your tips on my earlier post, I’ve applied some of them (like darkening my eyebrows) and feeling very happy so far :) any more passing tips yall want to leave are very welcome!

u/AttentionGloomy9180 — 4 days ago

🤴🏾🏁💯 finished Abdophallo stages strong with the rod implant . Dm if questions 💯

u/Kingtop911 — 5 days ago

pre t ready 4 medical transition

i’m scared but ready for some facial hair and a deeper voice and to be the man i’ve been wanting to be since i was 5. i’m about to be 40 next month and feel like it’s about time fr. any tips on taking the next steps?? its hard finding other trans mascs, even in a big city and so much love to yall!

u/ashtonoutzs — 6 days ago

do i look like a stud or a young man

pls dont mind my hair , i cut off the majority of my length impulsively and im getting clippers soon to fix it. im 17 if that helps

u/Late_Cod_8479 — 6 days ago

RFF Phalloplasty - 2.5 months post op !!

The first month of recovery was the hardest thing I’ve ever gone through. But since the 6-7 (no pun intended lmao) week mark, things have been absolutely amazing. My arm feels good, my mobility is improving, and my new member is everything I could’ve wished for!

u/Guava_Budget — 9 days ago

Is refusing to date trans people inherently transphobic?

I say yes.

IMO there's literally no reason to not want to date *any* trans person in the world, other than having an internalized view that trans people are bad/undesirable because of being trans. Not all trans people think, act, or even experience being trans the same way. So how can you say you don't like any of us at all, without it being transphobia, since that's the only thing that binds us?

There's a difference between saying, "I'm not interested in sex with someone with male genitalia" and "I don't date trans women." One is a specific desire/preference, the other is a blanket statement rooted in bias.

And sure, people can just "like what they like," but that doesn't mean that what they like isn't rooted in discrimination and worth interrogating. Even if people want to call it a preference, which it's not, it's still rooted in transphobia.

(To be clear, I'm not interested in convincing cis people to date trans people.)

What do y'all think?

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u/shnlshn — 9 days ago

Chest Progress

I've tried to maintain being consistent in the gym. My primary focus has been developing the muscles that a surgeon would be sculpting my skin around. Today, I actually got to see a glimpse of that work post off.

Working out has truly been a space of meditation abscess feeling present in my body. I've truly needed that space. Life has gotten so difficult.

u/Chemical-Monk3800 — 9 days ago

What I wore when updating my documents

Also finally starting to accept my natural hair more as it grows out🥳

u/Shadow_Wolfie13 — 10 days ago
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Intro - Hey Y'all

I'm new to Reddit. And just joined this group. So, I'd thought it would be fitting to introduce myself. I'm 51 year old transman (started my transition in 2008), and I was born and raised in the Hampton Road, VA. I currently reside in Massachusetts with my beloved and our cat. I'm excited to be on a new journey career-wise. I will be starting culinary school next month. I can't wait to hop into my chef whites and be in the kitchen. I created a zine on African American and African diasporic foodways. Some of my other interest as painting, reading, and ceramics.

Would love to connect with folks over books, recipes, etc.

u/Kwesi_Cooks — 11 days ago

Has anyone dealt with hyperpigmentation from T shots?

I do .3 subq. I’ve been on T for 9 weeks and cycling between my stomach and my thighs. I don’t bruise and I rarely even bleed after my shots (the little dot in the pic is genuinely the most visible injection site I’ve ever had). And as y’all can see, I have no dark marks where the needle actually went in.

I’ve been getting hyperpigmentation essentially where the oil spreads under my skin (it’s kinda cool because I can see it spread as I’m pushing). I’ve got no clue what to do about it though. It’s a bit irritating that most of the shots I’ve done are visible and not fading. They’re much more visible in person than in photos as my camera generally makes me look a lot more pale than I am irl (I’m mixed). Any of y’all have advice?

u/TiredFaceRyder — 10 days ago

Hope I don’t look like a butch lesbian lmao

I’ve been working out for two weeks too and continuing! Hopefully my hard work will make me look more masc and I can eventually go bra-less w/o looking like I got chest water balloons. Can’t go on t yet btw (possibly ever because of personal medical issues) so I’m doing the best I can! Yall are free to give advice ✌🏾

Pics are in order from new to old

u/ColoredHaired_Nerd — 10 days ago

To those with a big chest how are y'all coping

I just feel so defeated man i don't even know anymore. I have J cups so binding hardly does shit for me, I'm getting a custom binder soon but I don't even have much hope for it i can't lie. Can't get tape to work either i just ended up with scars on my chest. I'm too afraid to even dress more masculine because i fear people will take one look at me and think "stud" . It's to a point where I'm just considering getting a reduction (even though i know i will be deeply unhappy with it) because it's the only thing my insurance will cover and I'm in so much pain in my day to day life I just think about offing myself.

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u/SpiritedCar6088 — 10 days ago

Am I the only one who really struggled with dark thoughts or addiction before transitioning ?

Trigger warning: mention of s***dal thoughts
never encounter black ftm guys (or ftm guys period) who really shared my experience prior to discovering ftm transition. I was ready to give up. I often feel like I’m the only black FTM guy who suffered like this.

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u/Logical_Corner — 14 days ago

I feel really insecure about my height

I'm 5'0.5 according to my doctors and it's like. Ik I'm still a teenager but I don't even see much hope for me growing another 2 inches. You're supposed to stop growing shortly after your first period And I had my period 4 years ago. The only shoes I feel comfortable wearing are platforms because​ they make me feel taller and less... Weird yk?

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u/3mmett-kun — 12 days ago