Hii, i just wanted to say that i love infjs!! I wish i was one instead of a boring infp (-_-). You guys are really good at using intuition and its almost magical and also youre all really smart. I love that you genuinely care abt other people more than all the other personality types. And also youre really creative and sensitive but in a good way!! other types are lowk boring.

love ya <3

ps. Im new to reddit, i cant wait to participate more in this comunity and get to know yall! Im probably not as smart as you tho

I hope my brother wanted paying for my project.

INTJ Fi-Ni Loop vs INFJ Ni-Ti Loop

I am a GenX INTJ, wondering what looping is like for you’ll? For an INTJ, the Fi-Ni loop can be a real painful & dangerous time, caused by some kind of failure or betrayal. What triggers a Ni-Ti loop for you’ll, and what have you done to break it and/or prevent it?

See explanation below..

Looping Core Difference between INTJ & INFJ

• ⁠Dominant Dynamics: INTJ Fi-Ni Loop is described as Ni cycling through Fi, causing internal values to dominate and action functions to be neglected. "The Ni-Fi loop originates from your Introverted Intuition constantly running through your Introverted Feelings in order to find answers."
• ⁠INFJ Ni-Ti Loop is Ni paired with Ti while Fe/Se are neglected, producing overanalysis, isolation, and detachment from social reality. "INFJs...fall into a cognitive pattern known as the Ni-Ti loop—a state where they excessively rely on...Ni and Ti while neglecting...Fe and Se."

If you got a really bad vibe from someone, say a coworker and you just want to stay away as much as possible from them, is it too harsh to block them on Whatsapp and stuff like that?

I noticed that people in this sub use the INFJ-A and INFJ-T labels, which I'm pretty sure you can only get on the 16Personalities website. Do you trust that specific test? Why or why not?

Next time be honest from the get go to your next project. It's the right thing to do.

Why are you so upset, my child?
Your heart was loyal, soft, and mild?
You gave them years, you gave them trust,
And watched it crumble into fine dust?

They broke their word, betrayed your name,
And now you burn with a righteous flame?
You want them banished from your sight,
Excommunicated, day and night?

I know it stings. I know it’s real.
But there is purpose in this feel.
The wound you carry is a guide,
A teacher walking by your side.

Zoom out, child, zoom out.
You’re trapped inside a storm of doubt.
Your fear is in charge, my dear,
Your mind is loud, your truth unclear.

Zoom out, child, zoom out again.
For wisdom waits beneath the pain.
Seek the lesson, not the ache;
Get out of your head, for heaven’s sake.

Zoom out, child, you’re in your head,
It’s clarity and grounding you need, not dread.
Keep zooming out, let your boundaries disperse,
Until you are one with the universe.

The hurt you curse with trembling breath
Is building up your inner depth.
It builds up your inner strength,
And steadies you through life’s length.

They did not take what made you whole
They only clarified your soul.
They shaped the fire that made you grow,
And carved the truth you needed to know.

This fall is not your doom or end;
It is the moment you ascend.
Your innocence becomes your art;
Your wisdom grows a stronger heart.

Every time you’re gripped by doubt,
Zoom out beyond the anxiety cloud.
And you will see, when all is through:
Fate will show you what’s real and true.

So zoom out, my child
And see beyond the thoughts that are wild.
Don’t become bitter, don’t give up the fight,
And help yourself and others, turn pain into light.

Zoom out, my child, zoom out. And you will see clearly.

Stay Zoomed Out ✌️

Usually I am terrible with making jokes and getting jokes. I am that person that feels hurt after a joke. But it's not always like this. I sometimes do get jokes and even make light jokes myself but most of the times I just don't get them, or I take longer to process them.

I could walk an old stranger lady 3km to her home on the streets and go about my day feeling like the most accomplished man in the world... while other people feel accomplished for buying a lamborghini.

I second guess my decisions constantly... and sometimes I instantly regret them. But people sometimes still "convince" me to do stuff I'd otherwise normally don't do, such as drinking or partying. I hate clubs but sometimes because the entire crowd is trying to convince me to go with them I may fall prey to my Fe, only to regret the decision afterwards... Glass shards on the dance floor, my favorite jacket getting slightly scratched... the volume of the music too loud... drunk people all around me feeling like they could snap at any moment... my shoes wet from all the alcohol people accidentally dropped on the floor...