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My husband took my dog out for a walk I don't even remember what day, I think last Thursday and it's just been a nightmare ever since. My dog collapsed and wouldn't walk anymore I thought it was heat stroke and I took him to the vet and they said it was this ivdd and his hind legs are paralyzed. I can't afford surgery I don't know if he'll get better I can't keep him calm he poops on himself and wets himself all day long I feel like it's all that I do and I'm super overwhelmed and I have no clue what to do. I can't hold him up and wipe them at the same time. My bot like $200 worth of supplies and wraps and I feel like I go through one an hour I don't know how I'm even going to pay for all this . If I leave them in the crate he screams and cries until I put him next to me I don't know what to do. It's become a full-time job. I have four dogs total three cats and I'm raising my group two grandchildren and I am freaking out. Any suggestions? I'm sorry, it's a lot I'm just panicking I think. It also doesn't help that I have to lift him and I can barely walk myself because of the back injury