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Jack the Lad

Just binge watched the whole of LIB UK season 3 with my wife today. So, here's my take on that night Jack disappeared. Haven't seen anyone post this so hopefully not treading on old news.

Takes big Ryan Public Speaking breath in...

I think Jack was still in the building but just in another apartment, very likely up to no good.

  1. Jack was wearing sliders. Supposedly walked to West Ham if I recall, from Canada Water which is 2hrs at least, depending on walking speed. However, if he didn't need to actually walk far ie. Popping to another apartment in the same building, he can just put his sliders on (tbf my equivalent is my flip flops).

  2. He's not from London so how did he navigate around in any direction if he turned his phone off. I live in South London and I still regularly use a maps app to get around when in an unfamiliar area, so how did he end up in a relatively central area still. And why cross the river to end up in West Ham when he easily could have stuck to south of the river considering he was unfamiliar and would have ended up in Camberwell, Dulwich or Blackheath. This is a bit of a shakier point.

  3. Faye mentioned he didn't even sound like he was outside. He left at 0500, so there would definitely be noise from traffic, especially in a built up area like West Ham. That's because he wasn't there. He was in the building.

  4. They apparently had some friends over. Who's to say there weren't "friends" from the building too, who blended into this after party at theirs. Or people Jack and Faye had met during the filming when getting the lift or general in and out of the building.

  5. Didn't want to show Faye his phone. He apparently Ubered back but then he'd have to have shown her his receipt. He mentioned Strava but then it would have a record of his "walk" route. Neither existed because he was in the building.

  6. Find my Friend app doesn't just turn off location tracking by itself, as Faye's mother pointed out so eloquently. He's 30yo, clearly knows how to use his phone. The "I don't know" is such an easy and convenient escape route. Plus, if he had the tracker on, Faye would've seen he was still in the building and he definitely can't use the "needed a walk" excuse then

  7. How did his phone even have battery left at 0600ish. He said he turned it off to "escape" for a bit (you could just turn it to silent like most of us millennials do). But, considering they had been out all day, then partied the night away, then had this after party at theirs, it feels unlikely that ADHD Jack was organised enough to charge his phone. But if Jack was in someone's apartment, then he had access to a charger.

  8. "This [phone] is where I draw the line. You either trust me or you don't" is a great manipulative line. He said he's had issues in the past with exes, so clearly learnt this when he gets caught. It's such matter of fact that will make someone who is vulnerable thing they're in the wrong.

  9. He gaslight the hell outta Faye when she questioned him. "I'm not gonna get upset with you. I'm not gonna get angry with you. But there must be a reason you have this lack of trust, but whatever that is babe, that's on you". Well of course she's Sus. The man she's supposed to marry in 2 weeks just got up and left with zero comms. I'm prepared to wrestle anyone with a rusty spoon if they try to argue otherwise.

Breathes... Okay, any thoughts?

EDIT I can totally accept point 1 on the sliders as someone who regularly walks everywhere in flip flops. I can totally accept point 2 on the distance. Errmmm... Points 3 to 9 please?

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u/kevlar90 — 11 days ago
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When love turns into physical abuse

So... writing this with a heavy heart and lots of tears in my eyes....I faced and felt something that I never wanted to...so I am in a relationship with a guy for more than 2 years and it is going to be 3 years in this month only....I had blind faith in him i believed that he would never talk to any girl as he made me block my each and every male friend I was or I am so in love with him...that I never saw any thing wrong in him he was like a god to me i use to fast for this health and welfare use to touch his feets as if he is my husband....one day I was at my home there was a wedding at my home and I was unable to talk to him.properly then he talked with his female bestie about oyo and all which I didn't like somehow he managed to make me understand at that time again I was at my home for 1 week the night I left the station he masg a girl who is showing her cleavage and her butts in her instagram posts he messaged her that " Which gym you usually go you have a nice figure"....he use to like posts of the girls at insta I have questioned several times but I never made an issue out of it....I was in a car with him when I found out about this message as it was forgotten to be deleted I saw those messages and he snatched his mobile phone from my hand and started shouting at me - how many times I have told you not to check my phone....I was stunned at that moment it was the moment which felt like I was living in betrayal....we have booked an Airbnb where we had to stay for the day....he started saying that - we are not going to the room other wise you will shout at me and many other things to me that were mean....and I was in shock...I was feeling that I had lost him which was the worst feeling ever..

I convinced him to go upstairs as I wanted to spend that last day with him...we went to the room he doesn't say anything like no sorry or anything....he undressed me and started having s*x with me and I was still in shock i didn't feel anything my face was reactionless throughout..... he was my face but he didn't stop there he has done everything that he wanted to do....and at last he didn't even asked why I am not saying anything or not reacting at all...that felt like a rape to me....I was crying from inside i thought he would apologise but he didn't i started crying and I cried for straight 2 or 3 hours and all he said was - why are you crying so much did I sleep with her? Again he convinced me and I stopped crying and again he has done the same thing he started having s*x with me and again I wasn't able to stop him....and I am still with that person because i cannot live without him...I love him a lot but he is not the same person anymore ....it hurts a lot a lot 💔

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u/Majestic_Date_4338 — 10 days ago

Gavin and Stacey/ Taylor and Sophie

I’m from the US but early on I was thinking how Taylor and Sophie reminded me so much of Gavin and Stacey… but I didn’t know why. Then in an episode I heard a comment calling them G&S — so I’m onto something but I still am not sure why beyond attractive blonde female/ dark hair male.

Can someone from the UK explain why someone from the UK sees it too? Is there more to it than that? Thanks

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u/rapscallionish — 10 days ago

Sort of spoiler…..don’t read if you haven’t watched at least halfway through.

I’m so bored of people going on dating shows clearly intending to turn it into a reality TV/influencer career. It’s so fucking obvious now. Maybe you could get away with it in the early days, but we’ve all seen this playbook a thousand times. And it’s even worse when you’re stringing along someone who is genuinely there to find love.
Ryan, you absolute cock. We’re bored. Get a new plan. Bye.

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u/The_Right_Mistake — 10 days ago