r/Newolderlesbians

Welcome to Single Sunday; a weekly space for anyone who wants to chat, mingle, make friends, or see whether a connection develops.

Introduce yourself, share a little about what you’re looking for, and feel free to reply to anyone who catches your interest. Keep things respectful, low-pressure, and friendly.

A quick safety reminder: please don’t post private information such as your full name, address, phone number, workplace, personal email, or exact location. Take your time getting to know people, keep early conversations on Reddit, and only move to private messages or other platforms when you feel comfortable.

No hookups, sexual solicitation, explicit photos, or unsolicited sexual messages. Respect a “no” and report anyone who makes you uncomfortable.
Have fun and be kind to one another!

Please report any user that sends unwanted sexual messages.

Welcome to our weekly Friendly Friday thread; a place for friendly, platonic conversation and connection among members of the sub.

Feel free to introduce yourself, chat with other members, or share whatever has been going on in your life. Some ideas to get the conversation started:

• Interesting news or articles you have seen
• Personal news, updates, or accomplishments
• Something you are looking forward to
• Complaints, frustrations, or things you need to vent about
• Books, movies, shows, music, hobbies, or games
• Questions, advice, or general conversation
• Funny stories or small moments from your week

You do not need to have anything exciting to share. Even a simple “How is everyone doing?” is welcome.

Please remember that this thread is for platonic community and conversation. Be respectful, protect your personal information, and most importantly have fun engaging with other members in the community.

What’s on your mind this Friday?

Ok so I know I’m on the neurospicy side but omg. I just want some people around my age to go to dinner or whatever with. Completely friends. I’m nerdy so that doesn’t help but when I’ve tried I get flakes who cancel last minute or the last one was racist and I’m not interested in being friends with someone like that. I’ve been thinking of just posting in my local discord something like married old lesbian looking for platonic occasional dinner companion. I’ll be at x restaurant on Tuesday and wearing green if yall want to meet up or something. Finding others at work hasn’t worked as no one wants to leave their house except for grandchildren. Mutual hobbies doesn’t work since my hobbies are nerdy and ttrpg related so lots of people under 40.

Edit to add: I’m in Rochester NY. I have tried finding meetups but they all charge money here now and I don’t want to keep paying for things that aren’t working for me.