r/Oceanside

Where to walk anxious dog?

TLDR: I live near the base/Mission, where can I walk my anxious dog with less people/triggers?

I adopted a dog a few months ago, and she is on the anxious side, but definitely needs plenty of exercise. She will fearfully bark at strangers, and will run if approached by any dog bigger than a frenchie.

I’m doing my best to try to expose her and train her, but it’s near impossible to find a time and place where we have the distance from others required for her to calmly observe and grow more comfortable with dogs and people.

In the area I live front yards are gated, which makes for very poor visibility.

I try to cross the street when I can, but every driveway feels like a jump scare waiting to happen, a person behind a car, a dog out of its yard behind some bushes or trees.

I’ve tried to go back in the wash where the bike path is, where there is good visibility and less foot traffic, but that seems to be where everyone walks to let their dogs run off leash too, so I end up having to turn back, as only half of people will leash to cross paths.

A nearby park, same problem! Hordes of off leash dogs!!! Usually easier to avoid but not entirely possible.

Where can I go to get a break?!

I know my dog won’t get better if I lock her inside, and that’s just cruel to do as well, but every walk is incredibly stressful. It sucks to start my day off with peak anxiety every day to make sure she is getting what she needs, even though it causes her anxiety too!

I’m just sad and anxious and hoping for solutions, or at least commiseration.

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u/thatssostudent — 14 hours ago
▲ 115 r/Oceanside

Is there truth to this? 🤔

How many people have seen these 2 Oceanside Legends?

Better question, how many people have seen them both on the same day? 😜

u/eatingoceanside — 1 day ago

Free tickets were cancelled for the SuperGirl concerts this weekend. They're still selling VIP tickets. 🤔

Well that's shady...

u/AllTheTeslas — 2 days ago

Ranch Del Oro Fiber?

So obnoxious, I absolutely loath cox, service, predatory data caps, just garbage monopoly across the board. What is everyone doing in the neighborhood?
Is everyone just eating shit from them and dealing with it?

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u/WimpysRevenge — 3 days ago

Best Restaurant for Special Occasions?

Surprising my wife with a trip to Oceanside in October and staying at Mission Pacific. What is the best restaurant for a very nice dinner on a Saturday night celebrating a birthday? Neither of us have been to Oceanside and are both major foodies. Love a really good atmosphere when dining as well.

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u/515Cyclone — 3 days ago

Who booked Hippie Sabotage for the SuperGirl Comp? 👀

E: organizers, cancel these fools. We ain’t got no time for violence in the city, bro. We can handle violence, but we damn sure don’t do it on a stage. We handle that shit like men. These are not men.

They were kooks 10 years ago. My opinions on their music aside, as a guy who spent his fair share of time in the pit, these dudes can go to hell. And to think they got booked for a women’s event would you want your daughters around these fools?

I’m a little disappointed in my community.

For the record, this was their response to being asked to e: end* their set. In the middle of the day. It’s not like they were headliners, some things never change I guess.

u/northammedia — 3 days ago

Any non - Zionist Jewish communities / people in Oside?

I think the answer is probably no …. But please, prove me wrong. I have bounced around SD for a bit. Now in Oside, grew up in LA. looking for community, wanting to reconnect with my culture in a way that feels authentic and right for me but in community with others.

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u/Klutzy_Dot_3931 — 4 days ago

Best Gyms

Hey all, I’m moving from the Midwest to Oceanside soon. I’m really big into the gym and have been going to Anytime Fitness for the past 7 or so years, it’s been the closest to where I live. Obviously looking to continue my fitness journey, so I am trying to see what the local reviews are.

What are the best recommendations to check out? I’ve seen a lot about Fitness 19.

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 3 days ago
▲ 135 r/Oceanside

ICE spotted in Oceanside

just saw a convoy in rental minivans, Oceanside Blvd / Rancho Del Oro. Be careful guys.

Edit: Was driving while posting this so I had to keep it short. Seen heading west bound on Oceanside Blvd leaving the hotels near Frontwave Stadium. Probably around 10 rental Chrysler Pacifica’s, all solo drivers. One drove on the wrong side of the road against traffic to get back into the convo. Dressed in their usual LARP gear.

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u/lumpk1n — 6 days ago
▲ 341 r/Oceanside+3 crossposts

It's time to swordfight, brah. Free, Weapons Provided, Make new Friends.

📍 Play Saturday @ 1:00 PM at Buddy Todd Park in Oceanside.

San Diego Sword Fighting (Amtgard) is a free, full-contact foam fighting sport that combines medieval combat with speed tag. It's a real-life video game: a fast-paced, high-cardio social club where you run around, make friends, get outside, and hit people with foam swords, spears, bows, and magic.

  • Gear Provided: We bring a bin full of extra swords and shields.
  • No Experience Needed: We teach every new person the basics in about 5 minutes.
  • Absolutely Free: Play when you want, if you want.

Who is this for? Anyone 14+ who wants to have fun. We have a mix of athletes, gamers, and people just looking for a place to hang out. If you're shy, you're absolutely welcome to just come watch.

How to join: Just show up. We meet every Saturday at Buddy Todd Park in Oceanside starting around 1:00 PM.

We're usually on the main hill of the park on the north side of the parking lot. You really can't miss us.

Join the Club: If you want to say hi before you drive up, hop in our Discord: https://discord.gg/Xr9h2Vumux

See you on the field. ⚔️

u/Nat20_Charisma — 6 days ago
▲ 169 r/Oceanside

I want to get Flock cameras out of Oceanside

...but I don't know how to go about doing that by myself. Is there anyone here who would be interested in starting a campaign with me to get city council to get flock cameras out of our city? It'll take time and effort, but I really want to do something about this.

Other people have gotten Flock out of their cities before, so I know we can too. If you're interested and want to help, please reach out.

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u/soyboy60000 — 5 days ago

Mold prevention in this humidity?

We just moved here and expected socal to be dry but alas, my dehumidifier is working non-stop and my indoor humidity is 50-70 depending on time of day. Today I noticed mold/mildew starting to grow on my bathroom ceiling. What do others do to combat the humidity??

I have a dehumidifier in my living room, but our bathroom has just a small window (no outlet for a dehumidifier or fan). I open it and the door after showering, but have been leaving the bathroom window open overnight to help cool the bedroom and the nighttime humidity has been…a lot.

Will it always be like this here? What else can I do besides attempt to dehumidify all of north county?

Please don’t tell me to run the AC 24/7, we simply cannot afford that with electric prices here lol

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u/SomewhereRepulsive39 — 4 days ago

Do you ever take the ocean for granted?

Hi, I love Oceanside every time I visit. I live about an hour away and am only able to get there once every few months. I long to move to the area and have the opportunity to next year. My question for locals is, how often do you take advantage of the ocean, beaches and community events? Does it ever get old for you? I worry that moving there will cause Oceanside to lose its “magic”, and the novelty of visiting only 4-6x per year is what makes it special. Please weigh in if you’d like. Thanks.

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u/SaladOk5687 — 6 days ago
▲ 67 r/Oceanside+1 crossposts

Oceanside may raise sales taxes to fix a crumbling pier and build police, fire stations

Hot take...I say let the pier go.

The wealthy equity firms buying up all the real estate really should pay for this upgrade.

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u/jimi3 — 6 days ago
▲ 152 r/Oceanside

Domestic abuse in parking lot (please help ID)

I just saw some bracolli haired teenager slam a girl on the parking lot ground. She then got into the passenger seat of his car looking terrified (Green BMW). Can anyone help ID, because I fear the girl is in danger.

I sent info to the police. And I couldn't intervene because I was working with a client who is blind and autistic, so running across the parking lot wasnt an option

u/lenny_lifts — 6 days ago
▲ 103 r/Oceanside+5 crossposts

Roller Derby Boot Camp Orientation August 30th!

Want to try something life-changing? Hidden City Roller Derby, North Country and Oceanside's local Roller Derby League for almost 20 years is hosting our Fall new skater orientation Sunday, August 30th at 5:00 PM at the MLK Park Roller Rink!

No experience required, even if you have never skated, we will teach you how. We even have some loaner gear for the first couple of weeks.

Modern derby isn’t your parent's staged 1970s TV wresting knock off, it is a real, full-contact sport played on roller skates. Building community and empowering players since 2008!

Come to our orientation where we will explain the gear, how our new skater program works, and how you can join this incredible community. Our spring camp was an absolute blast with an amazing group of new skaters. If you were on the fence then, don't miss another opportunity.

Plus, stay after orientation to watch our first practice after our August break to see what derby is all about!

Come roll with us! 🛼🛼🛼HCRD Por Vida!

u/HiddenCityRD — 6 days ago

I redesigned the flags of 20 more socal cities, including Oceanside! (swipe for details)

u/shutupaugust — 7 days ago