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Not entirely getting along with family. Any recommendations are welcome. Thank you so much

Does anyone know what is the meetup time at south O for the annual Fourth of July morning bike ride? Went a couple years ago and it was so fun!

My wife grew up in Oceanside and spent several years in the area around Libby Lake. We are looking into moving to Oceanside in a few years, and Libby Lake area is appealing from a price standpoint. My wife has some reservations about it because of some things (violence, crime, etc.) that happened there 15-20 years ago while her family was living there. I've heard that it has cleared up a lot recently, but I thought I'd ask. What are your thoughts about it?

Looking for a new dentist. My current dentist threw a ridiculous quote for a root canal and crown…which my insurance should cover.

Trying to get someone who’s very willing to work with insurance to maximize my dental work.

Let us know what you’re up to this weekend in the comments!

🗓️ Upcoming Events in North County:

Thursday 7/2:

Oceanside Sunset Market | Coast Hwy & Pier View Way, Oceanside | Thurs 5–9pm | Get there before the sun drops. That's when the food vendors are at their best and the lines are shortest. Several blocks of food stalls, local makers, and live music along the water, free to walk, and enough going on to make a real night of it.

Carlsbad Village Books Grand Opening | 640 Grand Ave, Carlsbad | Thurs, opens 10am | Opening day for the Village's new independent bookstore, taking over the longtime O'Sullivan's pub space. New and used books, board games, gifts, and Marla's Coffee inside, open seven days a week now. There's a fuller story on it further down.

In The End (Linkin Park Experience) with Fooz Fighters | Belly Up, 143 S Cedros Ave, Solana Beach | Thurs 8pm | Two tribute acts with one working through the Linkin Park catalog and the other taking on Foo Fighters, with Radio Thieves opening. Loud, fast, and a good warmup for the weekend if you grew up on early-2000s rock.

Open Mic Night at Docent Brewing | Docent Brewing, 3060 State St, Carlsbad | Thurs 5–8pm | Weekly open mic in Carlsbad Village. Musicians, poets, and comics take the little stage while the taproom pours. Free to watch, a mellow way to kick off the long weekend with a beer in hand before the fireworks take over the rest of it.

Friday 7/3:

Oceanside Fireworks & Drone Display | SoCal Sports Complex at El Corazon, 3300 El Corazon Dr, Oceanside | Fri, gates 4pm, show 9pm | The show starts the night before the holiday, a drone display paired with fireworks over the fields. Parks & Rec sets up lawn games and crafts, a DJ starts at 6, and food trucks cover dinner. Free to attend, but parking is $15 on-site, or take the Sprinter to Rancho del Oro and walk in. Bring a blanket.

Dave & Buster's Red, White & Play Fest | Dave & Buster's, Carlsbad | Fri, all day | An all-day, all-inclusive pass with unlimited arcade play, an all-American food spread, live music, and a pretzel dog eating contest. Tickets start at $25 and have to be bought ahead through Fever. They are offering an even better deal on July 4th, $2.50 unlimited game play for anyone who buys before noon (you can’t earn tickets, but a steal if you just want to play games).

Saturday 7/4:

San Diego County Fair Fireworks Spectacular | Del Mar Fairgrounds, 2260 Jimmy Durante Blvd, Del Mar | Sat 9pm | The fair's big send-off on its final weekend. Marine Band San Diego plays the Corona Grandstand at 7:30, then the fireworks cap the night. Admission to the fair covers all of it, so you get the whole fairgrounds all day first.

LEGOLAND Red, White & BOOM! | LEGOLAND California, 1 Legoland Dr, Carlsbad | Sat, park 10am–9pm, fireworks ~8:45pm | The park hands out 3D glasses that make the fireworks finale pop overhead, LEGO bricks and all. DJ dance parties, character meetups, and lawn games fill the day. Covered by regular admission and select passes, so no separate show ticket to buy.

Escondido 61st Annual Independence Day Festival | Grape Day Park, 340 N Escondido Blvd, Escondido | Sat 4:30–9:30pm | Live music on the main stage, an artisan market, a craft beer garden, and face painting and crafts for the kids until 8:30. Fireworks go up from the Center for the Arts lot at 9.

San Marcos Red, White and BOOM! | Bradley Park, 1587 Linda Vista Dr, San Marcos | Sat 5–9:30pm | The whole park turns into a fair for the night, with live music, carnival games, jumpers, and food for sale, and fireworks at 9. Bring blankets and chairs. It's free to get in, but parking fills up fast, so carpool or plan to arrive early.

Vista Independence Day Celebration | Brengle Terrace Park, 1200 Vale Terrace Dr, Vista | Sat, gates 5pm, fireworks 9pm | Head to the Moonlight Amphitheatre for a City Council salute to the country's 250th at 7:15, then singer Cassie B at 7:35, then fireworks after dark.

4th of July BBQ & Firework Spectacular | Park Hyatt Aviara, 7100 Aviara Resort Dr, Carlsbad | Sat 5:30–8:30pm | A big BBQ spread of mesquite meats and seafood, a mac and cheese bar, a separate kids' buffet, and live music from the Chad Rubin Band. Stilt walkers and face painters roam the lawn, and there's a fireworks show over the resort. Ticketed, so book ahead.

4th of July Flyover | Mission Pacific Beach Resort, 201 N Myers St, Oceanside | Sat, 4pm | The San Diego Salute Formation sends vintage Beechcraft T-34 trainers over the Oceanside Pier, opening with a Presentation of the Colors before the planes go up. Free to watch from the sand or the pier. If you want a seat, the Mission Pacific and Seabird have ocean-view patios and a pool deck open through the afternoon.

The Fourth at Fox Point Farms | Fox Point Farms, 1150 Quail Gardens Dr, Encinitas | Sat 12–4pm | The low-key alternative to the fireworks crowds. A daytime lawn party at the farm with food, drinks, live music, and open space to spread out, more a relaxed afternoon than a launch-site scramble. It wraps by late afternoon, so you can still catch an evening show after.

Sunday 7/5:

San Diego County Fair, Closing Day | Del Mar Fairgrounds, 2260 Jimmy Durante Blvd, Del Mar | Sun 11am–11pm | Last chance before it packs up for the year. If you skipped the fireworks, Sunday is your shot at the food, the rides, and the exhibits. Expect holiday-weekend crowds, so go early and wear good shoes.

The Highwayman Show | Belly Up, 143 S Cedros Ave, Solana Beach | Sun | A tribute to the country supergroup, so Cash, Nelson, Jennings, and Kristofferson all in one set. Expect the four-part harmonies, the outlaw catalog, the big hits and a few deeper cuts. If you spent the Fourth chasing fireworks, this is the calm landing, a mellow way to close out a loud weekend.

Edit: I meant to say Surfrider and N Cleveland 🤦‍♀️

We are considering renting in that area with our 7yo daughter. Just for a year or two to have fun living down by the beach. Does anyone else live down there or know someone who does and can weigh in on the safety factor of the area? Is it sketchy at night? Also, how crazy does that train horn make you?

We’ve lived in Oside for about 6 years now so we’re super familiar with the area and go there a lot. Just haven’t lived there or been walking around at night in that area much.

Thanks in advance!

Looking for recommendations for an affordable and quick mini split installation in Oceanside. Thanks!

Just something that I think of every time I cross the tracks through the tunnel towards Tyson St: I wish the ceiling would have been painted in the style of the surface of the water seen from below.

Actually the ground could have painted as sand as well. The entire mural is fantastic and it brightens the entire otherwise dirty tunnel, but I wish they would have kept going with the ceiling/floor.

That’s all

It seems like a great location already set up for food service. What's the deal?

Edit: apparently it is considered part of the mall!

I am going to be volunteering at the hospital soon… Does anybody know where I can get white scrubs?