r/WeddingsCanada

Hi there, I’m looking to get a 2mm 14k gold band for myself, and a 5mm or 6mm 14k gold band for my fiancé. I’m seeing a big price difference online (blue Nile, Ben moss, Costco, peoples, etc), and I was hoping to get recommendations from you all. I found a gold price on Etsy, but the band looks very thin and I want a band that won’t wear down quickly of course. Where did you all get your bands and are you happy with the price and longevity?

Pls I am struggling so hard, we are estimating 80ish people for our October wedding. I am based out of Windsor Ontario. I want to buy bulk white glass plates, gold utensils and wine glasses but have no idea where to start. I keep looking at marketplace on Facebook but no luck (we got our water cups, carafes, charger plates, new napkins, etc from fb marketplace for quite a good deal) any one that can give me some leads I’ll send you a piece of our wedding cake.

Hi everyone! Looking for some honest opinions because I’m feeling a bit unsure about this.

I’m getting married in Fall 2027, and some of my wedding party have started asking about planning a bridal shower. I’ve never been to one before, so I don’t really know what they’re like or what the expectations are (flow of the day, who gets invited, etc.).

What I’m really struggling with is the gift aspect. I feel kind of guilty about the idea of asking people to come together and give me gifts twice (once for a bridal shower and again at the wedding). I don’t want it to come across as a gift grab, and while I's not against having a one, I am worried about many different perspectives or offending people.

For context:

• My side is pretty small, just my mom and sister attending
• My fiancé isn’t very close with his extended family, but we do see them a few times a year (holidays, milestone events, etc.)

I would love to hear:

• Did you enjoy your bridal shower (or attending one)?
• Did it feel meaningful/fun, or more like an obligation?
• Is it appropriate to invite the groom’s family if you’re not super close?
• Is it totally fine to skip having a bridal shower altogether? If you've skipped one, did you regret it or feel like you missed out on a bridal-era event?

Part of me likes the idea of a small, low-key get-together, but the traditional “get together so you can give me gifts” vibe feels uncomfortable to me.

Would really appreciate hearing different experiences or perspectives, especially from people who felt unsure about it too!

Other than the obvious “can you attend”, “what is the name of your guest / +1”, and “do you have any dietary requests/restrictions”, what are some helpful questions to ask on your online RSVP? Thank you!!

We’re planning a brunch (11am - 3pm) restaurant buyout wedding in Toronto. The restaurant is a mix of indoors & patio.

We were set on a date in mid-August due to its sentimental value, but photographers say that August midday is the worst time to take photos. The “first look” portraits would be at 9am, but the sun would be high up already due to time of year.

We’re planning to spend a significant amount of our budget on photography, so I don’t want to set us up to fail or make their job impossible.

If anyone’s had a midday wedding, how did your photos turn out? Should we book a date in September or October instead?

I tried to search here but having a hard time finding a post about MB weddings.

I had my baby last year, and I’m getting married in August. I gained 50lbs by the end of my pregnancy, and I’ve lost most of it. I’m still carrying an extra 15lbs which I don’t think I’ll lose before my wedding. I love a sweet treat, and I work in an office setting so not much movement.

Anyways. I’m struggling to accept I won’t “look my best” on my wedding day. I’m self conscious particularly of my arms. My dress is pretty and quite forgiving, but I don’t feel as good as I wish I could.

Anyone in a similar boat? Any words of wisdom?

Hello,

Just as the title says, we’re having our small intimate civil wedding next week and I have NOTHING to wear. 😭 Either my clothes don’t fit me anymore, or if they do fit, they just don’t look good on me.

I’ve been trying on dresses and every single time I tell my partner I look like a penguin. 🐧 I’m short (5’0) with a very obvious baby belly, and honestly the whole process has been exhausting physically and emotionally. I actually had a breakdown last week trying to find something decent to wear.

Since it’s only a simple civil wedding(2 other witnesses), would it be okay if I just wore maternity leggings with a nice white formal top/blouse? I don’t want people to think I didn’t make an effort, but your girl is TIRED. 😭

Did anyone else here go super simple for their wedding outfit while pregnant? I just want to feel comfortable and not cry while getting dressed lol.

where can i get married with little celebration just a ceremony and dinner w some nature for less than 10k and like 30 people or is that possible in ontario

My fiancé and I are just starting our wedding planning process, but are set on having a semi-intimate sit down restaurant wedding in the GTA for about 90 guests.

We're planning on having either a courthouse ceremony or doing something somewhere else.

We don't want any dance floor, so the food and restaurant aesthetics are the main factors. My fiancé and some of his family are gluten free and dairy free, so we are looking for a place that can accommodate different dietary restrictions

Some venues we're thinking about checking out are:

• Canoe
• Alder
• Kasa Moto
• Lee's

Thanks in advance 🎉

Already have a makeup artist, looking for someone reasonably priced for hair only

Getting married at city hall in mid June and looking for a photographer. Does anyone have any recommendations for someone who specializes in elopements? I’ve seen a lot of wedding photographers offering elopement packages for 1-3k and that just seems insane to me. We need someone for 1.5hrs max! Thanks!

Where do women of Toronto or Ottawa shop for wedding guest dresses? I have a few weddings this year. I'm late 20's and I feel I'm either looking at prom dresses or dresses that feel too casual.

Hello! I am looking for hair and makeup MUA’s to help 2-3 of my bridesmaids get ready on Oct 2,2026( must offer mobile services) if anyone offers these services or has recommendations please reach out :)

We have our second anniversary coming up and finally getting around to printing our photos. Does anyone have good recommendations for photo books? Located in Alberta.

I have heard about:
- MILK (too expensive)
- Pikto (mixed reviews due to low quality once uploaded to gallery but like that it’s based on Canada)
- Shutterfly (quality is ?)
- Mixbook
- Printique (positive reviews but worry about the duties and extra fees I have to pay?

Any and all comments are appreciated!

I am trying to decide between Graydon Hall Manor and Casa Loma (library/conservatory/terrace) for an evening wedding reception in July 2027.

Based on aesthetics, I prefer GHM - I like the tent/outside area, although the inside is dated.

I am worried about how hot the tent might get in the summer. They mentioned they have fans but not sure how much this is going help. Also, if it ends up raining, we’d have to move the dinner inside which is honestly not that nice.

Also, would 200 people be too tight for the tent? This is their max capacity so not sure how tight this will feel.

Our other option is Casa Loma which is stunning Their inside is definitely nicer than GHM, but the terrace is quite small and we’d only be able to have cocktails on the terrace.

Both venues have caterers who can do south Asian food but not sure how good it is - has anyone tried the south Asian food at either spots?

Thank you!

Has anyone ordered bridesmaid dresses from Birdy Grey to Canada? Were there any duties charged or issues to shipping? Also wondering what the quality of the dresses is like - I have only ever ordered from Azazie, but am not finding the exact colour I want there.

Any feedback or reviews would be much appreciated, thanks!

Edit: if you have any other suggestions for bridesmaid sites that are located or ship to Canada, please let me know!