He used to do that a lot back in the days, and it used to anger me a lot since I was very repressed and an egg. But now, he did it again, but after having accepted myself, and comming out to my friend group, and it was very funny and ewwphoric to hear that.
Hii im like totally knew here however I totally feel like i should say ive been out for 6 years as mtf and almost 1.5 years on hrt but I have been socially transitioning to the point i pass with ease however I judt had this guy checking me out while I was at the store and he was kinda following me at first and now im sitting in my car thinking that was creepy. Like this guy was hard-core staring at me and when i looked at him all he said was hi and how he liked my shorts. Like im sitting here like why are some people so creepy. Like i know I pass but like it was the first time I went out of my apartment in shorts on without my roommate there as well. Like im happy to be passing but not by a creepy guy like that.
My 17yo son and I were on our driveway this morning rotating tires on our car. Holding torque wrenches, covered in brake dust, totally minding our business.
We live on an older street with no sidewalks. An older lady walking down the road locks eyes with me, turns 90 degrees, and marches straight up my private driveway.
I figured she was lost or needed directions, so I paused, assuming she needed help.
Instead, she gets right in front of me, looks me up and down, and asks:
"Are you a boy or a girl?"
No "hello." No "excuse me."
I’m a trans woman. I was dumbfounded. I froze for about three seconds at the sheer audacity, then held her gaze and said:
"I'm a girl."
She makes the most skeptical face imaginable, goes "...Okay," spins on her heel, and walks back down the driveway like she just completed a daily side quest.
My son and I just stood there in frozen disbelief until he broke the silence: "What the fuck was that?"
You expect weird looks out in public, but being interrogated on your own private property is on a whole different level of bizarre.