
Items permanently lost on death will fall into the end.
Permanently lost items are items that have burnt, exploded, destroyed, despawned or fallen into the void. This would apply to any lost items, not just ones you've lost on death.
Another thing that could aid this is a universal rule in the end that makes items never despawn. This would solve the "where would items go if they despawned in the end?"
This ultimately means that you can never actually lose any items permanently as they would always find their way to the end.
Another thing you could do is have some amount of endermen hold some of the lost items or blocks too. You can kill them to recollect them.