r/nasikatok

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I really dont wanna lose any relationship over this

Edit: karing sudh tu sanggup mau pyramid bahh.. susaah nya muu

Looking for social community in Brunei

Hello, im looking to meet new people and get involved in some social activities in Brunei.

Are there any active groups that welcome newcomers? Something like board games, D&D, pool, movie nights, book clubs, gaming, list of clubs or anything similar.

A place that is friendly to newcomers would be great. Thank you!

Hello im S i am an adult Malay male who was adopted by a very well off,religious and connected family in BN,as a child i was abused(sitting on the floor in the kitchen instead of eating at the dinner table,not allowed to eat certain things,was starved for days on end,left outside for days and nights,beaten)i was sent to live with my grandparents place at an early age after living a few years with my adopted parents.

during mid-high school i was constantly compared to my elder sisters and made to feel like a piece of shit compared to them,my whole life i was just made to feel like a burden.

growing up i made friends with some of the adopted kids from RF and realized that its a very common thing for adopted kids to be mistreated(the ones that arent the favourite ones atleast)

anyways sorry for the long intro,basically i followed everything my family has asked me to (education, the way i dress,how i present myself etc) i couldnt go to uni or do anything life related as early as everyone else due to needing to care for my grandma in her old age.

i have lost so much of in the past year and in my life in general and i sacrificed so much for the family that has done nothing but constantly judge me,i think i want to CS publicly so they can see what shit human beings they are.

tell me what i can do? can't move out because no job or money , cant live in a car because i don't have a car , can't find a job after i applied for so many even if i get a job i have no reliable transport.

i feel so behind in life my friends are getting married , have good jobs while im here just slowly withering away

any life advice at this point is appreciated thank you

I want to curhat sikit about my current workplace. Tampat ani inda pulang menggunakan banyak physical labor. Boss meliat usul ani macam pemalas ah? Tapi ia inda sadar, can't see past their arrogant and egotistical nose, yang sebanarnya I've been feeling burnt out for months sudah and mentally exhausted to the point of depression. Masaku banyak ditempat keraja ani. 8 jam pulang banar working hours atu but the way the hours are allocated is really bad and we end up ujung-ujungnya keraja dari pagi ke malam. 12 jam rasanya.

Work-life balance? 🙄 Apa itu?

Boss ani lagi nada empathy towards the staff. Selfish jenis orangnya, tamak and karit, dan pentingkan usin and customers. Public holidays pun buka, walaupun tiga-empat jam kah, asalkan buka. Entah lah ah, K.O kali rasanya kalau ia rugi $10 sehari atu. Kan dibawanya ke kubur kali usin atu.

Kalau diri ani laku and ada job offers lined up? Dui ma, lama sudah ku terabang.

I think I need help regarding my depression ani. I don't know who to talk to.

Curious Question

Has anyone from Brunei ever experienced or heard stories about Damuan having something unusual or “mysterious” around the river area? 👀

Just curious — has anyone here ever personally experienced anything unusual at Damuan, or heard similar stories from family/elders? Would love to hear your experiences. 😳