Do u guys think about Shibir,

As i grow up. There is rumor about them, are they true?

On the other day, some shibir guys reach me out and try to convince me joining them

I also watch them on FB doing Their work,

I wanna hear about your though about them, what’s their position in sylhet, why should i join them or not to join them

Any sylheti fellas here who got a versatile experience in the SEO industry? I'm gonna need some help.

It's literally all over my Facebook feed.

Apparently, a lot of roadside vendors and hawkers have been staging some kind of huge protest in response to the SCC evicting them from the streets. It has already been an issue for a couple of years, but things are really heating up quite a bit right now.

Of course, the comment sections (and most of the "Free Sylot" pages) are so full of bigotry towards "Abadis" that it felt like I accidentally walked into a Sylheti KKK rally. But I'm not delving too much into this topic since it has already been talked to death in this sub.

However, although FB comments generally tend to be a terrible representation of public opinion, a very large portion of Sylhetis do appear to be very much against the protests.

I've been away from Sylhet for over 3 years now, and so am kinda out of the loop regarding whatever's going on there. So can anyone who still lives there enlighten me regarding what is actually going on?

A Freethinker's Journey

Basic Information

Gender/Age: Male, 26 Years Old

Marital Status:Never Married

Height:5'7"

Blood Group :O+

Current Residence: Sylhet, Bangladesh

Ancestral Origin:Sylhet (Original Sylheti)

Socio-Economic Background: Upper-Middle Class

Profession:Government Official (16th Grade, Government of Bangladesh)

Core Philosophy & Persona

I identify as a rationalist, an ethical atheist, and a deeply reflective existentialist. To me, life is not a script written by a higher power, but a blank canvas where meaning is consciously crafted through humanism, empathy, and intellectual rigor. I view the world through the lenses of science, critical theory, and dialectical reason. Character-wise, I am emotionally stable, perceptive, and a dedicated listener who values substance over superficiality.

My worldview is profoundly shaped by an appreciation for personal liberty and systemic critique. Recognizing the socio-political realities and the inherent vulnerabilities faced by freethinkers in our current landscape, I do not see a sustainable future here. Therefore, my immediate trajectory is focused on global migration—specifically relocating to Europe post-marriage, where intellectual freedom, security, and a progressive lifestyle are fundamentally protected.

Passions & Leisure

My leisure is an active exploration of both the mind and the senses. I am deeply invested in reading, analyzing, and discussing science, continental philosophy, sociology, and contemporary socio-political dynamics.

Beyond academics, I have a vibrant zest for life. I am an avid cinemaphile and an explorer at heart who loves traveling to new destinations. Whether it is immersion in a profound book, experiencing the raw energy of a live concert, or engaging in late-night intellectual debates, I seek experiences that challenge the status quo and celebrate human creativity.

Partner Preferences: Seeking a Contemporary Mindsync

I am looking for an alluring, intellectually stimulating, and progressive woman who stands out not just in appearance, but in depth of character and intellect.

Philosophy & Outlook:She must be an absolute freethinker (Atheist/Agnostic/Humanist) who has transcended traditional dogmas, superficial social constructs, and religious orthodoxies. I desire a partner who looks at the universe with curiosity, logic, and an open mind.

Age Range: 21 to 25 years.

Global Readiness (Essential): Since the ultimate goal is to build a life in Europe, a candidate who is already preparing for or has completed her IELTS (with a good score) is highly preferred. She should share the same vision of relocating to a safer, more liberal society where we can thrive without constraints.

Vibe & Chemistry:I desire a woman who can be my best friend, an equal partner, and a co-traveler in this chaotic world. She should appreciate art, culture, and the beauty of free-mixing, while possessing a vibrant personality—someone who enjoys concerts, traveling, and unfiltered, deep conversations.

A Note on the Future: Our shared life will be entirely free from conventional religious expectations or societal hypocrisy. From our domestic lifestyle to raising a future generation, everything will be anchored on scientific temperament, mutual respect, and absolute gender equality. If you are a free spirit looking for an intellectual equal to embark on a global journey with, let’s connect.

As a guy, it was always easy to end up with male friends — random nonsense, and suddenly you’re brothers for years.

But somehow, my whole life passed without having a single female friend.

Maybe I’ve never really been good at making new friends. Maybe I’m too quiet at first, or maybe I just never knew how to start conversations properly.

Still, sometimes it genuinely feels sad knowing I’ve never had that kind of connection in my life.

So here I am trying to fix the lore.

If there’s any girl out there who wants a genuine friendship without weird pressure or fake flirting… my DMs are open

I’ve been with my girlfriend for two years. Before we started, I was completely transparent about who I am and my financial status. She accepted everything back then.

Now, when its time to talk about marriage, she is giving me a new excuse: she says that in her "lineage" (vongsho), love marriages are seen as a disgrace, so she can't even bring up a proposal to her parents.

​My question is: if she knew her family’s views on "relationship marriages" were so strict, why did she get involved with me in the first place? she says she can’t talk to her family because they consider relationship marriages shameful.

​I’ve lost so much time I could have used to grow my business and now she’s refusing to even try. It feels like she’s just waiting for an arranged marriage and used me for company for two years.

​She took my time, my energy, and my focus, and now she's throwing it away because she thinks she has better options. This isn't just a breakup; it feels like a scam. I’ve lost 2 years and massive professional growth. What should I do now for get cheated? What action can be take? What are the strict steps I can take? I feel completely cheated.

Hello, Is anyone interest to practice speaking regularly, as a Sylheti i'm looking for someone from Sylhet who really committed to improve speaking, i recently got my visa,Hence i desperately want to improve my speaking ability

I'm 24 Male soul living in Dhaka, studying in a reputed private university & my family lives in Sylhet ( Hometown ). Because of my father's job posting was in Chittagong and moved to sylhet in 2023 after retirement, i have no friend or known mates here. Whenever i come to see my parents, my friendless & unsocial life becomes heavier.

Being alone is good but constant days can make the day worst of all.

If anyone is there for making friends and Hangouts. Please let me know and DM me.

Let's get to know mates!

সিলেট শহরে নতুন একটা ফুটবল ইন্ডোর গ্রাউন্ড (টার্ফ) করতে চাইলে, লোকেশন কোন দিকে হইলে ভালো হবে?

Please suggest some dating spots in sylhet town.

Somewhere private and safe as sylhet is a small everyone knows eachother

If you're willing to sell your tab (used), show details in comment

Wanna buy one for pdf reading, watching movies

Cellular option is a plus point, if not that will okay

Basically wanted to ask what’s the Gulshan of Sylhet? A nice place with security upscale, and resources like hospitals schools madrasa etc in an affluent neighborhood.

I’m 21 years old, and I’ve never dated anyone. Not because I never wanted love, but because every guy I’ve ever gotten close to always tells me the same thing: “You’re too good for me.” At first, I thought it was a compliment, but now it just feels exhausting and painful. There was a guy I had known for 7 years, and we were really close friends. He always used to tell me how much he liked girls like me kind, funny, caring, a good listener, someone with a good personality but I always avoided those conversations because I wanted to know if he genuinely meant it or if he was just saying nice things. Earlier this year, we stopped talking for a few weeks, and after Ramadan when we started speaking again, I found out he had gotten into a relationship. What hurt the most was that just days before, he had been saying things that made it seem like he liked me, so I asked him how he suddenly had a girlfriend. His answer honestly broke me. He said I was “too good” for him and that someone more responsible deserved me. I didn’t even know what to say after that. Then my cousin and best friends started telling me that if I ever date someone, it should be someone I can actually see a future with, someone serious and genuine. So I decided to open myself up to someone new, and I started talking to one of my seniors who had already graduated. For the first time in my life, I genuinely felt like I might finally fall for someone, but I had no idea what his real intentions were. As we got closer, he started saying inappropriate things, and when I didn’t respond the way he wanted, he suddenly told me we should stop talking because I was “too much of a green forest” for him. He said he wasn’t looking for someone like me because right now he only wanted to have “fun.” Then he added that his family would never accept him marrying someone “Deshi” anyway. So basically, he wanted to date me for entertainment while planning to marry whoever his family chose in the future, and once he realized I wasn’t that type of girl, he walked away too. After that, I just sat there completely stunned, wondering what is actually wrong with my love life. I’m tired of being appreciated but never chosen, tired of hearing that I’m “too good” while people still leave me behind. Sometimes being a “green forest” feels less like a blessing and more like a curse.

hey guys, planning a 1 day tour around sylhet. any suggestions where i should go?

looking for chill nature spots, nice views, maybe some good local food too.