Katong nag call center ko pag 2019 non voice, akong sweldo kay 18K/mo. 3 months rako ato. Dili ko ka agwanta sa night shift mao ni undang ko. Ni shift ko sa akoang kurso gyud maski mas gamay akong sweldo. Pila naba ang sweldo karon call center?
Begged, pleaded, lowered my self respect. She lost respect. Got with another man. Did not work out. I date a few. A lot of them wants to be my girlfriend. I cant give my heart no matter how much I want; being with them all I can think about is her.
Simultaneously I worked on myself. My mindset. My physique. My career. I was popular ‘popular’ with women. Ofc I have the looks and career but heart still belongs to her. Anywayyy she and her new man broke up. I started seeing her slowly. Once every week. Staying at her house once every week. During this time still seeing multiple women.
I stopped caring if we get back or not. Ofc I want too but I can now accept its over if we dont. I have a lot of options. Beautiful women also. I guess that was magnetic?? She slowly opened up to me. I told her lets stop seeing each other. This is so weird. Why tf do we see each other as exes frequently. Go on dates as EXES. I told her i will stop this now and focus on my ‘woman’. There and then a few days after, her demeanor changed. She now accepts my kisses, hugs, etc.
I stopped with my women and focused on her. We decided to get back together and work on our issues. Relationship 2.0
Sharing because I know the feeling of being broken up and hoping. My past me would want to know my story.
Naka 30+ nako application sa jobstreet. Maski isa ka interview wala gyud. Lahi ra 5 years ago when paspas kaayo ko makapangita work. 5 job offers sa akoa saona imagine that. Maybe because dako nakog pangayo karon. Masuya lang ko sa uban professionals kay ang 50K/mo sa ilaha kay dili dako kundi gamay ra. They can go up to 80K/mo plus. Onsaon taman gamay man sweldo ang engineers sa Pilipinas unless sa IT ka.
Nindot man unta kay kog credentials kay daghan kog projects na implement
About me:
*30M
*been called good looking all my childhood and adult life
*Chinese descent
*fair skin tone
*163cm / 65kg
*engr. own apt & ride
*goes to the gym
*likes reading, hiking, gym, fishing, beach
*does not smoke; occasional drinking
About you:
*max 32F
*below 50kg if 5’3 below
*fair skin tone
*good looking
Naa ko sa house sa akong ex. Didto ko tig tulog for the past few days. Actually mag sige mig kita for the past months.
Nag bulag mi unya pagka few months ato gi pulihan ko niya. Kana nga time ga sakit pakog pag ayo. Sige pakog hope na mag balik mi. Nakita nako ang pictures gabie na happy kaayo siya katong sila pa. Ug nag hope pod siya nga mag minyo silang duha.
Nasakitan ko. Na turn off ko. Kanang mga panahona daghan kog go reject nga babae kay lage love pa nako siya pero siya diay happy kaayo sa uban. Mas love pa niya si guy kaysa sa akoa.
Gusto ko makig minyo sa iyaha. Sige siyag balibad. Katong sa lalake, siyay sigeg imagine mag minyo sila base sa iyang pictures.
Mao to. Na turn off ko. Nakig storya ra siya balik sa akoa kay wala ni work on Ang relationship niya ni other guy. Murag akong pride kay gi tamak tamak. Feel nako wala koy self respect. Di ko ganahan second option ko. Ni balik ra kay wala sila nag work. Moving forward mag sige kog overthink if mag balik mi nga ni sugod ra siya kay wala na iyahang gusto na guy.
Wala koy problema mangitag babae kay arangan kog itsura og sakto pod ug trabaho. Apan gipang reject nako tong mga bayhana tungod kay higugmaan pa kayko. Mao diay dili mutual.
Anyways i think need to implement self respect 2.0. Mo undang nako sigeg message og visit didto.
Ahaka bitaw. As lalake, mahalon kaayo atong commitment. Naa may opportunity cost gud kung mo commit ka. Nya nag libog ko kung asa nila ko mo commit kay ofc mawala gyud ang uban or mag wait ba kog new batch of choices haha. Kung mo commit man gud ko, todong todo najud na. Yes ga date ko nila dungan nya ofc fk pod pero kung committed ko, loyal kaayo ko mao nang dili ko mo hatag sa akoang commitment cheaply. You would be exceptional as a woman para mo commit mi mga lalake.
Naa siguro koy talent pagka gigolo kay first date, magpangita mag ika duha, ika tulo. Mag endearment napa gyud ug baby, love.
lapas tuig na milabay pero siya ra gihapon ang naa sa akong kasingkasing ug hunahuna. Oo daghan ko babae pero gina gamit lang nako sila aron malimtan siya maski kadali
My FUBU kay greatest crush sa 4 ka lalake. She is really pretty and smart. Funny lang kay kung onsa sila ka effort magpa impress sa iyaha. Mao pod onsa ko ka opposite/non-chalant niya pero siya gihapon mo gukod. Wala lang share ko lang kay na share siya screenshot sa messages sa mga lalake naibog niya sa akoa.
We see each other weekly. For church, sleepover (separate bedrooms), dinner/lunch. The care is still there. Shes very cold at first but slowly opening up now. I am dating but nothing serious. Shes was dating but broke up with the guy 3 months ago.
Its like being in the same room with your trigger. Its ecstatic at the moment and depressing after
Ang complicated ng breakup between trentahin. Kasi may properties kami together. Kung wala kaming mga anchor points like my breakups before, wala na kaming contact ngayon. Its been 1 year since we broke up
I just wanna say thirties has been good to me. Career wise, physically, financially, and relationships with women-wise, it’s great. I have more options in dating than I had when I was in my 20s. Its crazy.
Just wanna share. For men, lets continue working on ourselves. Lets gooooo
Let’s say you broke up because of emotional burnout. You got tired of asking to be seen and heard.
Now 1 year after. Both of you did not lose contact. In that 1 year, the most the two of you in no contact was 1 month. You notice that ex walked the walk, and talked the talk. Ex changed for the better. You have properties together and fur babies. You are in your 30s. Both single. Ex occasionally comes to your house (shared ownership supposedly but you bought the ex out from the ownership through installment) to help you with the fur babies as well as your mental state (you have depression) and not asking for return.
Ex is not texting you non-stop and will only communicate with you if necessary. You are also very cold and harsh but ex doesn’t lash out/react. Ex only wants to help you with the furbabies and the depression. Giving you the space that you want and need and genuinely happy if you’re happy. Content with loving in the distance even if it means being hurt
Would you consider going back? Despite your emotional burnout and the pain and suffering caused by the relationship? To which Ex acknowledged and held itself accountable. Hence the change in mindset and growth.
Let’s say you broke up because of emotional burnout. You got tired of asking to be seen and heard.
Now 1 year after. Both of you did not lose contact. In that 1 year, the most the two of you did not have contact was 1 month. You notice that ex walked the walk, and talked the talk. Ex changed for the better. You have properties together and fur babies. You are in your 30s. Both single. Ex occasionally comes to your house (shared ownership supposedly but you bought the ex out from the ownership) to help you with the fur babies as well as your mental state (you have depression) and not asking for return.
Ex is not texting you non-stop and will only communicate with you if necessary. You are also very cold and harsh but ex doesn’t lash out/react. Ex only wants to help you with the furbabies and the depression. Giving you the space that you want and need and genuinely happy if you’re happy. Content with loving in the distance even if it means being hurt
Would you consider going back? Despite your emotional burnout and the pain and suffering caused by the relationship? To which Ex acknowledged and held itself accountable. Hence the change in mindset and growth.