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i'm lowkey really confused because my brother was just leaving to go to some orientation thing for school and was fixing his hair but he does this thing where he like fluffs it out and flips it out on one side but not the other and me and my mom have tried to help him and tell him that it doesn't look right and try to help him fix it correctly. he did it again and so i was trying to help him and i laughed while i was telling him he shouldn't do that and it wasn't like i was making fun of him it was more like he's my younger brother and kinda like he's "just a baby" mentality like he's a kid yknow ?? if that makes any sense.
and he got super mad and slammed the door leaving. my mom got mad at me too for being rude and she was on the phone with my dad and he was saying she needed to take my phone away and ground me. she hung up because her friend was calling needing help on where to go for this orientation thing so my mom told me to call my dad and he ignored me???? i texted my brother sorry and explaining i wasn't making fun of him and he said it's fine and he overreacted but idk i think my dad is still mad.
is this something i just don't understand is mean/wrong or did i not do anything?

also sorry if this makes no sense i suck at explaining lmao

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i have like this thing i do where if i touch / do something with one hand or limb or anything i HAVE to do it with the other. it happens with everything and it's not like horrible it's just really annoying because i can't like not do it yknow? it feels like my brain thinks something horrible will happen if i don't do it maybe ??? it also just feels really weird on the spot i touched something with if i don't make it equal. it doesn't like cause me distress or anxiety or anything. i don't think it's ocd for that reason but ive suspected ive had adhd for like 5 years at least (my parents don't believe there's "anything wrong with me" so they get like mad when i do something that makes it seem like im "acting like i'm like that" which makes no sense but yk 😭) and i'm not self diagnosing i'm just like wondering if this is something that happens with adhd bcuz i have like many many many symptoms and relate to so many people when it comes to adhd. and as soon as i can drive myself and pay for it myself i will get tested obviously.

so i’m a teen girl, i have many many years to figure out my gender i know but still i am very confused.
i’ve been questioning and thinking about my gender for years at this point switching from demigirl to nonbinary to genderfluid, demiboy, finally thought i found myself as a trans man (that lasted a little over a year), finally realizing i have no connection to men/manhood whatsoever, identifying as a demigirl again, and finally just not caring and going full girl.
i don’t have any dysphoria, i love myself and how i look and i do not mind being called a girl, i actually kinda like it. she/her pronouns feel great on me (they/them don’t do too much for me but i still like them and i LOVE these neos i found fae/faer). i feel connected to femininity and women a lot. deep in my core i am a woman and maybe it’s because i feel so strongly about feminism? but at the same time i feel outside of the binary. almost like my gender is “political” or more like a statement? if that makes sense? idk i thought maybe demi girl was right but that identity doesn’t really feel right for me. a nonbinary woman makes more sense and i’ve also been searching about being genderqueer. if anyone knows a gender identity that i could research that gives off what i’m talking about, or if i’m completely wrong about a gender i stated PLEASE help! <3

tldr: is there a gender that views “gender” as a social construct and doesnt believe in the binary but also is extremely connected to womanhood and feminity? (if so that’s me)

so i’m a teen girl, i have many many years to figure out my gender i know but still i am very confused.
i’ve been questioning and thinking about my gender for years at this point switching from demigirl to nonbinary to genderfluid, demiboy, finally thought i found myself as a trans man (that lasted a little over a year), finally realizing i have no connection to men/manhood whatsoever, identifying as a demigirl again, and finally just not caring and going full girl.
i don’t have any dysphoria, i love myself and how i look and i do not mind being called a girl, i actually kinda like it. she/her pronouns feel great on me (they/them don’t do too much for me but i still like them and i LOVE these neos i found fae/faer). i feel connected to femininity and women a lot. deep in my core i am a woman and maybe it’s because i feel so strongly about feminism? but at the same time i feel outside of the binary. almost like my gender is “political” or more like a statement? if that makes sense? idk i thought maybe demi girl was right but that identity doesn’t really feel right for me. a nonbinary woman makes more sense and i’ve also been searching about being genderqueer. if anyone knows a gender identity that i could research that gives off what i’m talking about, or if i’m completely wrong about a gender i stated PLEASE help! <3

tldr: is there a gender that views “gender” as a social construct and doesnt believe in the binary but also is extremely connected to womanhood and feminity? (if so that’s me)