Need some relationship advice guys

So guys, here's the situation.

My friend has been in a situationship with this guy for the past four months. He recently flew to Delhi just to spend three days with her.

Tomorrow he's going back home, and after that he'll be moving away for college.

Today, right before leaving, he confessed his feelings and proposed to her.

She hasn't given him an answer yet, and here's why.

There's a certain gap between them that's making her uncomfortable. He literally took a flight from another state just to spend three days with her (he's a teenager too). They went on a few nice dates, and at one point he told her, "Next time I come to Delhi, I'll increase my budget."

I think( ACTUALLY WE) he said that because he felt bad that he couldn't spend more, and honestly, that made my friend feel a little guilty.

The thing is, she really likes him. I can confidently say she's very much into him. But she's also a little skeptical about getting into a relationship.

She can't travel to another state to meet him.

He's about to start college, so their lives are going to change a lot.

It would be a ldr.

He's genuinely a sweet guy, but he's a bit insecure, and she doesn't want to unintentionally make that worse.

Everything is happening so fast.

She doesn't want to reject him, and she definitely doesn't want to hurt his feelings. She just needs a little more time before committing to a relationship.

The only thing she's worried about is whether asking for time will make him feel insecure or think she's not interested, because that's not the case at all.

How can she explain this to him in a way that reassures him without giving him the wrong idea?

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u/AccomplishedHall9628 — 4 hours ago

My controversial opinion

People who want to kill a child just because she's a girl? Let them.

Because an unwanted girl child will NEVER magically become wanted after birth.

What the fuck are you all expecting?

Do you seriously think the same people who wanted to abort her the moment they found out her sex are suddenly going to become loving, caring parents?

No.

That child is the one who's going to pay the price for someone else's misogyny.

She'll grow up unwanted, neglected, abused, discriminated against, and constantly reminded that she was never supposed to exist.

You're not saving her.

You're forcing an innocent child into a life of suffering just to satisfy your own moral beliefs.

Poor people shouldn't have children's.

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u/AccomplishedHall9628 — 7 days ago

Koi orthodontist recommend krdo guys

😭💔🙏 I'll be paying for it myself, and I'm still a teenager, gng. 😭💔💔💔💔

Why is it so expensive at private clinics?

Now what am I supposed to do? 😭

But still, drop some names, gng. Thank you!

Preferably somewhere in Southwest Delhi, if possible.

Btw, some of my friends recommended that I should visit government hospitals. What do you guys think?

u/AccomplishedHall9628 — 10 days ago

Apparently, teenage dating is a myth if you're a vocal girl.

Recently, I was talking to a friend of mine from Nepal. We met while gaming, and we've been online friends for almost three years now.

We somehow ended up talking about dating, and since I've never dated anyone before, the conversation got pretty interesting.

Out of nowhere, he told me that a lot of guys judge girls based on how "feminist" they are. Then he said that I'm a really good person overall..

until I start sharing my views on feminism.

AND NO, BITCH. I AM NOT CHANGING MY BELIEFS JUST TO FIT INTO SOMEONE ELSE'S FANTASY.

Then he literally said, "Well, then you can keep dreaming about teenage dating."

It broke my heart okay

I want to experience teenage dating 💔💔💔

u/AccomplishedHall9628 — 11 days ago
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PLS HELP THIS DUMB KID

So, I want to opt for Chinese at JNU, but I'm a little skeptical about my marks.

I was a NEET dropper, and honestly, things didn't go as planned this year. I never really expected that I'd end up considering a language course at JNU. After NEET, I was initially thinking of taking a second drop, but after everything that happened with the re-NEET situation, I just don't have the courage to go through another drop year.

My English paper went pretty well, but GAT... 💔💔💔

There's another issue. My father didn't even know that we're OBC. 💔🙏😭 I only found out a few days ago after one of my chachis got selected through BPSC and we started looking into our documents.

Now I want to avail the OBC reservation as well, but getting the certificate made will take some time. So can anyone please tell me if it will still be possible for me to use the OBC quota during the admission process?

For context, I'm a female, born and brought up in Delhi.

u/AccomplishedHall9628 — 14 days ago

Maalik what do you think bout this one

12th-grade girl preparing for her board exams randomly discovers a tiny anonymous music channel at 2 a.m.

No face. No real name. Nothing.

But the voice, the songs, and the lyrics all feel strangely familiar to her in a way she can’t explain.

On impulse, she sends the guy an email without expecting anything in return.

But the next day, he replies.

From there, they start talking constantly. Slowly, he becomes a part of her everyday life a comforting presence during one of the most stressful phases of her life.

But eventually, they fall out.

And even though everything seemed completely fine on the surface, the girl could never truly forget him.

Years pass.

She works hard, focuses on her career, and convinces herself that whatever existed between them is long gone.

Until one day, his channel suddenly appears on her feed again.

Except this time, he’s no longer some small anonymous creator.

He’s now a well-known guitarist with a massive fanbase yet he still hasn’t revealed his face.

Out of curiosity, she clicks on one of his songs.

And that’s when everything changes.

Because the lyrics, the emotions, and the hidden meanings inside the songs feel directed specifically toward her like messages that nobody else in the world could possibly understand.

That curiosity slowly turns into obsession.

She becomes desperate to meet him again and slowly starts manipulating situations, using his social circle, and even befriending his sister to force her way back into his life.

All this time, the girl believes she’s the one controlling the situation.

But the reality is the complete opposite.

A childhood love story slowly turning into something far more haunting, obsessive, and psychologically unsettling.

Would y’all read something like this?

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u/AccomplishedHall9628 — 2 months ago

💔👆 help bhaiya didi log

I want to get braces and I live in del

Like can I really go for gov dental hospital

What do you guys think?

DO I REALLY NEED TO HAVE CONNECTION IN ORDER TO GET APPOINTMENT ?

Thank you!

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u/AccomplishedHall9628 — 2 months ago

For the betus who are bout to take their 1st drop.

Just because main achi hoon aur mujhe tum logon ka dard samajh aata hai bhai WE ARE HERE TO SECURE A FKING SEAT AND NOT TO DO A PHD! OKAY? KEEP THAT IN YOUR MIND.

Aur iss PW ke chodbhangde mein toh bilkul mat padna. Ye pagal log ek chhote se topic ko bhi 2 ghante kheench lete hain. If you're a dropper bhai, you just need to watch full-length lectures for a few chapters.

Like

Human Physiology

Biotech

MBOI

BAS! OKAY? BAS!

Baaki sab oneshots se karo.

And bio pata hai bahi ap interconnect krke phdo

Let me give you an example

Pehle Morphology kar lo, then Sexual Reproduction in Flowering Plants karo, then Anatomy karo, then Plant Physiology karo.

Aise sab interconnect hoke tumhari buddhi mein set ho jayega.

Likewise:

Pehle Human Physiology, then Reproduction, then Reproductive Health, then Principles of Inheritance and Variation, and Human Health.

And this may, Y'ALL BETTER FIND A TEACHER JISSE TUMKO SAMAAJH AA RAHA HAI. Copy bharne se LAND selection nahi hone wala tumhara. Tum bhi yahin, aur main toh berozgaar hoon hi 💔🥀 whatever.

I'M BEGGING YOU GUYS TO FIND THE TEACHER JISSE TUMKO SAMAAJH AATA HAI TILL THE END OF MAY, warna tumhara bhi 1st drop waste ho jayega.

REVISION AND MOCKS OH MY GOD, MOCKS ARE THE MOST FKING IMPORTANT THING BHAI.

Aapko question ki language samajh aati hai. Jo maine nahi diye the, but it’s okay 💔🥀

Jaan loge kya bachi ki.

Bas bhai, yahi hai.

PW se better hai jao aur YouTube pe kisi ko dhundo tbh. Trust me on this. Kash muje bhi koi bta deta🥀💔💔💔💔.

But it's okay

Pothi bharne se nahi hone ka.

AND UNTIL UNLESS YOU ARE NOT READING THAT NCERT YOURSELF kuch nahi milega.

Time nahi hai 💔🥀 for those jo online lene wale hain. Betu, time nahi rehta hai.

And for second droppers

Bhai bio toh puri kar hi li hogi tumne 1st drop mein. Phir se sab chodbhangda karne ki koi zarurat nahi hai. Reflect on yourself.

It’s not that tough tbh. 🌷

u/AccomplishedHall9628 — 2 months ago

It wasn’t anything serious it was just a talking stage. 💔🥀

But bhai apko sahi batun toh vo bdi hi payri trh se complain kiya krta tha🥀🥀

I miss him. 💔🥀

It’s been like 3 months.

But eska ye hagu sa text dekh kar meri atma jal jati h 🥀

u/AccomplishedHall9628 — 2 months ago