u/According_Spell_5902

Guys, just a heads up like I am going through an AM setup. Am coming from a medicine field. My parents have seen alliance from US.
He is my relative only working in US.We r from INDIA. We r in talking stage for past 1.5 months.
In the initial phase first 2 weeks felt good,was amazed by his character but still I felt am not being connected with him like it felt distant. After 3 weeks,he said do videocall I want to connect to ur parents,so thay gain confidence in me coz he may visit india sometime late only so he said.And my parents connected with him over vc and they interacted very well and both felt good. Then I asked him for a video call,he then did called
me like it was the first time am seeing,was more excited before vc,then he called me we spoke like normally like what to say I couldnt get that fiancee feel coz he didnt show any smile or excitement upon seeing me I felt very bad then surprisingly call got disconnected then we connected over audio call I asked him directly why didnt u show any feel or anything to me like u r not even curious in seeing me.He told we were talking for 3 weeks so I felt normally he told.Then I accepted and again we spoke daily.In the initial phase itself he used to reply very late in whatsapp cuz he told am not a text person and I accepted that too then in call we used to speak normally but everytime he used to say he has completed this journey and he used to connect everything with god. I analysed very clearly that he is highly interested in God related scriptures and one day I questioned him what will u do and how will be ur routine,he then told me he will be doing meditation and reads bhagavat geetha on daily basis and chants some thing extra.I really pissed off then I only asked him r u on spiritual journey he told yes but I completed I will take the lessons forward in my life he told. I am a person who visits temple and pray to God that is spiritual to me.I wont do these all stuffs.And I came to know he used to attend Swami Mukunanandha lectures and retreat and JK yog organisation andall.In instagram also he is following all those God related stuffs and guru pages.I connected all the dots and then felt like thats why he didnt show any excitement towards me. He is highly into this path.I was wondering even my friends and unknown ppl used to say am looking pretty andall he never said any sweet words.I am highly questioning myself whether to take forward or drop this. I am person who needs love and normal relationship like everyone here God is centric part of his life, how can I expect him to be normal. I asked him whether will u change this or not,he said if once flower blossoms how will it go to bud stagee. This clearly showed that he never wanted to change,If i want to marry him I should change myself into this journey or I may suffer and he even asked me to change initially,I shouted like anything then he said its ur wish
I really like everything abt this prospect like familywise,and his character not in relationship am saying abt normal nature but when it comes to spiritual part I couldnt accept.I even asked for meetup once,him mom told u have been talking to him for 1.5 months,once he comes to India there should be engagement only otherwise tell ur decision now she asked me.I really dont know how can I accept person even without meeting in person. Having fear that after marriage if he wants to go behind God what can I do
Pls guide me🙏
1)Am I overthinking ???
2) The analysis of me is correct or not
3) What to do now

Guys, just a heads up like I am going through an AM setup. Am coming from a medicine field. My parents have seen alliance from US.
He is my relative only working in US.We r from INDIA. We r in talking stage for past 1.5 months.
In the initial phase first 2 weeks felt good,was amazed by his character but still I felt am not being connected with him like it felt distant. After 3 weeks,he said do videocall I want to connect to ur parents,so thay gain confidence in me coz he may visit india sometime late only so he said.And my parents connected with him over vc and they interacted very well and both felt good. Then I asked him for a video call,he then did called
me like it was the first time am seeing,was more excited before vc,then he called me we spoke like normally like what to say I couldnt get that fiancee feel coz he didnt show any smile or excitement upon seeing me I felt very bad then surprisingly call got disconnected then we connected over audio call I asked him directly why didnt u show any feel or anything to me like u r not even curious in seeing me.He told we were talking for 3 weeks so I felt normally he told.Then I accepted and again we spoke daily.In the initial phase itself he used to reply very late in whatsapp cuz he told am not a text person and I accepted that too then in call we used to speak normally but everytime he used to say he has completed this journey and he used to connect everything with god. I analysed very clearly that he is highly interested in God related scriptures and one day I questioned him what will u do and how will be ur routine,he then told me he will be doing meditation and reads bhagavat geetha on daily basis and chants some thing extra.I really pissed off then I only asked him r u on spiritual journey he told yes but I completed I will take the lessons forward in my life he told. I am a person who visits temple and pray to God that is spiritual to me.I wont do these all stuffs.And I came to know he used to attend Swami Mukunanandha lectures and retreat and JK yog organisation andall.In instagram also he is following all those God related stuffs and guru pages.I connected all the dots and then felt like thats why he didnt show any excitement towards me. He is highly into this path.I was wondering even my friends and unknown ppl used to say am looking pretty andall he never said any sweet words.I am highly questioning myself whether to take forward or drop this. I am person who needs love and normal relationship like everyone here God is centric part of his life, how can I expect him to be normal. I asked him whether will u change this or not,he said if once flower blossoms how will it go to bud stagee. This clearly showed that he never wanted to change,If i want to marry him I should change myself into this journey or I may suffer and he even asked me to change initially,I shouted like anything then he said its ur wish
I really like everything abt this prospect like familywise,and his character not in relationship am saying abt normal nature but when it comes to spiritual part I couldnt accept.I even asked for meetup once,him mom told u have been talking to him for 1.5 months,once he comes to India there should be engagement only otherwise tell ur decision now she asked me.I really dont know how can I accept person even without meeting in person. Having fear that after marriage if he wants to go behind God what can I do
Pls guide me🙏
1)Am I overthinking ???
2) The analysis of me is correct or not
3) What to do now

I’m posting anonymously because I’m feeling confused and would appreciate some outside perspectives. My family has been considering an alliance with someone who currently lives in the United States. We’re still in the talking stage, and recently I found out that he is completely involved in JKYog and practices spirituality regularly. In our day-to-day conversations, he never showed Curiousity or any interest towards me even in initial talking stage itself or admired me,I had gut feelings of his different behaviour,he often uses spiritual terms and sometimes gives advice from a spiritual perspective.While I respect people’s beliefs, I’m personally not very interested in spirituality, and I’m worried about whether our values and lifestyles might be too different in the long run. Has anyone been in a similar situation where one partner was deeply involved in a spiritual organization and the other wasn’t? How did it affect your relationship or marriage decision? Any insights would be appreciated.