Anyone else thrown into a different culture/language at a formative age and feel socially stunted as a result?
This was my experience, I moved to a country where I didn’t speak the language when I was a pre-teen and consequently had to take a step back in communicating, socialising, making friends easily etc. We stayed in this country for a long time and it took me about a decade to figure out who I was socially, and what my personality was since I wasn’t exploring those things in my native language. Many many years later I still feel like I’m living the result of this (some social anxiety, masking, not socialising as naturally as others seem to)
There must be other people out there who have had similar experiences. Or major life changes during those formative years. I’ve made a lot of progress but still feel like something was lost that I haven’t ever gotten back. How have you overcome this? Have you made peace?