u/Additional_Cold_2823

Me 19M and my girlfriend 19F have been in a relationship for more than a year... and it is going VERYYY GOOD with minimal fights and even if we do have fights we both are mature enough to talk it out and always try our best to find a solution and solve it... no insulting, no yelling.. nothing. But one of my gf's issues is that she is a big people pleaser and she has problem with saying no to people and this is where that piece of shit brother comes in.

So for a little background.. my gf went to her brother's wedding for the preparation, reception all that.. she stayed there for around a month or so.. and while there her little brother 16M was also there and that waste of oxygen keept on being touchy and clingy with my gf.. like he would hold onto her, hug her, lay on her lap.. at first she thought that he was just being childish but when they had to sleep in the same bed with another one of her sister around 14-15F the brother of my gf fucking forced himself in and slept by her side and held onto her stomach while sleeping and even caressed her cheek when he thought she was asleep.. she was feeling uncomfortable though everything..hell onse that mf held her from her waist and the smallest sister said "why are you holding her like her bf" . Even in car rides that mf will lay on her and try to hold onto her and he would follow her everywhere she went and try to stop us from being on call while we were apart.

And she just came back today and told me all about it cuz we couldn't call much and text was hardly possible as the network was very bad there. And before anyone says anything.. I want to say that she is not cheating and I am sure of it. She even from her side said that she will try to avoid him as much as possible from now on and won't go out with him for anything what so ever... but my issue is when I told her that why don't you just say no as you are feeling uncomfortable and he is pretty much being forcefully clingy and creepy over.. she told me no that she can't say that as she will feel really bad about it ( this is because of her nature ) and she is too caring so she doesn't want to hurt her little brother. Ik that she will not meet with him anytime soon but when they do meet.. ik that mf will start to get clingy again. So what am I supposed to do ??

I am a very jealous and possessive bf ( ik it's a issue to be overprotective but I want to make it clear that I have never told to block any guy even when I knew they liked her and I never tried to control her action as I never wanted to be controlling and I trust her fully ). Please advise

Tl;dr: my gf's brother is overly clingy and I am 99% sure that guy has a crush on her and my gf will be stay far away from him as much as possible but when they do have to meet because of any functions and all that mf will get overly clingy again to an uncomfortable degree and she being a people pleaser and not wanting to start any family drama and not wanting to hurt him won't tell him "no" directly to his face to even tell him to stop.. so what should I do ?? To know the full situation read the above text

Me 19M and my girlfriend 19F have been in a relationship for more than a year... and it is going VERYYY GOOD with minimal fights and even if we do have fights we both are mature enough to talk it out and always try our best to find a solution and solve it... no insulting, no yelling.. nothing. But one of my gf's issues is that she is a big people pleaser and she has problem with saying no to people and this is where that piece of shit brother comes in.

So for a little background.. my gf went to her brother's wedding for the preparation, reception all that.. she stayed there for around a month or so.. and while there her little brother 16M was also there and that waste of oxygen keept on being touchy and clingy with my gf.. like he would hold onto her, hug her, lay on her lap.. at first she thought that he was just being childish but when they had to sleep in the same bed with another one of her sister around 14-15F the brother of my gf fucking forced himself in and slept by her side and held onto her stomach while sleeping and even caressed her cheek when he thought she was asleep.. she was feeling uncomfortable though everything..hell onse that mf held her from her waist and the smallest sister said "why are you holding her like her bf" . Even in car rides that mf will lay on her and try to hold onto her and he would follow her everywhere she went and try to stop us from being on call while we were apart.

And she just came back today and told me all about it cuz we couldn't call much and text was hardly possible as the network was very bad there. And before anyone says anything.. I want to say that she is not cheating and I am sure of it. She even from her side said that she will try to avoid him as much as possible from now on and won't go out with him for anything what so ever... but my issue is when I told her that why don't you just say no as you are feeling uncomfortable and he is pretty much being forcefully clingy and creepy over.. she told me no that she can't say that as she will feel really bad about it ( this is because of her nature ) and she is too caring so she doesn't want to hurt her little brother. Ik that she will not meet with him anytime soon but when they do meet.. ik that mf will start to get clingy again. So what am I supposed to do ??

I am a very jealous and possessive bf ( ik it's a issue to be overprotective but I want to make it clear that I have never told to block any guy even when I knew they liked her and I never tried to control her action as I never wanted to be controlling and I trust her fully ). Please advise