it's late and i can't really sleep, am looking for someone to help me out and maybe be my sexting partner, I don't send pics at the beginning but once i get comfortable with you and trust you enough i would absolutely do that. upvote this sub so i dm you, i will talk to many persons until i find the suitable one
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introverts are used to be alone which makes the chances to be ghosted or getting dry replies when sending this type of people a dm more? do you think things with extrovert would be better?
idk if that's true but i just wanted to share that with you guys and see your opinions
this is for people who broke up recently or left from a relationship when they where attached to the other person(you can read anyways if you are just curious).
I know exactly why you’re here. You are in pain. The kind of pain that feels like a physical weight on your chest. You’re likely realizing that emotional attachment is the absolute hardest psychological challenge a human being can go through. When someone you made the center of your universe leaves, your universe collapses.
But I want to share a perspective with you—a profound "cure" that transformed my understanding of pain, love, and healing. It’s an ancient concept that genuinely feels like unlocking a superpower: The power of ultimate detachment from the finite, and attachment to the Infinite.
There was a 14th-century spiritual scholar and physician of the heart named Ibn Qayyim. He spent his life studying human psychology, emotions, and the soul. He wrote a profound rule about human attachment:
"Whoever loves something (or someone) other than The Creator, will inevitably be tormented by it."
Think about it. We take a fragile, flawed, temporary human being and we place them on a pedestal that was never meant for them. We expect them to give us absolute peace, unconditional love, and permanent security. But they can’t. They are only human. When we attach our core identity to them, we are setting ourselves up for devastation.
The cure he prescribed isn't just "giving it time." The cure is shifting your attachment. Here are the steps to build this emotional immunity:
Your heart is a massive vessel, and it was engineered to be attached to something Infinite (God/The Creator). When you try to fill that massive space with a temporary human, it never truly fits, and when they leave, the void feels unbearable. Acknowledge that your heart is craving a higher connection.
This doesn't mean you stop loving people. It means you stop worshipping them emotionally. Lower your ex-partner from the center of your universe back down to earth. They are just a human being. They are not your source of happiness, your worth, or your oxygen.
Redirect that intense emotional energy towards the One who created you. When you attach your heart to God, you are attaching to the only entity that will never leave, never change, and never break your trust. Talk to Him, pour your grief out, and build that connection.
When you do this, you achieve the ultimate emotional superpower. You will still love, you will still care, but you will become unbreakable. Because if a person leaves, your core remains untouched. Your foundation is anchored in the Divine, not in a human.
You are going to survive this. But don't just survive—use this heartbreak to redirect your compass to the only attachment that truly heals.
time zone is utc +1 it would be better if yours is close but it's okay if not.
about me,
things i like to do: going to gym, playing games, photography, sharing my day with someone close, reading and watching movies sometimes
am looking for something more than quick chat or conversation, i need some genuine friends
my discord is: slapybirthday
don't hesitate to dm me, am so kind so friendly i would be so happy to see you in my dms
time zone is utc +1 it would be better if yours is close but it's okay if not.
about me,
things i like to do: going to gym, playing games, photography, sharing my day with someone close, reading and watching movies sometimes
am looking for something more than quick chat or conversation, i need some genuine friends
don't hesitate to dm me, am so kind so friendly i would be so happy to see you in my dms
time zone is utc +1 it would be better if yours is close but it's okay if not.
about me,
things i like to do: going to gym, playing games, photography, sharing my day with someone close, reading and watching movies sometimes
am looking for something more than quick chat or conversation, i need some genuine friends
don't hesitate to dm me, am so kind so friendly i would be so happy to see you in my dms
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18M like gym, games, photography, sometimes movies (if you recommend for me🫣), y'all welcome to dm me