You know what made me angry today? This guy on Reddit telling me, no teaching me, that women dress up only for men. When I said most women do it for themselves, see what he says. The audacity!
Are they sexist or covering up animal testing? 💀
Recently, I was staying at a hostel where a woman was assaulted after she had passed out at a common area after partying. She was not even conscious. Even though the offender was reported and later arrested, a lot of people said “passing out in a common area is stupid! Her dress was too short. She partied with a guy she just met. That is like asking for it.” It angered me so much
It doesn’t matter,
If you’re drunk
If you’ve already made out before
If you went to his place
If you hung out with him alone
If you had a drink / not sober
If you dressed up sexy
If you pass out
If you didn’t explicitly say yes
If you are not Virgin Mary
If you’re not a woman / queer
If the perpetrator is a woman / not a man / person of power
If you’re 30+ 40+ or whatever age
It doesn’t matter! If you didn’t want it and stuff was done to you against your will, it is sexual assault. Period. And I will die on this hill. Is there ever a perfect victim?
Edit: added points 10-12
Recently, I was staying at a hostel where a woman was assaulted after she had passed out at a common area after partying. She was not even conscious. Even though the offender was reported and later arrested, a lot of people said “passing out in a common area is stupid! Her dress was too short. She partied with a guy she just met. That is like asking for it.” It angered me so much.
It doesn’t matter,
It doesn’t matter! If you didn’t want it and stuff was done to you against your will, it is sexual assault. Period. And I will die on this hill. Is there ever a perfect victim?
Recently, I was staying at a hostel where a woman was assaulted after she had passed out at a common area after partying. She was not even conscious. Even though the offender was reported and later arrested, a lot of people said “passing out in a common area is stupid! Her dress was too short. She partied with a guy she just met. That is like asking for it.” It angered me so much
It doesn’t matter,
If you’re drunk
If you’ve already made out before
If you went to his place
If you hung out with him alone
If you had a drink / not sober
If you dressed up sexy
If you pass out
If you didn’t explicitly say yes
If you are not sita mata
If the perpetrator is a woman / not a man / person of power
If you’re age is 30+ 40+ or whatever
It doesn’t matter! If you didn’t want it and stuff was done to you against your will, it is sexual assault. Period. And I will die on this hill. Is there ever a perfect victim?
Bonus thought: If you analyze the thought process behind each of these reasons, very problematic and often “zero logic” beliefs come out.
I felt bad about something while scrolling reddit but then saw a post and literally forgot why I felt bad or what I felt bad about. Now I’m feeling bad about forgetting what I felt bad about. And feeling like a failure and manufactured a mini existential crisis. I’m 34 and I’m scared that this would get worse as I get older.
I only got diagnosed a year or so ago (ADHD - C) I’ve been feeling stuck after a string of setbacks and failures. Including a someone tryin to SA me, a second breakup with a nice human, loss of my business, and loss of a friendship. All within the span of a few weeks. I’m getting better but still feeling stuck and my brain is creating apocalypse stories at the drop of a hat.
Any tips of getting out of bedrot after big losses? The regular ones don’t seem to be working 🥲
Exactly that.! I don’t want to be a part of the society and just be celibate or something. I want to be in a safe space where I can renounce everything. I’m not religious, I’m more into the spiritual aspect of this. I’m starting this post hoping you know someone who did this or saw something somewhere. Would much prefer personal anecdotes to passive online research. I’m a woman and a former model and men chasing behind me and being disgusting has been a big problem all my life. And a big part of my decision to literally leave society. After almost a year of mulling over, I’ve decided to make the leap. Wish me luck.
P.S: I’ve mentioned I’m already celibate and vegetarian. Why are men still texting me for sex? With a horrible cookie cutter opener? I’ll only report and block you, don’t waste your time!
Exactly that.! I don’t want to be a part of the society and just be celibate or something. I want to be in a safe space where I can renounce everything. I’m not religious, I’m more into the spiritual aspect of this. I’m starting this post hoping you know someone who did this or saw something somewhere. Would much prefer personal anecdotes to passive online research. I’m a woman and a former model and men chasing behind me and being disgusting has been a big problem all my life. And a big part of my decision to literally leave society. After almost a year of mulling over, I’ve decided to make the leap. Wish me luck.
P.S: I’ve mentioned I’m already celibate and vegetarian. Why are men still texting me for sex? With a horrible cookie cutter opener? I’ll only report and block you, don’t waste your time!