u/Adorable_Camel_667

I was walking to work today and a guy I say hi to sometimes started walking with me (or i guess FOLLOWING me)… he mentions how he looks forward to seeing me everyday etc. I was not having it, there were people around, he was embarrassing himself … and then got mad at ME.
I said to him in the calmest tone: Just because you like me I am not obligated to talk to you.

I think we forget this… i think about times in clubs, when a man wants to buy you a drink and then gets mad that you aren’t with him all night. or just in general i feel like they have a way of guilt tripping us to tiptoe around their sensitive emotions after they admit they like us like!?????? i’m sorry but it’s time we put them in their place.

Hi loves, I have been on birth control for two years, but I recently broke up with my boyfriend and feel no need to be on it anymore.
Because I have no reason so be on it, I’m thinking of stopping… but almost every thread online discusses negative side effects of stopping it and usually suggests people stay on it. My skin has been amazing on BC, so that’s maybe the only reason I’d consider staying on it.
Most threads discourage women from stopping birth control, but I don’t plan on being sexually active so I would love to hear some positive stories of how getting off birth control may have improved women’s lives:)

So last weekend during the very intense full blue moon and everything, I found out that my first boyfriend of my life that I've been with for years cheated on me after I've been sick for a while. On that same day, I found out that I will be moving to his city for a job relocation where I know very little people besides him and his friends.

I am very happy that the relationship is over, he was toxic and bringing me down spiritually and energetically. As excited as I am to start my healing journey, it is so hard to get rid of this disgusting feeling of betrayal in my chest and body that I've never experienced before.

For healers and those who have gotten through similar situations, what is your best advice for starting a spiritual cleanse, meditation, and so forth.

I'd also appreciate any book or media recommendations that may help as well, or just simple spiritual techniques that I can start implementing in my life to help move on from this ❤️

Thank you all for any words of advice :,)

I just need to type of this insane shit that happened yesterday and read it a hundred times to deeply internalize how insane this person is and how grateful i am to BE FUCKING FREE NOW.

After two years with him, I randomly started getting sick and just tested positive for 2 STDs. Scientific evidence he cheated. I told him the results over the phone, he freaked out and then got mad at me when I said I wouldn’t help him get tested- i said this is between him and the girl who infected him.

I guess earlier I briefly mentioned I’d bring leftovers home if he was hungry…. but I also just found out he cheated and infected me…..
He gets home… i’m in bed silent i don’t greet him. Some minutes go buy and he just asks me if there’s food.
Nothing about how I am.
No apologies.
Where’s his food.

I said there is none (it was in the fridge sort of unintentionally hidden). I hear him then making eggs or some shit and he crawls into bed.

Next morning I still say nothing until he just starts packing his bags…. he explains how upset he is about last night…….

I finally talk… he admits to cheating,,, HE STARTS CRYING..,,,, and yeah…..

Of course i’m upset that someone who I gave my entire heart and soul to for two years would betray me and put my health at risk …….. but after this…… and now after typing this all out and reading again how fucking insane he is…… YALL IM FINALLY FREEE🎉🥹

As the tilde states… I’m experiencing excessive yellow discharge that is constant throughout the day and night. A month ago I had a bad yeast infection followed by off white/yellow discharge. I ended up taking secnidazole and fluconazole to clear up the yeast and suspected BV. Shortly later I attempted to have sex with my boyfriend, it hurt so bad on the entrance (not deep internal pain) and then got a UTI (have never had one in my life). I finished a round of nitrofurantoin.. everything seemed to clear up. I got my period last week, and then immediately followed by constant and excessive yellow discharge… I have to change my pads multiple times a day and sleep with a towel underneath me 😣

I am waiting for my STI test results (can take up to a week to get results in my country as my swab has been sent to a lab). There’s no smell and I have no other pains…

I have a gynecologist appointment in a week, but this amount of discharge is that of a period, and I’m not sure how to handle it as I don’t want the excessive moisture to lead to other vaginal issues… and I’m sure wearing a tampon to control the situation isn’t good for my flora either :(

TLDR: Something is very wrong and I just need advice on how to try and live as normal and healthy life as I can with this excessive discharge until I get answers/solutions in hopefully a week🙏 Appreciate any advice to anyone who may have been through similar situations xx