I've accidentally traumatized my cat
Hello,
I am training my two cats. One of them more skittish than the other.
I've (tried to) train them to wait before eating because I give them a half can each and it takes time to split and I don't want them making it harder than it is by trying to eat it while its not ready.
When I say wait, they wait, and when I say eat, they are allowed to eat.
But I think I have traumatized the more skittish cat, I was giving them some treats and I said wait. The skittish cat just walk away from the food and hides when I approach her and won't eat the treats. I'm scared this is associating treat = bad.
She does the sane thing, curiously when I feed her some dry food. We have an automatic feeder. If I feed her manually she is fine. If the automatic feeder turns on, that is also fine, bur if I manually start the feeder, she won't way until you are gone from the area and won't let you approach her. I think this is triggered by the beeping noise of the feeder when you manually start it.
I don't know how to fix this, my other cat seems totally fine and has none of these issues.
The skittish cat is very close to me though, I raised her since she was a week old, could this be a factor ?
Please help!