u/Aggressive_String580

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I'm looking for someone (or a small group) to play tennis with this weekend. I'm not a professional—just someone who enjoys playing for fun and getting some exercise.

I'm open to singles or doubles, and I'm happy to play with beginners or intermediate players. If anyone's interested, drop a comment or send me a DM. We can decide on the court and timing together!!!

I (20F) became friends with a guy who's a doctor [23M]. We've never been in a relationship, and I genuinely value him as a friend. He's one of those people who unknowingly helped me through a difficult phase of my life when I was constantly overthinking and struggling emotionally.

Recently, I made him a handmade gift—an origami jar filled with little notes, along with a small keychain. It took me quite a while to make because I wanted it to be meaningful, not romantic. I also kept wondering whether I should add chocolates or flowers, but I didn't want the gift to come across as "too much."

The thing is, I overthink everything.

If he replies late, I wonder if I'm bothering him. If he's busy at the hospital, I know logically that he probably doesn't have time, but emotionally I still overanalyze every interaction. I keep asking myself if I'm putting more effort into this friendship than he is.

He has never been rude or asked me to stop talking to him. In fact, he agreed to accept the gift when I asked him. But I still can't stop worrying that maybe I'm becoming "that" friend who's too attached.

I don't want a romantic relationship with him. I just don't want to make him uncomfortable or accidentally cross boundaries because I genuinely respect him.

Has anyone else been in a situation where you cared deeply about a friend, but your own overthinking made you question every interaction? How do you tell the difference between appreciating someone and becoming emotionally dependent on their attention?

We mutually decided to make out because we were both attracted to each other physically, but neither of us was looking at it romantically. After that, though, I found myself getting emotionally attached while he still didn't develop romantic feelings for me. We both have toxic relationship histories n I don't know what to do next 

Okay it's all starts from a dating app where i found this guy on app his age was showing 26 n that's okayish for me as my ex was 24 yrs old n after two days of talking w each other we decided to meet n idk whatever was going between us dated eachother also gifted something n all after sometimes i found that he is fucking 30 yrs from some other source n i asked him why i didn't told me earlier n he give me the most non sensitive non chalant answer, but neglecting all the stuff agaun i choose stay friends w him visiting his flats again n making out w him , yeah i m regretting that why i choose this man who doesn't even care if u die tomorrow n gave him my first kiss , cause in my college everyone is dating n showing off their love life n my love life was dead so decided to ignore red flags again n moving w whatever was going on , n rn i m in my homw town n was taking to this Guy remember ( we were friends when we i decided to makeout or something) n i said don't u get bored he said yeah ( without u to meri life chli hi nhi h) i don't he said in in sarcastic way or wht n it hit me hard cause he always reply late or whatever stuff was going n fucking i was crying last night cause these stuff was hurting me , i have promised myself that i won't cry because of bim but i just can't bear anything , i don't he is insensitive or i don't exist or he doesn't care about me but why the hell i was thinking like a mad n can't decide wht to do next!!!

Okay it's all starts from a dating app where i found this guy on app his age was showing 26 n that's okayish for me as my ex was 24 yrs old n after two days of talking w each other we decided to meet n idk whatever was going between us dated eachother also gifted something n all after sometimes i found that he is fucking 30 yrs from some other source n i asked him why i didn't told me earlier n he give me the most non sensitive non chalant answer, but neglecting all the stuff agaun i choose stay friends w him visiting his flats again n making out w him , yeah i m regretting that why i choose this man who doesn't even care if u die tomorrow n gave him my first kiss , cause in my college everyone is dating n showing off their love life n my love life was dead so decided to ignore red flags again n moving w whatever was going on , n rn i m in my homw town n was taking to this Guy remember ( we were friends when we i decided to makeout or something) n i said don't u get bored he said yeah ( without u to meri life chli hi nhi h) i don't he said in in sarcastic way or wht n it hit me hard cause he always reply late or whatever stuff was going n fucking i was crying last night cause these stuff was hurting me , i have promised myself that i won't cry because of bim but i just can't bear anything , i don't he is insensitive or i don't exist or he doesn't care about me but why the hell i was thinking like a mad n can't decide wht to do next!! " Is this okay for me to cry?"

Tbh, I’ve spent almost 2 years in Indore, and it’s still a fucking boring city for sober people like me. There just aren’t many options for things to do

Sabko lgta h me bhr pdhti hun to sab chill h lekin apni city ko chodke jakr dusri city me ek bhi accha dost nhi bna paai i want to have that life but i don't feel the same attachment as i want to feel w my friends mtlb kuch time acche n kuch jaise unko frk nhi pdhta h khairr tum btao kuch nya koi genuine h?

I m bored

So i want to give gate in 2028 !! I have told roughly 1.5 yrs can someone please guide me how can i start rn from yt videos!!! Like starting from scratch gonna buy subscription after 1 month but help me ki me kya krun kaha se shuru krun n i m definitely sure that i want to crack n get a job in psu ( mujhe mtech nhi krna h)