u/Agitated-Top-3521

I'm looking to hear any success stories from men who had no luck in their youths living in very feminist/sexually liberal/high standards places like SoCal who stopped playing a game they couldn't beat.

What was it like going from invisible to sexually visible for the first time? How did your family, old friends, people who doubted you or made you feel small in HS/college react to your slaying abroad?

What advice would you give to young men who are let down by the system and told that their sexual and romantic needs don't matter?

I’m looking to hear any success stories from men who had no luck in their youths living in very feminist/sexually liberal/high standards places like SoCal who stopped playing a game they couldn’t beat.

What was it like going from invisible to sexually visible for the first time? How did your family, old friends, people who doubted you or made you feel small in HS/college react to your slaying abroad?

What advice would you give to young men who are let down by the system and told that their sexual needs don’t matter?

Hello everyone,

I’m looking for a style of hat that’s wide enough to cover all of my face evenly without covering my body.

It just seems like my facial skin is more sensitive to the sun than any other part, even my dick and balls surprisingly.

Not trying to be littered with sun spots.

Hello everyone,

I am looking for the best type of hat to wear this summer that will be wide enough to protect my face, but leave my body exposed.

I just feel like my face is the most sensitive skin for me even more than my junk.

Hi,

I’m an incoming transfer. I was wondering how groceries and cooking goes down in transfer housing.

I plan on living on campus but I don’t really want to eat in the restaurants or out too much, partly to save money, partly for health/diet reasons.

What appliances are given to you in housing? Is there an oven, stove, microwave, air fryer, fridge? Is the stove gas or induction? Enough pantry space? Easy to divide space between roommates?

I just don’t get whether you have all that stuff in the space you share with roommates or if it’s with everyone on your floor.

Anyone who’s big on home cooked meals care to comment?

I ask because it seems like a lot of the content in this sub is written by STEM majors

Do social sciences people have to cram and pull all nighters as well? Is it also impossible to get more than an A- in a course? Is a high GPA for law school out of the picture?

My hope is that I can cruise through school and not have to study too too much outside of finals week. And just mirror whatever the professor’s beliefs are in hopes of good essay grading.

Hello,

I’m a 19 yo guy and I started nude sunbathing for the first time 3 months ago, got addicted, and do it literally whenever I’m off work around noon.

I’m moving down to SD soon and planning to go to Black’s Beach multiple times a week. Probably alone most of the time. What do I need to know?

For context, I’m nearsighted so I couldn’t creep on ladies even if I wanted to. However, I think people misread my eyes when I’m not wearing glasses and think I’m eyeing them down or angry lmao.

Also, I only really go nude outdoors during peak sun hours (10:30-3ish). I never wear sunscreen but I never burn (Fitz IV). Going to try avoiding seed oils to avoid long term damage.

My junk has taken 2 hours of exposure without any issues. My goal in life is to literally just chase the sun, blacks beach and playa Zipolite, rinse and repeat. Have the best tan among my peers, no tan lines at all.

Let’s just say you’re a nonwhite American who can’t get laid in the states but just wants to go somewhere on spring or winter break and score an easy lay.

And before you say the Philippines, I said nonwhite.

Like if you had 1 week and you had to bet your life on getting laid as a virgin, where would you go?

Hi,

Incoming transfer for polisci here. Was wondering if any polisci major could give me any tips on how to succeed with the quarter system? Which professors are good vs. challenging, and which courses to avoid at all cost?

My goal is just to keep up a high GPA for law school. I don’t really care about concentrations or anything like that. Hoping to make a good enough relationship with some for an LOR.

How easy is it to get local girls in these smaller towns in border-ish regions? San Felipe, tecate, puerto Peñasco, San Quintin, Mulege, etc. Basically any area outside Tijuana with less American influence and adult activities.

I’m thinking there are girl next door, white Mexican girls out there, far better than any Latina girl or otherwise from my home state of California. Plus it’s a calm existence out there, lots of seafood, remote.

How easy is it to get local girls in these smaller towns in border-ish regions? San Felipe, tecate, puerto Peñasco, San Quintin, Mulege, etc. Basically any area outside Tijuana with less American influence and adult activities.

I’m thinking there are girl next door, white Mexican girls out there, far better than any Latina girl or otherwise from my home state of California. Plus it’s a calm existence out there, lots of seafood, remote.

I’m a 19 yo California college student and I’m wondering if experienced guys in the lifestyle can help predict how my plan will unfold.

I’ve been an incel basically all my life, years without friends or girlfriends. I’m perfectly healthy but I’m a high functioning aspie basically, high IQ but I can’t talk to women without them saying “Huh” or calling me a racist. I’ve been called uneducated just for using the word “female.” Total shitlib area.

So I’m going to SD for college and hoping that, if next year, for whatever reason, girls continue not to like me, that I can be happy by supplementing with P4P Chinese food across the border. My hope is that I can continue my business, good grades, working out, hiking, etc. but when I get lonely get take care of my needs.

I just notice that zoomer girls love to ignore you a lot and not acknowledge your existence. They’re very cruel and it’s almost like you’re a second class citizen as a short Mexican American guy here. I’m done with it. No me pelan so I’m gonna substitute.

Polisci major from central California here, looking to connect and not fall behind on the transfer process. Looking to make the most of my 2 years. DMs open.

I’m a 19 yo Mexican American guy with dual citizenship, born and raised in affluent coastal California. I didn’t get much female attention going to a very feminist/white high school where pretty much all the girls were over 5’5 (I was 5’6 at the time). (I’m 5’8 now).

I basically lived in the most feminist part of the world and every girl here has hippie grandparents (look up Ojai and you’ll get what I mean). Like people are really really brainwashed. I was a masculine short Mexican in a fake white liberal heightist world, where guys wore dresses and were celebrated by their teachers for it. Teachers would give feminist kids books to teen parents for their baby shower. Like really sick stuff California decadence.

Anyways, after years of being an incel I’m fed up and am going to chart a new course for my life. Going to move to San Diego for college and that will be my springboard for liberation. San Diego is still Cali, but I’ll have easy access to Tijuana (HK/Chinese food) and the Tijuana airport (cheap flights to any Mexican destination.

My parents are from Michoacán and they don’t understand why I struggle with girls so much. They’re literally incapable of acknowledging radical shifts in both Hispanic and non Hispanic California zoomers that have locked guys like me out of getting laid.

I could go back to the homeland but I’m a little more bohemian. I just want to live a nomadic free lifestyle where no woman can tie me down and leech off my energy. Just got done reading “The Manipulated Man” by Esther Villar and that lit up my brain.

Just hoping to use a mix of $cort services/local relationships made with girls abroad to help hold over a young man’s libido and years of sexual frustrations like not being able to go to Prom, Homecoming, etc. Every girl at my job seems to have a boyfriend and the situation here is so bleak. Tinder is literally dystopian.

My hope is that i could go to El Salvador, Playa Zipolite Oaxaca, maybe South America, central/Eastern Europe (girls with Latino fetish), get fit and they’ll be impressed with my perfect English, U.S. passport, and San Diego residence.

San Diego is probably the greatest city in the greater Hispanic world, after all. The greatest city in the USA at least.

I received $0 in aid because my parents make too much money. However my dad and mom are imminently going to divorce and he is threatening not to pay for my college if she gets lawyers involved. He’s always been wishy washy on paying for college and is in that category of “pull yourself up by your bootstraps” delusional Gen X / Boomers.

Other UCs offered very little as well, maybe $3k max. The financial aid office has really weird phone in hours and I’m not sure when this year is the right time to call and what I should even say.

How do you guys with narcisstic/toxic parents who leave you guessing and never make certain statements or moves that could be used as evidence?

Hi,

I was wondering if any transfer students could help clear up what “Action Requireds” I need to watch out for between now and my first day of class. Going to Muir.

I already sent in my AP scores and completed the housing application. Going to send my CC transcript once they add a note certifying IGETC completion.

I heard something about the vaccination records and TB questionnaire but IDK what’s going on with that.

I’ve set up my Active Directory and logged into my official UCSD email but I don’t understand where the “homepage” is for students. I heard that they’re switching platforms so I need to wait a bit.

I just worry that I’m gonna mess something up and end up getting rescinded or be stuck with the worst classes/friends etc. I do not want to be left behind.

I’m also planning on taking a vacation the last 3 weeks of August so hopefully there’s nothing in person then.

I’m a young man who got approved for global entry recently. It was kinda impressive, I applied, got conditionally approved 48 hours later, got an appointment for the same week, and approved there.

I’m moving to San Diego this fall and I intend on crossing at San Ysidro and Calexico often. I’m a dual citizen of the U.S. and Mexico and have Mexican and American passports.

Is it worth getting a passport card? I plan on doing day trips in Tijuana on foot, just carrying a backpack I guess. I don’t want to lose or damage my passports, or God forbid have my stuff stolen.

Incoming transfer student for polisci here, trying to see if I messed up by ranking John Muir as my first choice back in December.

The buildings look so bleak

Hi,

I was wondering if there were any hacks to get a good roommate(s) when it comes to living on campus. I heard that you’re not supposed to opt for triples as a first year transfer cause then you’re gonna be paired with freshmen. Maybe I heard that at ucla lol.

Is there some type of questionnaire to help pair you with someone compatible as a guy? Are there any questions on that which are super important?

Don’t want to end up in a roommate nightmare scenario