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I posted this once but now things have developed and part of me thinks i should just hangout with him to rip off the bandaid. he may just be a nice guy trying to make friends

here’s my original post

I (24F) started going to a personal trainer about 2 months ago. It’s a really small local gym with only a few trainers, and because the space is so small everyone talks to each other pretty naturally during workouts.

There’s a guy there a few years younger than me who I see there since we went around the same time. He’s nice and friendly, but not really my type. I don’t mind talking to him there, but I’m not interested in anything beyond friendship.

Around our birthdays, he invited me out with his friends to a bar, but I already had plans. Later I mentioned a local place that gives free birthday drinks, and I think he may have interpreted that as me wanting to go together, even though I was honestly just making conversation since i knew we had birthdays in the same month.

Since then he’s asked for my number and invited me to hang out a few times. One time he asked loudly in front of everyone while I was working out, which caught me off guard. My trainer even checked in privately during my next workout to make sure I wasn’t uncomfortable.

I eventually gave him my number because I didn’t want to make things awkward at such a small gym. Since then he’s texted me a few times asking to hang out. I’ve either had plans already or just haven’t responded.

The thing is, I genuinely think he’s a nice person, and I’m not trying to assume he’s romantically interested or make myself sound full of myself. He honestly may just want friends. But I’m not interested romantically, and I don’t want to accidentally lead him on. Also, i think he may be neurodivergent to some sort, he seems a little socially awkward and doesn’t read cues well.

Should I:
- hang out casually and keep it friendly?

- keep politely distance myself and saying no to hangouts?

- directly clarify I only see him as a friend even though he hasn’t explicitly said anything romantic?

I mostly just don’t want to hurt his feelings or make the gym awkward.

Has anyone ever rented or stayed at the Beacon on 3rd (the condos, not the apartments) in the past 5 years?

Wondering experiences with the building, amenities, tenants, maintenance, etc

I wouldn’t be buying but renting so I know some stuff may be dependent on how good the property manager is

I did tour there and the property managers seems nice but still hoping to get more unbiased info

I applied at Envoy on 4/29 and havent heard anything (I know this is better than a TBNT tho)

I am having a hard time figuring out how to check my application status to see if anything has happened

Any tips on finding where my status is, or timelines from other employees on the process, or from those who moved forward? Did anyone else apply around the same time?

Thank you!

Not sure if this is a good place to post but I need advice

I (24F) female started going to a personal trainer about 2 months ago. It’s a relatively small local gym with like 3ish trainers and the building itself is pretty small, probably the size of a living room in someone’s house.

Everyone there is really nice and likes to chat with another. Because of the size it’s easy to do this because we’re not really spread out.

There’s a guy there a few years younger than me. I was going twice a week around the same time so we’d see each other there. He’s nice but not my type.

He friendly tho and I don’t mind exchanging some convo but im not interested in being more than friends. For additional info, he talks pretty loudly and I think he may be neurodivergent to some extent tbh, just a vibe I get from him. I feel like he’s not the best at social cues?

Anyway, we’ve talked a few times during the workouts because it’s a pretty open space.

A few weeks ago around both our birthdays he invited me to join his friends at a bar. I ended up not going bc of other plans. The next time I saw him I mention to him that a restaurant/bar in town does free drinks if it’s your birthday. I think he thought I was inviting him out to get drinks together but I was just telling him

Since then he has asked for my number and said we should do something . The first time it caught me off guard because I was in the middle of using a machine and he asked pretty loudly to which everyone could hear. I told him I was busy that weekend but yeah we’ll have to.

At my next session my trainer pulled me to the side and asked how I felt as she didn’t want me to feel uncomfortable going there. I basically just told her I saw him as just a friend and I wouldn’t mind maybe hanging out casually but I don’t want to give him the wrong idea. Again this makes it awkward bc it’s a small space so everyone heard our interaction.

The next week he again asked while I was on my way out for my number. I just gave it to him. He later texted and invited me for drinks with his friends but I had plans already. He texted me this weekend and asked what I was up to but I never responded.

He just texted me today and said he wanted to follow up if I wanted to hang this week.

I’m sure he’s a nice guy and i don’t mind being friends but I don’t want him to get the wrong idea. Also, I am busy and have never like intentionally not hung out with him, I work full time and have other friends and things going on.

Anyway, I don’t want to be mean or make it awkward. I only go to this PT once a week now anyway so I don’t see him as often anyway I guess, but hanging out isn’t a priority as much when I also have other things going on. I’m sure he’s nice but idk what to do.

I could just hangout w him and make sure to communicate we’re friends, that’s all he might want anyway, to make more friends. Idk. I’m not trying to be superficial or even egotistical to think this is a date or something, it could just be a guy trying to make friends.

This may seem like a silly post and I'm sure I am overthinking but I really do wondering what airlines are looking for

Ive completed assesments for airlines with questions that ask you to rank statements like

"I am patient at work" "I am nervous" "I am confident in my decisions"

and you rank them for always yes, mostly yes to , sometimes, never, mostly no and always no.

and i just wonder what do they really want?

is it better to answer "always" to a question even tho no human is perfect and rarely ALWAYS does it, or just "mostly" to show some humanity?

any thoughts?

Has anyone gotten their eyebrows nano bladed or micro bladed in town and have a recommendation or bad experiences?

I’ve gotten a few quotes but I care more about the quality of the service than anything, especially since it’s semi permanent. I’d prefer to have them nano bladed as well but I know most people do micro.

Thanks!

Would love to speak with someone who’s knowledgeable about breeze airways! Please message me or comment if you know anything

Whether you’re an employee, former employee, went to training and didn’t finish, have friends/family who work there, etc

Thank you!

This may seem like a silly post, but Ive been going back and forth a lot regarding it, so I figured I'd ask for input

I (24F) am looking to move to a new city but can't decide if I should get a roommate or not...

I know most people desire to live alone, and although parts of me do, I think there are pros and cons to it. I made a list to explain my thought process and situation

I'm looking to move to St Pete if anyone is familiar with the area, specifically close to downtown, where the bars are

Pro Living Alone

- wouldn't have to find a roommate

- wouldn't have to pick up after anyone or worry about anyone else's schedules, etc., would have free use of the house

- wouldn't have to deal with potentially having a "bad" roommate. Tho Id do my best to try to vet them first and go over what I'd prefer with a roommate, anything could happen once we live together. Out of the 10+ roommates Ive had, most have been good, but I recently had 1 situation where I wasn't really a fan of my roommates, and it did make the year frustrating. That was a year ago, and it makes me more cautious now. I live with 1 person currently, and I already knew her really well, so it's a lot easier. I'd like to think I'm a good roommate, and I'd like someone similar to me. I'm a pretty go with the flow roommate, I don't mind having people over, I work hard, play hard, I just want someone who's nice and somewhat clean, can be outgoing, I would prefer to be friends or friendly with them, around my age, so I'd like to think I could meet someone like this, but it's always a gamble.

Con living alone

- Could be harder to make friends, wouldn't have a built-in buddy?

- May feel unsafe living in a new city by myself... ive never lived alone.

- would be more expensive, but I wouldn't put myself in too much strain if I couldn't afford to live alone

- I work fully remote, so I'd maybe go days without seeing people until I start making friends

I am hoping to live close to downtown, where it's walking distance to stores, bars, gyms, etc., to get out of my house more, but yeah, I realize if I live alone, I may go without seeing someone all day unless I put myself out there. I do know a few people already living in the area, I could try to hang out with and will utilize FB groups and bumble bff to hopefully make friends.

Anyway, what should I do?

hoping to get some info on breeze, done some research but it being newer, theres not as much.

my main question is this:
i noticed they hire in specific cities and ask you to live within 2 hours driving distance, will you be rejected if you dont live there at the time of application? what if you plan on relocating once hired? do you need to have documents that match to prove you live in a certain city? i live within two hours of a city theyre hiring in, but my ID doesnt reflect that.

i also noticed that on the application it says "Do you understand that you are applying to the Full Time Flight Attendant job posting and we can only process your application in one Flight Attendant posting at a time?"

I live within 2 hour driving distance of two of their listings, does this mean I can only apply for one?

Its almost a gamble then because I could apply at one and not get hired but couldve been hired at the other location...

just trying to make sure i understand this. any info on this airline is helpful!

thank you for any insight!

ive read up on sky west and that they have no official commuter policy and don’t recommend it, but do any of you do it? how is it? do you have plans to ever move close to a base or just hoping to eventually transfer closer to where you already live?

thought about applying with them but the commuter policy is something to consider

thank you!

i may be overthinking but don’t want to get this wrong…

on the envoy application it says “have you ever been through the hiring process or employed by envoy air, American Airlines, or another American group? This includes temp workers, unpaid/paid new hire training, and internships.

in fall of 2025 i applied for American and completed an on demand interview but wasn’t selected. does that mean i click yes?

if I click yes it asks about my dates if employment, job title, etc, but those answers aren’t mandatory so i guess I could just write i interviewed and wasn’t selected

the wording confuses me bc i was never an employee but don’t wanna seem like im lying either :/

what would you do?