u/Alternative_Comb_343

I don't want to gatekeep what'sfinally workedfor me in my 30s!

>Saw palmetto 3000 mgs with nettle, and pumpkin oil capsules!!

>- I also get red light treatment on my hair And washing my hair after workouts, even daily if required I am seeing a lot of baby hair on my scalp
- Low breakage
- shampoo type hardly matters, but apply conditioner on your hair strands never on your scalp.

Make sure you :

1. Wash your hair
2. get the red light
3. .apply any serums (I apply the hair serum from Ordinary) Always do the above after washing your hair! Give it 6 months atleast, be consistent.
4. Remember - Light therapy atleast 3 times a week, and the capsules everyday after your biggest meal.

For context, I am now married and have a baby. Ny wife is extremely wonderful, soft spoken, is stunning, not confrontational etc although we are going through a major rough patch. I am sure it'll get better.

Last year, at a Christmas party we bumped into a girl I was talking to almost a decade ago. She was a very smart, funny, very introverted, and thoughtful person BUT very confrontational and opinionated vs knowing when to let things go (I'll leave it at that but therr were reasons). My wife sensed a change in my expression I guess. That girl/now woman, briefly and politely said hello to us when my work friend introduced us. There were enough people at the party so we didn't really have to bump into each other. I told my wife about our history and my wife didn't say much but I asked her if she heard something at the party. That girl was always very strange to me, so I won't be surprised if she's been telling our mutual friends shit. It's also weird that we bump into each other after 10 years, she always had her 2 or 3 friends, and was so introverted so it's strange that she's suddenly made new friends she seemed to be extremely close with.

Here is what happened with her:

* We matched on a dating app at the end of 2016. After talking daily for a month, I told her I was moving to Australia in January 2017.

* She ended things because she "was always looking for something serious."

* In February 2017, I reached out to her again because I missed our connection while navigating a new country, and she responded. We spoke for months, about everything (jobs, politics, our day to day stuff, issues normal stuff you talk with friends) and there were romantic exchanges over TEXTs and boom she fell for me! I didn't feel the same way and never told her I did nor said anything about us being even close to a relationship, no labels nothing!

* I continued using dating apps, though nothing serious came of it.

* Around mid-June 2017, I came back for three weeks. We met up and had a great first date, but I just wasn't very attracted to her.

* Over the next few days, she grew silent and distant, not responding to my texts with the same energy. Then, I noticed her profile pop up on a dating app.

* I asked her to meet for coffee and casually brought it up, asking how dating was going for her. She claimed she recreated her profile because she found out through friends that I was still active on the apps.

* I wasn't sure if I could trust her, so I had my best friend match with her to see if she truly was absent on dating apps all that time or if she was active and meeting guys. This is where it gets freaky, she immediately messaged me asking, "Why is your friend deliberately trying to talk to me on Tinder?" I never brought up my best friend and they had never met, so how did she know? This is why I think there was something seriously wrong with her.

* She then blamed me for misleading her all those months. We were never a thing, and we never spoke about being in a relationship. In fact, we only met in person months after talking, so it was a lot of crazy talk.

* I honestly expected her to be more mature and understanding, especially since she knew I had gone through a traumatic drowning experience where I lost two friends in July 2017. I called her to let her know what she was doing to someone in my state, but she just got all teary and didn't say anything after I gave her a chance to talk. We didn't speak after that, but I noticed she unfollowed me on Instagram and Facebook.

* In 2018, we spoke again after I got back, but she was still very distant. I politely messaged her, "Please don't message me again," after which she called me and completely went off. I hung up and blocked her on all apps. We were never in a relationship or exclusive; we just spoke on a daily basis while I was in Australia.

Should I reach out to her and give her closure to end whatever that was? I don't hold any grudges in my heart against anything that happened back then anyway. But we have a mutual circle of friends and I don't want thinks to get awkward.

For context, I met my wife in 2019. She's a nurse, and both of us come from wealthy families. We belong to different religions, but that has never been an issue for us. We got married on June 8th, 2023, and had a daughter at the end of last year.

Recently, I made some errors due to a lack of judgment, and she hasn't been willing to move past it for the sake of our newborn. The friction started early last year. My wife is intelligent, soft-spoken, loves fashion and luxury, tall, and beautiful. She has always been so mature.

Last year, I spoke to a tarot card reader at a fair just for fun, and without me saying anything, she called out that I was having trouble in my marriage. She told me I need to apologize to a girl I apparently "hurt" way back before I met my wife. I had dated a few women before meeting my wife, but there was one woman I just talked to who was the most unreasonable.

Here is what happened with her: > * We matched on a dating app at the end of 2016. After talking daily for a month, I told her I was moving to Australia in January 2017. > * She ended things because she "was always looking for something serious." > * In February 2017, I reached out to her again because I missed our connection while navigating a new country, and she responded. We spoke for months, and she fell for me. I didn't feel the same way and never told her I did. > * I continued using dating apps, though nothing serious came of it. > * Around mid-June 2017, I came back for three weeks. We met up and had a great first date, but I just wasn't very attracted to her. > * Over the next few days, she grew silent and distant, not responding to my texts with the same energy. Then, I noticed her profile pop up on a dating app. > * I asked her to meet for coffee and casually brought it up, asking how dating was going for her. She claimed she recreated her profile because she found out through friends that I was still active on the apps. > * I wasn't sure if I could trust her, so I had my best friend match with her to see what she would say. This is where it gets freaky, she immediately messaged me asking, "Why is your friend deliberately trying to talk to me on Tinder?" I never brought up my best friend and they had never met, so how did she know? This is why I think there was something seriously wrong with her. > * She then blamed me for misleading her all those months. We were never a thing, and we never spoke about being in a relationship. In fact, we only met in person months after talking, so it was a lot of crazy talk. > * I honestly expected her to be more mature and understanding, especially since she knew I had gone through a traumatic drowning experience where I lost two friends in July 2017. I called her to let her know what she was doing to someone in my state, but she just got all teary and didn't say anything after I gave her a chance to talk. We didn't speak after that, but I noticed she unfollowed me on Instagram and Facebook. > * In 2018, we spoke again after I got back, but she was still very distant. I politely messaged her, "Please don't message me again," after which she called me and completely went off. I hung up and blocked her on all apps. We were never in a relationship or exclusive; we just spoke on a daily basis while I was in Australia.

Now, the tarot reader is telling me I have to apologize to her. I'm not sure how I feel about this. She had her head full of impractical romance movies. While I don't usually believe in this stuff, I'm beginning to wonder if it might actually be true.

Should I reach out to her and give her closure to end whatever that was? I don't hold any grudges in my heart against anything that happened back then anyway.

I am noticing a lot of threads (on reddit) where people with this conjunction are reporting loveless life, singledom, broken marriage, or a deceased spouse (untimely).

Is Ambani who too has this cluster of planets, the only person who somehow was blessed by navgrahas - marriage and kids? I am not comparing wealth nor interested (but dear God, you are welcome to bless us all), I too am in Telecom Digital Marketing, and other folks with this similarity had something to do with communications/oratory/creativity as a career

I have the 3 planets in Gemini in my 3H, and Mercury is in the same house but atleast 10 degrees away from the 3.

It's a constant battle between multiple poojas, sadhnas, determination....and then giving up.

Saw palmetto 3000 mgs with nettle, and pumpkin oil capsules!!

> I also get red light treatment on my hair

> And washing my hair after workouts, even daily if required

> I am seeing a lot of baby hair on my scalp

> Low breakage

> shampoo type hardly matters, but apply conditioner on your hair strands never on your scalp.

Make sure you :

1. Wash your hair

2. get the red light

3.apply any serums (I apply the hair serum from Ordinary)

Always do the above after washing your hair! Give it 6 months atleast, be consistent. Light therapy atleast 3 times a week, and the capsules everyday after your biggest meal.

I have a disappointing/non existing love life.

34/f, with Mars Ascendant (Ashwini) in 1HAries,

Sun (Mrigashira) also Mahadasha, Venus (Mrigashira), Ketu (Ardra) in Gem,

Saturn Retro in Capri.

Despite assurances that I am destined to get married through expert pandits and professionals, I kept getting stuck in an endless circle - looking to find my person, talking stage, then for some reason just the end.

I prayed to Shivji and kept my somvaar vrats which successfully ended in April 2026.....yet nothing. I only had water during my vrats, and also tried to workout in evenings on Mondays to further challenge myself. I trusted Shivji to grant me my wishes as he does for everyone, no matter the kundalis he finds a way to circumvent the restrictions. But not sure what went wrong.

And I have reached a point of just not caring anymore. Sure, pure detachment as some may say is gold...but, I feel entirely numb and almost like even the supreme power is ignoring my pleas.

Has anyone faced something similar?

I have a not so great kundali and a disappointing/non existing love life.

34/f, with Mars Ascendant in 1 house, Sun (Mrigashira) also Mahadasha, Venus (Mrigashira), Ketu (Ardra) in 3 house Saturn Retro in 10 house. Despite assurances that I am destined to get married through expert pandits and professionals, I kept getting stuck in an endless circle - looking to find my person, talking stage, then for some reason just the end. I prayed to Shivji and kept my somvaar vrats which successfully ended in April 2026.....yet nothing. I only had water during my vrats, and also tried to workout in evenings on Mondays to further challenge myself. I trusted Shivji to grant me my wishes as he does for everyone, no matter the kundalis he finds a way to circumvent the restrictions. But not sure what went wrong. And I have reached a point of just not caring anymore. Sure, pure detachment as some may say is gold...but, I feel entirely numb and almost like even the supreme power is ignoring my pleas.

Has anyone faced something similar?

I have a not so great kundali and a disappointing/non existing love life.

34/f, with Mars Ascendant in 1 house,

Sun (Mrigashira) also Mahadasha, Venus (Mrigashira), Ketu (Ardra) in 3 house

Saturn Retro in 10 house.

Despite assurances that I am destined to get married through expert pandits and professionals, I kept getting stuck in an endless circle - looking to find my person, talking stage, then for some reason just the end.

I prayed to Shivji and kept my somvaar vrats which successfully ended in April 2026.....yet nothing. I only had water during my vrats, and also tried to workout in evenings on Mondays to further challenge myself. I trusted Shivji to grant me my wishes as he does for everyone, no matter the kundalis he finds a way to circumvent the restrictions. But not sure what went wrong.

And I have reached a point of just not caring anymore. Sure, pure detachment as some may say is gold...but, I feel entirely numb and almost like even the supreme power is ignoring my pleas.

Has anyone faced something similar?