u/AmountVegetable3483

I recently started talking to a girl who admitted I’ve been her crush for a while. She’s clearly hyped up, but she has zero filter and is making intense sexual comments/joke that are completely stressing me out. It honestly seems like her intention is to have s@xsux with me.

We are literally just in the talking stage and I wanted to take things slow, but she is acting way too comfortable way too fast. This high-pressure energy is totally ruining the vibe for me.

I know she’s probably just over-excited because I was her crush, but is this just another hoe, or is she just an over-eager girl who doesn't know how to act? Is she being way too comfortable, or am I overreacting?

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I feel exactly like this while talking to a girl. I need to think 10 times before saying anything. Lead convo often or have to listen her yap . Support her even she is villan on her story 😶. Can't even send crazy humorous memes , my feed is even unromantic ,where do i find nice reels. Also i'm not liking this emotional dependency , i want noone to know about my life at this time . This emotional dependency is making me weak . How not to feel bored while talking ?

I was working for an international company as a mobile application developer earning 1L+ per month with 1 year of experience. Everything seemed good, life was running smooth until I got laid off.

As every other company we also used to use claude code and did AI assisted coding. But later the company started hiring some experienced full stack developer and laying off front end, back end and mobile application developers with specific skillset. I mean why wouldnt they? Hiring a full stack developer with 3+ years of experience would yield the same result as three junior developers with specific skill set combined.

Now the hard part, I have been applying jobs here and there and havent got one in months. Instead I am diversifying my skillset and learning video editing and motion graphics. But still that is also volatile.

My grandma is a farmer and she earns more than 30k a month with all the dudh, ghee and khasi that she sells. I did the calculation, if I manage to sell 2 khasi per month it will be worth it.
The farming doesnt have to be full commercial with a lot of capital expenditure. My grandma already has some khasi bokas, we have the land, we already have a shed. I think I might call my grandma and start selling khasis to make living.

I was good at what I did but there is always someone who can do better than you and you are always replicable in a company, no matter how hard you work. Anyway, good luck to those perusing their careers as developers.

PS: sorry for any mistakes, I have stopped relying on AI for writing. I think it made me dumber.

ONLY BOYS .BELOW 16 YR ,KIDS ARE NOT ALLOWED

Why should only men be expected to approach first?
Why should only men be expected to plan dates, pull chairs, give flowers, text first, or constantly “prove” their love?

If pulling a chair is considered respect, then respect can go both ways.
If giving flowers is considered a sweet gesture, then either person can do it.
If effort is attractive, then both people should make effort.

Equality should not mean:

• traditional roles when convenient,
• modern equality when beneficial.

A healthy relationship is not “the man serves, the woman receives.”
It is two people appreciating, respecting, and caring for each other equally.

Men also like surprises.
Men also like compliments.
Men also want to feel wanted, valued, and chosen not just expected to perform endlessly.

Real equality is not about removing kindness.
It is about normalizing mutual kindness.

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