u/Anon_25_20

i don’t know whether to breakup or not.

need help.

sorry for the long message in advance! i really need some advice and perspective from a guy (or girl). i’m ‘23F’ my bf is 20 M. We’ve been dating for almost a year now. i have caught him in multiple lies and i don’t know if im just not being trusting enough or if he has blatantly lied to my face and disrespected me.

first off, in our talking stage he told me the only people he had on snapchat besides me were his mom, grandma and guy friends. come to find out, about a month into us talking i asked to see his snapchat and he showed me and there were multiple girls. he told me they were “just streaks” which to be fair looked believable because all of the snaps were unopened from weeks prior. but why would he lie??

the next lie was that i saw on his discord he had an invite to an only fans server, and it said it was sent from another server he was on called ‘lustful’. he swore to me he wouldn’t ever join a server like that but idk how discord works, can it add you to random servers or recommend you random ones?

then he lied to me, telling me for our whole relationship he didn’t have tik tok. however i would see him view my profile. i forced him to show me tik tok on his phone and he had been very active on it. liking videos for months. his watch history also had several girls clothed in barely anything or twerking. to be fair, it wasn’t a ton but enough for me to notice. he said “he can’t help what pops up” but the issue is he watched the same girl several times.

i feel heartbroken and unsure of what to do. i really do like him and don’t want to lose the relationship but it feels hopeless. he’s apologized for lying now but is this beyond saving?? is this a sign of future cheating? pls help.

he has apologized and says he won’t ever lie again and he wants to fix this and regain trust but i feel unsure.

i don’t know whether to breakup or not.

need help.

sorry for the long message in advance! i really need some advice and perspective from a guy (or girl). i’m ‘23F’ my bf is 20 M. We’ve been dating for almost a year now. i have caught him in multiple lies and i don’t know if im just not being trusting enough or if he has blatantly lied to my face and disrespected me.

first off, in our talking stage he told me the only people he had on snapchat besides me were his mom, grandma and guy friends. come to find out, about a month into us talking i asked to see his snapchat and he showed me and there were multiple girls. he told me they were “just streaks” which to be fair looked believable because all of the snaps were unopened from weeks prior. but why would he lie??

the next lie was that i saw on his discord he had an invite to an only fans server, and it said it was sent from another server he was on called ‘lustful’. he swore to me he wouldn’t ever join a server like that but idk how discord works, can it add you to random servers or recommend you random ones?

then he lied to me, telling me for our whole relationship he didn’t have tik tok. however i would see him view my profile. i forced him to show me tik tok on his phone and he had been very active on it. liking videos for months. his watch history also had several girls clothed in barely anything or twerking. to be fair, it wasn’t a ton but enough for me to notice. he said “he can’t help what pops up” but the issue is he watched the same girl several times.

i feel heartbroken and unsure of what to do. i really do like him and don’t want to lose the relationship but it feels hopeless. he’s apologized for lying now but is this beyond saving?? is this a sign of future cheating? pls help.

he has apologized and says he won’t ever lie again and he wants to fix this and regain trust but i feel unsure.

sorry for the long message in advance! i really need some advice and perspective from a guy (or girl). i’m ‘23F’ my bf is 20 M. We’ve been dating for almost a year now. i have caught him in multiple lies and i don’t know if im just not being trusting enough or if he has blatantly lied to my face and disrespected me.

first off, in our talking stage he told me the only people he had on snapchat besides me were his mom, grandma and guy friends. come to find out, about a month into us talking i asked to see his snapchat and he showed me and there were multiple girls. he told me they were “just streaks” which to be fair looked believable because all of the snaps were unopened from weeks prior. but why would he lie??

the next lie was that i saw on his discord he had an invite to an only fans server, and it said it was sent from another server he was on called ‘lustful’. he swore to me he wouldn’t ever join a server like that but idk how discord works, can it add you to random servers or recommend you random ones?

then he lied to me, telling me for our whole relationship he didn’t have tik tok. however i would see him view my profile. i forced him to show me tik tok on his phone and he had been very active on it. liking videos for months. his watch history also had several girls clothed in barely anything or twerking. to be fair, it wasn’t a ton but enough for me to notice. he said “he can’t help what pops up” but the issue is he watched the same girl several times.

i feel heartbroken and unsure of what to do. i really do like him and don’t want to lose the relationship but it feels hopeless. he’s apologized for lying now but is this beyond saving?? is this a sign of future cheating? pls help.

sorry for the long message in advance! i’m ‘23F’ my bf is 20 M. We’ve been dating for almost a year now. i have caught him in multiple lies and i don’t know if im just not being trusting enough or if he has blatantly lied to my face and disrespected me. first off, in our talking stage he told me the only people he had on snapchat besides me were his mom, grandma and guy friends. come to find out, about a month into us talking i asked to see his snapchat and he showed me and there were multiple girls. he told me they were “just streaks” which to be fair looked believable because all of the snaps were unopened from weeks prior. but why would he lie?? the next lie was that i saw on his discord he had an invite to an only fans server, and it said it was sent from another server he was on called ‘lustful’. he swore to me he wouldn’t ever join a server like that but idk how discord works, can it add you to random servers or recommend you random ones? then he lied to me, telling me for our whole relationship he didn’t have tik tok. however i would see him view my profile. i forced him to show me tik tok on his phone and he had been very active on it. liking videos for months. his watch history also had several girls clothed in barely anything or twerking. to be fair, it wasn’t a ton but enough for me to notice. he said “he can’t help what pops up” but the issue is he watched the same girl several times. i feel heartbroken and unsure of what to do. i really do like him and don’t want to lose the relationship but it feels hopeless. he’s apologized for lying now but is this beyond saving?? is this a sign of future cheating? pls help.

me and my bf were both nude and being intimate. i was on top of him and we were grinding. he also slapped his penis on my vagina and was rubbing it up and down me, and i’m pretty sure he touched the entrance. i’m scared because i don’t know if it penetrated but im sure i would’ve felt it if it did??? please don’t judge. can this cause pregnancy at all?