u/Anxious_Order5998

Her crush is a good friend of mine. and he was seeing another girl. whenever i told her that he was meeting someone, she told me its fine and to ask further questions like "if you were NOT dating her will you have a crush on [name]". and now that they are dating, she isn't telling him that I wasn't the one forcing these questions, it was her. I really want to tell him cuz he later told her that he felt pressured by me and I really want to tell him that it was her asking these questions, and she said shes never gonna tell him. I dont have feelings for him, but i could tell i made him feel pressured even when it wasn't me who wanted to ask those questions. and now my friends dry asf and i really want to tell him that it wasn't me asking those questions.

For context, I'm a teenager. Some things from school have been really getting on my mind and I feel anxious and emotional. When I first went to a reptile cafe I held a ball python and felt relieved and safe. But my mom says I have to feed them rats which was gross, and I already had a leopard gecko which was enough. I love my gecko, but i felt much more relieved to hold a ball python which was bigger and also less skittish when held. What should I do to convince her? ive saved about 300$+, and i saw a nearby reptile store that sold a ball python for 61USD, and i found a big cage with lots of enclosure things to keep it warm and entertained, now its just the convincing. How should i convince her?