u/Anxious__24_7

Honestly did not think about this when I thought I'd take off the hijab because I do not think it's obligatory, and honestly I don't even think it is necessary to pray, but because of the society we live in and the indoctrination it would feel very weird to pray without the hijab in public yk, so how am I supposed to deal with this, especially because all the Hijabis online love to bash ppl by saying "don't wear it if you can't face Allah in it"

Like the absolute bs???😭 men can face Allah, the creator of the universe, without covering their hair but women can't because how blasphemous?? Make it make sense, isn't Allah ever-present and all seeing wdym we have to be modest against Him SWT

THIS MAKES NO SENSE BRUH

I gave myself a deadline about taking off the hijab, it's basically after my finals when I'll not be in the same friend group anymore (for context everyone in my friend group is a hijabi) soo my finals are so close, I'm freaking excited, nervous and overall a mess, idek how to explain this feeling, I'm gonna dye my hair and take the hijab off and go to uni, it's easier said than done, but I am excited and very scares icl.

I thought this sub was different but I've noticed in every Muslim community, people are so condescending and think they are morally superior to others, even someone asking an innocent question and even here I've seen the "land you in hell", the fear mongering God, it's so disgusting, I thought yall were different but men here are misogynistic as well icl, can Muslims ever form a loving community?

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Ik this is not exactly the sub to post this but I need an answer, what would your answer be to people that say they are not a feminist because Islam has gender roles and they support these gender roles? Like men providing etc.

Idk this argument just gives me the ick but I cannot point out why.

Ik this is not exactly the sub to post this but I need an answer, what would your answer be to people that say they are not a feminist because Islam has gender roles and they support these gender roles? Like men providing etc.

Idk this argument just gives me the ick but I cannot point out why.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DXctFdBtVID/

I used to loveee this influencer so much, she was the one who influenced me to want to start Hijab ig at the age of 13, I took it at 14-15 though, like she was so free, knowledgeable and honestly so graceful, but idk she got married became a mom (I am not undermining them at all) and all her content became about parenting, Allahumabarik I hope she remains happy, but then she started posting things like THIS.

And honestly it irks me soo bad, and then I wonder if these people never even thought thar Hijab might not be obligatory? You're telling me a Higher Power, God would say to women to cover themselves like this, it is HARD bruh very hard especially just that it's your vessel not your soul, and just say nothing to men? No the hijab of eyes that men have cannot be compared to this hiding of hand face and idk eyes? It's so crazy if you compare them, it is just not fair and then we have people saying its not hijab thats not this and that as if they are gonna be answerable to God in the other person's place, really really pmo icl.