u/Appropriate-Power425

Hi everyone,

I’m looking for advice regarding a housing situation in the Netherlands.

I rent an apartment entirely under my own name. My ex-partner has been living with me, but after the relationship ended, they now refuse to leave the apartment voluntarily.

There are no children involved, and the rental contract is only in my name. I already informed them that they need to find another place, but they are basically saying they will not leave.

Has anyone here gone through a similar situation in the Netherlands?
What legal steps did you take?
Did you need a lawyer or court order?
How long did the process take?
Can the landlord help in such cases?
I’m trying to handle this legally and correctly, but I also want to understand what realistic options exist if someone simply refuses to move out.
Any advice or shared experiences would help.

I genuinely cannot figure out whether what I’m doing is right or wrong anymore.

So basically, around a year ago I joined a new company. I reviewed a large part of the Android project and after that I implemented around 4–5 major features myself with a lot of research and reviews involved.

But then the AI boom started, and for the last month I’ve been heavily using tools like Codex.

Today in a meeting someone asked me how I implemented one of the recent features, and honestly I could barely explain it properly. The reason is that AI mostly wrote it. At the time I was working on it, I did understand the logic and flow, but when you write code yourself manually, things stay in your memory much more strongly.

With AI-assisted coding, I feel like you forget things much faster, and you slowly become dependent on AI even for very small things.

Now whenever I implement a new feature, I feel guilty. I keep thinking:
“I didn’t really implement this feature… AI did.”

At this point, around 80% of my time is AI-assisted coding, and the remaining 20% is me researching how to improve AI workflows and prompting skills.

Before this AI wave, developers used to spend most of their time researching architecture, standards, and engineering practices. Now it feels like people are focusing more on AI tooling skills instead.

Is this actually okay?
Are other developers experiencing the same thing?