u/AppropriateLeg5416

I work as a freelancer software enginneer, I have my own way of making money and I live good at the beach, pretty social, smart, I do many hobbies like Boxing, BJJ, I'm pretty good at talking to people, and I consider I have a good appearence.

my family loves me, my parents friends wanted me to date their daughter, an ISFP. that... just didn't work out.

In my teenages I was an asshole. Cocky mf willing to debate everyone. While my friends were banging girls at school I was getting into physical fights, discussions, debating history with my history teacher, causing polemics on twitter with political opinions that weren't even mine...

After my 17 years old I changed, I had no friends in my new school and I was addicted to software and finding a way to not work in a 9-5 job.

I did it. But as I never go to night clubs, I work at home and I just do male-driven activities, I'm surrounded by testosterone but no estrogen to share a bit of life.

I never had a girlfriend, I make sex with hookers some times and when I start something with a girl they seem to find a way to play an ego game with me, for some reason. An INTP girl was like this. When I was actually with my head in my company and projects but willing to travel some miles to go to a date with her, she found many times ways to "make me wait". I just can't play this BS...

After receiving a good money from a project, beating people in a ring and going to drink in a pub with friends, I go home and I find no partner with me. I feel lonely.

Two of the most ENTP people I know in my country, Brazil, are BOTH related to extreme right wing views, pseudoscience, telling what a man must be or what a woman must be and "what is wrong what is right" blablabla.

Typing these people, I often see MORAL arguments. usually relating every personality like it had to follow some type of moral or political alignment to them. like ISFJ = right wing ENFP = left wing and so on...

because... of course, someone going to podcasts, talking 3 hours straight making absurd brainstorms telling people that "the only way to save your soul and your family from going to hell, and saving your children from turning gay, and your wife from being a whore, is buying bitcoin. Because as jesus came to earth teach the gospel and those who didn't listen went to hell also who doesn't listen to him is going to suffer with the 'economical apocalypsis' that is like the biblical one"

This personality is so fucking unique (Or... ENTP) that I think it is hard to explain what he is to anyone that doesn't speak portuguese and never listened to him (Renato 38tão if you want to search)

Then you go to the typing...

IT MUST BE AN ESTJ, RIGHT? because he is CONSERVATIVE! and ENTPs are WOOOKE! No! wait! He's ENTJ because he thinks Bukele is the GOAT! passionated by guns? absolutely crazy about money? is he a cop? then actually an ESTP!

this is shit. no one is looking to the structure of thinking, only purely to the content...

That goes so far, like ISTP intellectuals typed INTJ on PDB

I've seem once an ISFJ girl crucify me because I said I didn't think Stalin was a cool guy. Did I doubt she was an ISFJ? no, you understand things through the reasons she thought that.

This is one of the funniest things I've ever seem on reddit

I've decided to put my real photo on my reddit profile and everytime I post on the ENTP community there is some little soul to tell me I'm ESTP

I have no touch of Se-Dom, purely Ne. But if I say I'm a boxer and Jiu Jitsu fighter or/and people see my face I will be a sensor all the way

This always makes me think many intuitives are just p***** with no touch to real life, self care or appearence. I'm willing to think a bald head and no shirt on the beach makes you a sensor

Also saying I like to fish, surf and martial arts makes me a sensor. Are we for real?

* Fi, I wrote it wrong in the title

I've been a musician for my whole life (well, maybe not, but since my 10 years old)

I know music theory (a bit), I know many music genres, I know how to play some instruments, I analyse and I hear a lot of music

I just can't give a damn about the lyrics, for me it's about the technical work and how the melody sounds

For example I love goo goo dolls. It's basically a band made by an INFJ. It's romantic, passionated, but I just can't care about the emocional meaning of it. If I cry, the melody made me cry. The guitar solo is good, the intro, the outro, that's it.

I've been hearing all my life people saying "This song [something about relating to this person feelings]". If I lost my leg and I was hearing a song about a man with no leg I wouldn't probably even notice it

Sometimes I found some indie song that's basically just men hating lyrics, I think to myself "What a bigot" but I keep hearing it for hours and I just forget about whatever the singer is talking about.

"Do you see these lyrics of this heavy metal song mean you can't believe in [blablabla ideological bs]", no dude just hear the guitar solo, the rhythm, how harmonic everything is... I don't care about the message.

But that's maybe just my thing

"Hello I'm an INFJ F and I want so bad that an ENTP I know in my high school would date me (or any bullshit written that when you finish reading you understand it is just someone wanting to be smashed)

ARE WE FOR REAL TREATING THESE PEOPLE AS INFJs????????

Does someone ACTUALLY UNDERSTANDS how a Ni-Fe-Ti-Se looks like IRL? + how a female INFJs would look like?

Sometimes I think it's some unhealthy and horny ENTP boy making some noise and bait on the subreddit

I've seem this same type of bullshit written in different words many times in this sub...

What is even funnier is that ENTPs are also rare as fuck. I've met only one other ENTP in my entire life, that makes 2 of us. How TF does every INFJ happens to meet an ENTP in their life? How does it happens to them to say "Oh I've had 3 ENTP boyfriends in my life"... WHAT?

I've seem only one real INFJ in this subreddit and she deleted her account in about one week

Let's stop this bullshit of typing yourself as INxJs because it looks cool. Stop it, get some help.

INTPs are easy to find, specially in women. I've talked to them and it seems like organizing everything, their life, routine is very easy for them.

Sometimes I can't understand how they are Ne aux because they are not the crazy heads with one thousand ideas as we are. They're focused on some specific thing and they expand about it but with some type of direction. They build their enviroment to be familiar, while ENTPs just want to f* around everything with some type of disgust for routine.

In high school I used to be 12hours of my day at school because I had to. I got crazy. I felt like I was killing myself. Studying for tests? Fuck me. But for them it is like it is what it is and what they have to do.

What is your experience with them?

For me, I can quickly relate cognitive functions to anthropology and evolutive biology. I make hours of research of how different functions work with the enviroment, society, relationships...

I work with my own software clients. I have an INFP client, an ESFJ client, an ISTJ client, an ESFP client, I know how to deal with all of them

For me it's a framework to understand how to deal with people in a more sofisticated way. I know I can't debate the past with Dom and Aux Si users

I know I need to sell dreams and friendship more than concrete results for INFPs clients... I know logic won't work talking to feelers, I know selling emotions won't work with thinkers

That's more than just nerding out, although I didn't start studying it for some concrete purpose as Ni users or Te users would

I am also working on a graphic novel. Recognizing the cognitive functions of my characters helps me sooooo much working on them.

What about you guys?