Hope this is the right sub guys! Need fun recs in or around driving distance from the city? We are both total nerds but a hike might be nice
We have been burned by influencer recs too many times now and have trust issues lol! If you have any cool ideas that dont involve waiting in a line for 2 hours just for a disappointing time let me know below
My PC is running so slow randomly to a stop and I though it was malware but no scans showing up anything. Where can I start with invesrtigation as I am freaking out. Falcon Northwest said I am out of warranty for the item now so i am on my own.
In a very close friend group. His wife is one of my closest friends. It's been a long journey from blaming myself and thinking im overreacting to standing up for myself and choosing to avoid him and see the people I liked without him. His behaviour has escalated from uncomfortable to blatantly inappropriate including harassing comments and violations of my physical boundaries. I get angry and he laughs... So I've sadly excluded myself a lot but I am happier not being hyper aware and tense around him.
I talked his wife (very close friend), very carefully wording that I was uncomfortable with his actions. She assured me he didn't mean it in that way. He's autistic and just doesn't have much awareness and advised that trying to talk to him would upset him.
It was recently revealed that he has walked in on multiple women undressed as a joke. After being told by his wife to knock first. I remembered that he did it to me too but it was a while ago and I again blamed myself for a simple mistake. I felt so sick to my core that I was violated like that. It's partly a trauma trigger but also I go completely cold on people who repeatedly do immoral things like that.
So instead I just started to tell him to leave me alone, stop touching me. It hasn't worked. No one is standing behind me, they all go silent. We are all ND, I thought we were more immune to sheep mentality. I feel like they all are aware he is a problem but only I am standing up for myself. They are too scared to lose their friend group? I don't know. They laugh about his behaviour together. I sit there silently.
In the meanwhile they all still are friends, his wife talks so positively of him. The women talk often about these scenarios in anger , agreeing that - women have to put up with so much. I am beginning to feel bitter and angry with all of them. Most of all, him. How easy is it for a guy being a peeping tom creep when he has "lack of self awareness" autism? I think he knows what he is doing and knows he gets away with it.
I feel so sad. I feel like Im losing my friends. I can't move on but I feel like I need to at the same time. I keep hoping if I stay and keep telling him off, they will feel like they can say something. I truly don't think they are okay with his actions but I know that is so much to expect. I feel so sad and alone about it like I am grieving.
Had driver timeouts for a while that have progressed to full blown freezing on starting any game where I have to force close it. I tried to DDU reinstall drivers x2 and had to use Msconfig to safe boot as Shift+Restart went to a black screen. I've plugged in my HDMI to the CPU to reinstall the drivers but see no difference when switching back.
Now when turning on my PC I dont get any loading screens, just a 1 min wait and the logon screen appears.
Is this an bad update problem or a hardware one? IDK what else to do.