u/Arcreaper777

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I’m 20(m), I was staying in a flat with a roommate from my clg. So, we were friends and had many mutual friends together. We had one close mutual friend 21(m), he was close to both of us.

My roommate tried to extort money from the deposit and keep the major check of it while I was vacating the flat. We had huge altercation about it, I moved to another flat in the mean time. That mofo was delaying me in paying the deposit to me and kept saying he would give me only the 40% of the deposit. So, I didn’t wanna have a huge mess out of it cause we very arguing for ages and we’re not able to come to a decision and he just kept dragging this shit.

I was like fine this won’t work out and asked the mutual friend to convey it to him coz I felt like a third perspective would change his mind. The mutual friend was close to both of us !!! But one day the argument got so heated that we got into a physical altercation basically him charging and swinging his hands at me.

When this happened I said this happened i convey this to my mutual friend atp they were hanging out with other with some of my other friends.
I was close to mutual friend and he never checked on me after he got to know about the incident and found out from my other friend that he didn’t wanna get involved into any of this from the start. But, the least I could expect was for him to check up on me!

After they start hanging out with each other. I just felt betrayed and just cut the Mutual friend of from almost two months now. But I kinda miss him to, I cut ties with him from some other mofo. Should I reach out to him and talk things out or do I just let things stay as it it ?

I’m 20(m), I was staying in a flat with a roommate from my clg. So, we were friends and had many mutual friends together. We had one close mutual friend 21(m), he was close to both of us.

My roommate tried to extort money from the deposit and keep the major check of it while I was vacating the flat. We had huge altercation about it, I moved to another flat in the mean time. That mofo was delaying me in paying the deposit to me and kept saying he would give me only the 40% of the deposit. So, I didn’t wanna have a huge mess out of it cause we very arguing for ages and we’re not able to come to a decision and he just kept dragging this shit.

I was like fine this won’t work out and asked the mutual friend to convey it to him coz I felt like a third perspective would change his mind. The mutual friend was close to both of us !!! But one day the argument got so heated that we got into a physical altercation basically him charging and swinging his hands at me.

When this happened I said this happened i convey this to my mutual friend atp they were hanging out with other with some of my other friends.
I was close to mutual friend and he never checked on me after he got to know about the incident and found out from my other friend that he didn’t wanna get involved into any of this from the start. But, the least I could expect was for him to check up on me!

After they start hanging out with each other. I just felt betrayed and just cut the Mutual friend of from almost two months now. But I kinda miss him to, I cut ties with him from some other mofo. Should I reach out to him and talk things out or do I just let things stay as it it ?

I’m 20M, used to live in an apartment with my friend! So, me and him had a quarrel regarding the deposit of the house. He was supposed to pay me back but all he did was make excuses and promise me to give only half amount.

So, I dint wanna have bad blood with him so I asked one of my mutual friends to amend things from my side. I dint wanna get into heated argument over this. We were all really tightnknit, but we got into a heated argument and things led to a physical altercation. But him and my roommate used to hangout with each other!!!

I felt betrayed like my guy dint even check on me after the altercation!! I dint mind that hung out without me. I wanted to cut ties with him after this and haven’t spoken to him in months !!

But I want mend things with him, maybe he just dint wanna get involved. Should I just make up or do I just cut ties with him ??

I’m 20m, I have not had a gf before. But it’s not like girls don’t like me or anything like that. I have had my quite share of proposals and talking stages.
But even when a girl shows interest in me I feel like she is not good enough and I can do better

For instance, there was this girl I used to find pretty and I slid in her dms and meet with her. But she had a scar on her face, my mind went like shit if people see me with her they’ll make fun of me. We had good convo and she even try to hold my hand but I was off and she caught the vide and I ghosted her.

Similarly, there this other girl that I get along but have bad reputation and I just feel like if I go around with her people will also mock me!!

How do overcome this I just too much fucks about how people perceive me and shi like that !!!

So, there is this girl/ acquaintance. We used to be in the same fashion team and after the show, the fashion team members went for drinking .Where me and this girl was also there she was flirting with and caressing my hair and stuff and later she got drunk and slept on my lap. Then after some time we met again through a mutual friend and went drinking so this time I went to drop her in bike and she held me from the back, after dropping her she asked me for a hug !!
So, I have been a bit horny lately and just want to fuck her and not have any relationship how do I go ask for fwb ??

So, I slid into a girls dm from my clg. It was all good we used to text a lot later switched to calls and stuff we used to speak for hours! Then I saw in campus and went on a drive with her. Even on call she used to say about how she would get back with her ex and after the drive I got busy with exams and we had gap like for two in the span of two days she got back with her ex !!!

I was like cool and just diverted from that topic and spoke about other stuff. I liked speaking to her coz she entertained me during my free time. So after a week I called her! She spoke to me for 2 min and said sorry if ‘I gave u the wrong idea’. After that I just blocked her number after few days she puts up a reel where she says she broke up.
She put up another reel with my favourite song ( could be used coz it’s a trending song) ‘ missed what I thought it was’)
Should I just ignore and go find some other girl or should I just text her back ??

Hey, I’m a 20year old guy from Bangalore. I’m in my second year and have not dated a single girl in clg !!! It’s not because I can’t pull girls it’s just that I don’t vibe that much with them like there is no back and forth banter ! People say date someone for the sake of dating but I can’t do that. The same people will start judging me for saying uk what I’ll just date her for the sake of dating coz she is nice and will be like finding faults in her.

Honestly I feel like I get influenced by others opinion . So, I need y’all opinion on what I should do should I date someone from clg or find someone in a pub or outside clg ??