u/Aromatic-Hippo9624

So this is really really bad and I feel disgusting about it but a few weeks ago after too many drinks with my best friend we ended up like kissing and involving her husband who was there and it resulted in a 3some.

More recently it kinda happened again but not as much happened as last time. The day after tho my best friend tells me her husband had started acting weird and basically told her that we shouldn’t be doing this anymore especially since I’m her friend.

This kinda took me by surprise because I didn’t know he thought so badly of this, and I didn’t mind partaking in the activities, so this just makes me feel even more disgusted with myself knowing that her husband and now her agree that this shouldn’t happen again.

I guess I need advice on how to move on from this, like we all pretend like nothing ever happened or if I should stop beating myself up about it or confirm that this is disgusting and I need help.

Like very TMI I’m sorry but the past few times I’ve gotten sushi, I have the worst poops and farts ever.

My friend and I have decided to go on a vacation together and we’re planning it a bit on Tuesday, with the last thing me saying is confirming the dates. She has not responded yet and I’m lowkey stressing like should I be planning more or what. I’m not sure what she expects. Should I reach out again or wait for her response?

So some context my mom went out on a lake with her toxic ex boyfriend (both are abusive to each other idk what’s wrong with them) and she ended up dropping her phone, wallet, and keys in the lake almost drowning herself. A week later she calls me saying how good I am with money and that her ex hasn’t been paid yet and that she “needs” me to give them $50 for cigarettes and liquor. She has come to me before for money but this time just ticked me off because she doesn’t call or text me for anything other than money, so I told her no and that she needs to stop coming to me for this. She gets upset saying that she’s never asked me for money before hah and hung up on me.

I don’t want a bad relationship with my mom but it’s extremely frustrating and degrading that all I am to her is a way to get money. With Mother’s Day coming up, I do want to visit her and maybe get her something, but I feel like she doesn’t even want me around if I’m not going to give her what she wants. I guess this was just a rant but I’m open to any advice…..

I have been sick since Thursday night, just very stuffy, head ache, spinning, body aches, sore throat, cough all of it. I took sick leave Friday, spent the weekend feeling shitty and Monday worked from home because of my cough.

I’m def coughing less and feel better so I came in today, took shit ton of cough syrup but I still am coughing maybe every 10 minutes.

We all have our own cubes in the suite we are in and it’s not very loud in here, but should I just go home? 😭 I don’t want to be annoying and coughing but I also don’t want to ask my manager to work from home the rest of the day I’m already here…….

So I do not recommend getting sick right before your period starts because I am currently coughing up so much phlegm and mucus, I’m at the point where I sound like a velociraptor and nothing is coming out anymore but I just coughed so hard I queefed a bubble out. That was definitely a first.

So I will be in El Paso from Austin this weekend and forecast says a high of 65 on Saturday and 76 on Sunday.

Is this reliable or does El Paso change drastically like in Austin? We literally get hail one day and then blistering and humid heat the next so I’m very accustomed to crazy temp/weather changes.

I plan on being outside most of the day both days so should I pack a jacket for Saturday or just deal with the temp?