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Has anyone gotten the VIP package for both The Neighbourhood and Nessa at a show? I have my show on November 12th and bought the Neighbourhoods VIP already. I really want to get Nessa's too. I'm very introverted and will be attending the concert alone. I want to know exactly what to expect before spending the 200 dollars. I really want to get barricade and I also really want to meet Nessa, is it likely I could do both or do I have to choose which I would rather have? What would that day look like?

I had hung 3 different things on my walls using velcro strips and I went to change the placement of one of the items, and the strip peeled up the paint. I know I can hide it and get away with it until the end of the year, but what do I do when it's time to move out? The strips are about 2x2in squares. Would I get in more trouble just leaving it how it is, with patches of paint missing, or trying to fix it myself by filling it in and doing my best to color match the paint?

Does it sell out early or is it typically available after the show? I'm going to see The Neighbourhood in november and Nessa is opening. I really want her tough love shirt. I bought a floor + VIP ticket for The Nbhd and really want to try to get close to barricade, but I also really want the merch. Am I likely to have to pick over the other?

Classes start this upcoming week and I'm realizing I have two classes that are ten minutes apart. One class ends at 10:50 and the other begins at 11:00. They are about an 8 minute walk from each other. The class that starts at 11 has 99/100 seats filled so I imagine it's going to be packed. I struggle with asking people if I can sit beside them due to past experiences; being laughed at and turned down. I would be so humillated if that followed me into college. What do I do?

About two years ago I had a really bad heartbreak from a guy, I never felt that strongly for someone before and didn't know how to cope. It was never anything official, but I just really wanted it to work out. I met another guy in my area online and he seemed really sweet, offering to be there for me in a time of need. I told him all about the guy I was hurt over and he seemed really understanding. Shortly after, met him in person at a park. He seemed really nice and we spent about an hour talking, I told him about the guy, he told me about his ex. I thought we were kind of bonding by both being hurt. We sat down against what he said was the "devil tree" which was a little creepy but I didn't question it. After a bit, he asked to kiss me and I regrettably said yes. I felt so vulnerable and was desperate to feel wanted again. He suddenly pulled me onto his lap and unzipped my jacket, It was freezing outside, I was trembling and could hardly speak at this point. He took it off and slipped his hands under my shirt without asking. I was uncomfortable. I looked down at his face and he had this sick look of contentment. I felt a shiver down my spine and suddenly felt unsafe. What could I do? I'm in the middle of the woods in cold weather alone with a taller, stronger guy at the "devil tree". I felt so defenseless. I just let him, I know I should have said something and I hate myself everyday for not even trying to stop it. After he touched all he wanted, I put my clothes back on. Despite my discomfort, I had some twisted attachment to him. Maybe it was because he was willing to give me "love" that the guy before wouldn't. I agreed to see him again and again. I would go to his house after he told me he really liked me and just wanted to hang out some more. He told me the things I wanted to hear with a fragile heart. I was so, so vulnerable. He would hold me in his arms until I loosened up then would start kissing me. Soon enough my clothes were off. He never asked. If I showed hesitance, he would say please or make me feel pressured until I nodded or hummed a quiet "mhm..". I never gave him a verbal or expressive yes. I was scared of what would happen if I did. He told me he carried a gun on him, had knives. He loved horror movies and his room had decor that made me uneasy. I did things with him I never done before and I feel disgusted with myself that I let it happen. I feel like I can't say it was SA because I technically gave consent with my subtle gestures but I also can't accept I was fully willing to give him things that were meant to be dear to me. This went on for about 3 weeks until he ended things with me because I was "too boring".

A few months later I was scrolling on tiktok and saw a video with "top ten most haunted places" in my area. That tree from before was in it. I looked it up online and read the story of it, my heart fell to my stomach. It was known to be a place where girls my age were lured, SA'd then unalived. I've never felt the same since.

About two years ago I had a really bad heartbreak from a guy, I never felt that strongly for someone before and didn't know how to cope. It was never anything official, but I just really wanted it to work out. I met another guy in my area online and he seemed really sweet, offering to be there for me in a time of need. I told him all about the guy I was hurt over and he seemed really understanding. Shortly after, met him in person at a park. He seemed really nice and we spent about an hour talking, I told him about the guy, he told me about his ex. I thought we were kind of bonding by both being hurt. We sat down against what he said was the "devil tree" which was a little creepy but I didn't question it. After a bit, he asked to kiss me and I regrettably said yes. I felt so vulnerable and was desperate to feel wanted again. He suddenly pulled me onto his lap and unzipped my jacket, It was freezing outside, I was trembling and could hardly speak at this point. He took it off and slipped his hands under my shirt without asking. I was uncomfortable. I looked down at his face and he had this sick look of contentment. I felt a shiver down my spine and suddenly felt unsafe. What could I do? I'm in the middle of the woods in cold weather alone with a taller, stronger guy at the "devil tree". I felt so defenseless. I just let him, I know I should have said something and I hate myself everyday for not even trying to stop it. After he touched all he wanted, I put my clothes back on. Despite my discomfort, I had some twisted attachment to him. Maybe it was because he was willing to give me "love" that the guy before wouldn't. I agreed to see him again and again. I would go to his house after he told me he really liked me and just wanted to hang out some more. He told me the things I wanted to hear with a fragile heart. I was so, so vulnerable. He would hold me in his arms until I loosened up then would start kissing me. Soon enough my clothes were off. He never asked. If I showed hesitance, he would say please or make me feel pressured until I nodded or hummed a quiet "mhm..". I never gave him a verbal or expressive yes. I was scared of what would happen if I did. He told me he carried a gun on him, had knives. He loved horror movies and his room had decor that made me uneasy. I did things with him I never done before and I feel disgusted with myself that I let it happen. I feel like I can't say it was SA because I technically gave consent with my subtle gestures but I also can't accept I was fully willing to give him things that were meant to be dear to me. This went on for about 3 weeks until he ended things with me because I was "too boring".

A few months later I was scrolling on tiktok and saw a video with "top ten most haunted places" in my area. That tree from before was in it. I looked it up online and read the story of it, my heart fell to my stomach. It was known to be a place where girls my age were lured, SA'd then unalived. I've never felt the same since.

I’m almost 19 and have never had an orgasm. I feel too nervous to try fingering myself, as I am honestly uneducated of where everything is. I don’t want to cause accidental damage or something. I also don’t know how to find my clit. I’ve tried riding a pillow but it kind of hurt and I had no clue what I was doing. The only time Ive tried with someone else, I didn’t feel comfortable with him and asked him to stop. I really want to experience it though. What can I do to get myself to orgasm?

I will be a freshman in the fall and scheduled my orientation for early august. I know absolutely no one in the area, no family, no friends. I’ve always had severe anxiety and attachment issues so I know it’s going to be a really hard adjustment for me. I was thinking of asking my father to come with me, as he’s my only close family member, just so I have someone I feel comfortable with in such an unfamiliar atmosphere. I also don’t want to be the only one with a parent following them though. Is it common for families to come to orientation? Or will I seem pathetic because I need my dad with me?

She is opening for my night of the Hades Tour and I would love to know the songs she will play. At this moment she hasn't released a setlist. I've never been super into her so I don't know what songs she tends to perform time and time again. I know Im yours and older are two of her more popular songs so I'm sure those will make the performance. I've also been listing to porcelain and another song of hers since they're more recent.

Ever since I was 11, I've been looking into getting breast lift surgery. I was overweight as a kid, started my period at 10 and didn't wear bras until middle school. At 13 I lost a lot of weight unhealthily in a couple months. My mother was also a bigger chested woman, as I've heard it could be genetic. Around the age of 10, I noticed the stretch marks on my breasts and have been insecure since. I researched my options and a breast lift caught my attention, I told myself I would do it when I am old enough. I now turn 19 in a couple of months and I'm still insecure about them. I am also going to college, my "best boob years" are with ugly boobs. I don't want anyone to be disgusted with my body or think it looks aged. I want to feel young and admirable while I am. If it ever came to it, if a man I truly loved didn't like seeing my body, I would get surgery for him alone. Should I get a breast lift?

I’m attending FAU as a freshman this fall. I had a roommate, until today, when she informed me she is now attending another school. I heard that I could still request a different roommate if I talk to housing directly or put in a reassignment form. I was wondering if anyone is interested. I’m looking to share a normal double dorm room.

i’m going to the neighbourhood concert on 11/12, a while away i know, but i just want to be prepare ahead of time. im also interested in getting to know others going that same day!! but ive been seeing different things all over tiktok or lack thereof. i’m really hoping to get barricade and even bought the vip upgrade to better my chances. can i still get there when vip is first let in the door? so i have to get up super early and wait out the venue? i’ve been seeing things about wristbands, does that apply to vip? if i do have to get there super early, can i leave and come back?