Readers can scratch and sniff the pages to smell the sweet treats described throughout the book!! If you know this book please help me identify a smell similar!! *its a scratch and sniff The Sweet Treats Carnival (strawberry shortcake ) paper back .
Main reason I’m a virgin is because I keep hearing guys prefer girls who haven’t slept around, and I thought it might give me some kind of edge…But I’m starting to doubt that. Wouldn’t most of you actually prefer someone experienced who can match your energy instead of a prude? (self diss 💔)
Is holding off even worth it if it doesn’t make a real difference, or am I just making dating harder for no reason lol
Be honest please no BS, “it’s your body/whenever you’re ready” lectures. I just want your🫵personal take!! In your experience and relationships, would you prefer a woman who’s never had sex, or does experience matter more to you , thanks :p!
Edit: Okay I hear everyone saying they don’t care ,but let’s hear from the people that do kinda care from the back !!!! also I’m an underclassmen in college fyi + not religious
I’m a girl in college, not religious or conservative at all. Most people around me are hooking up and part of me wants that experience too😔
Main reason I’ve been holding off is because I keep hearing guys prefer girls who haven’t slept around, and I thought it might give me some kind of edge…But I’m starting to doubt that. Wouldn’t most of you actually prefer someone experienced who can match your energy instead of a prude? (self diss 💔)
Is holding off even worth it if it doesn’t make a real difference, or am I just making dating harder for no reason?
Be honest please no BS, “it’s your body/whenever you’re ready” lectures. I just want your 🫵personal take!! In your experience and relationships, would you prefer a woman who’s never had sex, or does experience matter more to you , thanks 🫰:p!
I want to explore and have sex with different people because I’m scared I’ll regret missing out later. At the same time, I’ve always fantasized about waiting for the right person I truly love, and losing my virginity to them.
The problem is I’m starting to think that perfect scenario might never actually happen. Dating is already hard, trust is hard, and the idea of holding out forever just to maybe end up disappointed feels worse than just going for it now. Part of me worries that if I do have sex with other people, I’ll lose the ability to ever have that “pure” cherished experience I fantasized about… but another part of me thinks that’s probably just idealized nonsense and I should live in reality.
Anyone been in the same spot? Did you wait or explore and how do you feel about your choice now? Especially want non-religious takes. I could really use some outside perspective!
I want to explore and have sex with different people because I’m scared I’ll regret missing out later. At the same time, I’ve always fantasized about waiting for the right person I truly love, and losing my virginity to them.
The problem is I’m starting to think that perfect scenario might never actually happen. Dating is already hard, trust is hard, and the idea of holding out forever just to maybe end up disappointed feels worse than just going for it now. Part of me worries that if I do have sex with other people, I’ll lose the ability to ever have that “pure” cherished experience I fantasized about… but another part of me thinks that’s probably just idealized nonsense and I should live in reality.
Anyone been in the same spot? Did you wait or explore and how do you feel about your choice now? Especially want non-religious takes. I could really use some outside perspective! *repost sorry
Edit: okay I am still in college fyi
I want to explore and have sex with different people because I’m scared I’ll regret missing out later. At the same time, I’ve always fantasized about waiting for the right person I truly love, and losing my virginity to them.
The problem is I’m starting to think that perfect scenario might never actually happen. Dating is already hard, trust is hard, and the idea of holding out forever just to maybe end up disappointed feels worse than just going for it now. Part of me worries that if I do have sex with other people, I’ll lose the ability to ever have that “pure” cherished experience I fantasized about… but another part of me thinks that’s probably just idealized nonsense and I should live in reality.
Anyone been in the same spot? Did you wait or explore and how do you feel about your choice now? Especially want non-religious takes. I could really use some outside perspective!