can someone add me in the nice sea photo i took?? it would be nice if only the back would show but i think the costume is going to show also so i would like to have a black costume. I apologize if my english is bad
i was building a city in like antique japanese style and i started to build this like hut tho idk what i can add or change
i've been trying to make a round like ceiling for my underground magazine for soo long (i apologize if the photo is not hight quality) it's 15 hight and 13 wide tho it won't start from the ground but it will start form 7 blocks of hight to the floor
my gf of almost 3 months (9 august) and i are having a pretty hard problem. the last month like the first day of the month we argued about some jokes i did that she didn't like, she said that she didn't love me no more but still didn't wanna lose someone soo important for her like me. after about a week everything turned back normal, i didn't made those jokes and she was pretty happy. since then she's been acting strage
for context she's at her beach house so the last time i saw her was about 1 months ago and she doesn't want me to come because she says she's not ready for me to know her parents (i don't know if it's the right thing but i respect her opinion)
2 days ago since she was acting pretty strange (i've been asking why she was acting like this for like 3 days or so) and she said :
" yes, ik i'm strange" and so i responded
"and why are you doing that, something happened?"
"yes, i don't love you like i used to, sorry but i can't future with us"
"why are you saying this?"
"because we're fighting pretty much ( she said that i'm mad when she doesn't respond fast, tbh i never got mad just a little hurt but because i can't change this i just accepted it), you don't want me to have any male friends even to chat with (i even accepted this one even if she got mad when i had many girls on my ig account and made me remove all of them)
"then what you wonna do? I still really love you maybe we should try again?"
she didn't respond to the second question " i wonna be alone for a time i need a break"
"alright if that will make you feel better then it's ok even for me, but just so you know i'm going to get hurt"
after that we talked like nothing happened, tho without ilys. then i asked her how she felt, she responded she felt well (not true). at night time she did some tik toks with her friend (female) and sent me all of them to me and then she posted like 2 (pretty normal thing) .we continued talking like usual tho she removed all our stories our tags, the comments on her posts even our spotify playlist (ik it's strange) atleast she didn't ruined our duolingo streak, so i removed everything too. the breaking point came yesterday evening, she was trying to sleep, but she wake up and told me that it's not like we're trying to get some space because we're still talking and she feels that it's becoming toxic because she can't talk to me, she feels too attached to let go. to that stories that she posted a guy let's call him bob, bob liked her story and wrote a note for her "what should i do", which she didn't respond, i asked her if we still don't want to break up but you know there will be some guys that will flirt with you why don't we just re add the tags and the stories, she said it's a thing only for insecures, i asked if they know each others, she said yes and he was her talking stage. so i gently asked her to remove him like she did with some girls i knew and she said "well you didn't know them i know him, if he'll try to talk to me i'll just ghost him".
this is the most important part of the story:
i said to her can we talk? she said yes
"ik we're having a pretty bad period, but maybe we should restart because ik you still care about me and i do too" she said
"idk how to restart the things we did the fight are still there i can't just don't care and go on
"i can help you, atleast i can try to"
she asked me some questions like "why do you still want to go with me", after i give her a response i asked if she wants to as she said i don't know can we please try to get us some space? i'm begging you i responded that if that's what she wants and will make her feel better then it's ok with me. we talked until 00:00 when her phone automatically turn off (her parents turns it off) in the last hour we talked she first was serious i would say then she turned like dumb as she sent some stickers to (sorry i don't know the word) sdrammatize (make it less serious then it was) untill she said 2 days ago my friend (girl) made me see a photo of this guy (let's call him jonh) for context jonh was one of her first ever talking stage she really loved him but he didn't even if she tried he didn't care. when her friend made her see jonh photo she cried she went in "sad mode" for 2 days just by watching a photo of him atp i wanted to just break up because i knew that she still thinks about him. i said "hear me i can't heal the wounds of another man, you need to do it by yourself, i just can help you by maybe moral support but i can't heal you by myself" she responded true, she said she was soo sorry to get a break, she said leave me for now, she even said, if i'll ever turn back to you will you stay with me? i responded yes then i asked her if tomorrow when her "bipolar"(didn't say bipolar but you get me) thing was over to just read again the chat she said she already does but she just laugh it off. today she went online at 7 ( she usually wakes up at 10-11) but she had something to do i didn't write her no good morning because yesterday i said i won't write you anything, i'll just wait you when you'll feel like for a relationship. how it's about 9 what should i do? write her a paragraph? or just let her alone like i said and let her get all the time she needs. i tought of the second option should i stay silent? i apologize for any misspelling or for some parts not really clear sadly english is my 5th language, if someone needs more context can just let me know ty for hearing me
my gf of almost 3 months (9 august) and i are having a pretty hard problem. the last month like the first day of the month we argued about some jokes i did that she didn't like, she said that she didn't love me no more but still didn't wanna lose someone soo important for her like me. after about a week everything turned back normal, i didn't made those jokes and she was pretty happy. since then she's been acting strage
for context she's at her beach house so the last time i saw her was about 1 months ago and she doesn't want me to come because she says she's not ready for me to know her parents (i don't know if it's the right thing but i respect her opinion)
2 days ago since she was acting pretty strange (i've been asking why she was acting like this for like 3 days or so) and she said :
" yes, ik i'm strange" and so i responded
"and why are you doing that, something happened?"
"yes, i don't love you like i used to, sorry but i can't future with us"
"why are you saying this?"
"because we're fighting pretty much ( she said that i'm mad when she doesn't respond fast, tbh i never got mad just a little hurt but because i can't change this i just accepted it), you don't want me to have any male friends even to chat with (i even accepted this one even if she got mad when i had many girls on my ig account and made me remove all of them)
"then what you wonna do? I still really love you maybe we should try again?"
she didn't respond to the second question " i wonna be alone for a time i need a break"
"alright if that will make you feel better then it's ok even for me, but just so you know i'm going to get hurt"
after that we talked like nothing happened, tho without ilys. then i asked her how she felt, she responded she felt well (not true). at night time she did some tik toks with her friend (female) and sent me all of them to me and then she posted like 2 (pretty normal thing) .we continued talking like usual tho she removed all our stories our tags, the comments on her posts even our spotify playlist (ik it's strange) atleast she didn't ruined our duolingo streak, so i removed everything too. the breaking point came yesterday evening, she was trying to sleep, but she wake up and told me that it's not like we're trying to get some space because we're still talking and she feels that it's becoming toxic because she can't talk to me, she feels too attached to let go. to that stories that she posted a guy let's call him bob, bob liked her story and wrote a note for her "what should i do", which she didn't respond, i asked her if we still don't want to break up but you know there will be some guys that will flirt with you why don't we just re add the tags and the stories, she said it's a thing only for insecures, i asked if they know each others, she said yes and he was her talking stage. so i gently asked her to remove him like she did with some girls i knew and she said "well you didn't know them i know him, if he'll try to talk to me i'll just ghost him".
this is the most important part of the story:
i said to her can we talk? she said yes
"ik we're having a pretty bad period, but maybe we should restart because ik you still care about me and i do too" she said
"idk how to restart the things we did the fight are still there i can't just don't care and go on
"i can help you, atleast i can try to"
she asked me some questions like "why do you still want to go with me", after i give her a response i asked if she wants to as she said i don't know can we please try to get us some space? i'm begging you i responded that if that's what she wants and will make her feel better then it's ok with me. we talked until 00:00 when her phone automatically turn off (her parents turns it off) in the last hour we talked she first was serious i would say then she turned like dumb as she sent some stickers to (sorry i don't know the word) sdrammatize (make it less serious then it was) untill she said 2 days ago my friend (girl) made me see a photo of this guy (let's call him jonh) for context jonh was one of her first ever talking stage she really loved him but he didn't even if she tried he didn't care. when her friend made her see jonh photo she cried she went in "sad mode" for 2 days just by watching a photo of him atp i wanted to just break up because i knew that she still thinks about him. i said "hear me i can't heal the wounds of another man, you need to do it by yourself, i just can help you by maybe moral support but i can't heal you by myself" she responded true, she said she was soo sorry to get a break, she said leave me for now, she even said, if i'll ever turn back to you will you stay with me? i responded yes then i asked her if tomorrow when her "bipolar"(didn't say bipolar but you get me) thing was over to just read again the chat she said she already does but she just laugh it off. today she went online at 7 ( she usually wakes up at 10-11) but she had something to do i didn't write her no good morning because yesterday i said i won't write you anything, i'll just wait you when you'll feel like for a relationship. how it's about 9 what should i do? write her a paragraph? or just let her alone like i said and let her get all the time she needs. i tought of the second option should i stay silent? i apologize for any misspelling or for some parts not really clear sadly english is my 5th language, if someone needs more context can just let me know ty for hearing me
today my girlfriend of almost 3months asked me for some space. she says she's not in love no more and that she doesn't really see a future where both of us are involved. i asked how she felt about me because the last 3 days have been quite strange. for context she rn lives in her beach house so we didn't see each other for about 2 months, so she's been talking to her other friends but i'm pretty sure she didn't cheat. she says she's tired of fighting almost every day because she can't always respond to her phone so she thinks i get mad when she can't instantly respond to me. in this past months she made a wrong idea about myself and so she needs some space to think if it's right to break up or if she actually made a wrong idea of myself and that we can still be together. which chooses i have and how do i make her understand that i'm not the one she thinks i am?
for quite a time about 3 days i think my girlfriend been acting strange, for the context:she packed her things like the end of june to go to her beach house were she knows some friends male and female. i confronted her about it and she said she doesn't feel like she used to, she said she doesn't love me any more because she said we fight almost every time when she's out with her friends and then when she comes home late and respond to me she thinks i'm angry but i'm not, i told her that i'm happy that she's happy but she thinks the opposite. i'm pretty sure she wanted to break up but she instead asked for some space to think about our relationship because she says she doesn't see a future where we're together. i'm even afraid she cheated even if i know she isn't a girl to do that. we talked a little more and she said that she misses me and maybe she's wrong to get some space tho she still isn't sure. tbh i don't want to leave her, i really love her soo much. can someone help me to make her understand that the idea she made of me is completely different from what i really am?
today my girlfriend of about 2,5 months said that she puts her family and friend in first place. I understand putting her family in first place but she said she puts me in third place after her friends. I don't know what to think about it. Lately she seems strange tho, she's at her other house (near the sea, it's a residence) and i didn't see her for like 19 days and she said because i did something she didn't like she got a bit away for me but because i changed she's back fully with me. She says she doesn't know how to say i love you no more because of the stupid things i did and because of the "long distance relationship". before me she never got with someone like me but she had some toxic talking stages and she says she's like closed into herself and it's very hard to love someone, and i want to help her with this too, but idk how. I apologize for my bad english. I would really like if someone would tell me what should i do in this case because i don't want to leave her.
me and my girlfriend won't see each other for like 2 months so i tought about writing a book that she can read at the end of these 2 month, tho idk what should i write on it, because she already knows what i do during the day because i tell her. What should i write?
I've been thinking what to give her (15) for our first month together because I tough of a peluche to gift her but she doesn't really like them and I (15) already gifted her one, I'm making a DIY for her with some of our photos and a love letter, I'll buy her some flowers too tho I don't know If I should gift ger something more or that's enough. Suggestions are well accepted.