u/Beautiful-Sound-368

Hi I want to add some songs to my dance heartbreak screaming crying throwing up but in the club or in the car on the way back from the club playlist
You know?

dancing on my own - Robyn
You’ve got the love - F+TM
Super cut - lorde
Everything is embarrassing- sky ferreira
We can’t be friends- Ariana grande
Never be like you - flume
Young lover - st Vincent
Somebody else - 1975
Winner takes it all - meryl Streep (an outlier I know but it hits for me)

Lmk what I should add!!!

My (25F) boyfriend (24M) is pretty insecure about his body
Basically every time he comes home from gym he complains about his body and how he feels small etc . I constantly reassure him that he is actually really very muscular and how attractive he is and so on but he always feels like “he’s punching” with me. I don’t know what more I can do to make him feel better about himself bc it sucks to see him have no confidence

I want to ask the girl I’m dating to be my girlfriend over dinner and I want it to be a really nice Cape Town restaurant with a pretty view.
Ideally a place where they would be willing to help me out beforehand so that at dessert they write “will you be my girlfriend” on the plate and bring out flowers and a teddy bear and a necklace that I give them beforehand. A bit over the top maybe but she’s special.

I live in a student housing where everyone has their own room. I have two guys living next to me, one’s door is directly next to mine (he and I are friends) and the other I’ve never spoken to and his door is about 5m down the hall. I usually lock my door at night but on the only two instances I’ve forgotten to, at around 2 am my door opens, I wake up in a panic, the person (whose face I can never see) stands there for a moment and then closes it and walks away. It really freaks me out as a girl living alone. I know it’s not someone mistaking my room for theirs and I want to report it to security but my friends say it’s dramatic because nothing has ever happened and I should just lock my door.

Edit: thank you all for the responses I will report it first thing in the morning and I’m setting reminders to make sure my door is locked before I go to bed! Also I only mentioned the two guys bc I know it’s NOT them bc my friend never would and the other guys door is too far away to mistake it for mine. I agree it most likely is someone else in the building! I appreciate all your concern for my safety it means a lot! 💗

I’ve (F21, 161cm, 59kg) been pretty inconsistent with the gym most months but I’m really starting to get into it. My main goal is growing my glutes (max and medius) as well as my quads. I’m trying to do a body recomp so I’d like to lose some fat as well.

Monday and Friday
Glute max
Hip thrust
Bulgarian split squat
Hyper extensions

Tuesday and Saturday
Glute medius
Hip abduction
Step ups
Kickbacks

Thursday and sunday
Quads and hammies
Leg press
Leg extensions
Goblet squats
Hamstring extensions

I know I’m in that stereotypical “everyday is leg day” thing but that’s really all I wanna work on (for now!) I stretch before and after and always finish with some cardio. I have pretty intense ADHD and I’ve noticed if I don’t go one day I don’t go at all so even the one rest day is a bit of a push for me but I know I’m supposed to do 2 but then I don’t know which other day to sacrifice or how to space my days out properly

So I F26 and my (ex) situationship M27 and I have been hooking up all year. We mutually agreed neither of us wanted a relationship bc we’re both just not in the place for one and agreed to hook up exclusively (for sexual safety) and if otherwise to inform the other of other people.
So it was great for the first few months it we’d spend the night at each others places and we were both very sexually compatible (multiple O’s each everytime)
I didn’t even really notice but I initiated every hang out via text and he never said any issue about it
I’d also talk to him occasionally about other stuff in life but it mostly went ignored which bothered me a bit but I knew it was a casual thing so I didn’t really mind? Idk
But the last month or so he’s declined every “you up?” Or “wanna come over?” Etc etc with various excuses about work or being tired which was fine I just kept asking when I was available but he eventually just ignored me so I asked if he’s okay and he said he doesn’t want to see me again bc I only ever text him for sex

I understand I hurt his feelings but surely he could’ve communicated it was bothering him earlier? And it’s not like he ever tried to talk about anything else? Idk I feel like he’s very “my steak is too juicy my lobster is too buttery” rn but maybe I’m just an asshole

And I looked at our other texts and I very much did talk to him asking about work and his family etc but I only got very vague responses and no reciprocity via text? Irl we got along great but hey maybe I’m not good at social cues 😭