u/Beginning-Abalone523

I just want to vent because I feel like my mom is being unfair to me. My parents have been separated for a long time, and they both already have their own families now. I live with my dad’s side of the family. Since the school year is about to start, I’ve been telling my dad that I still lack a lot of school supplies. But now he’s passing the responsibility to my mom because, according to him, I’m living with him already and he’s the one providing food for me.

So I reached out to my mom, but she asked why I wasn’t asking my dad instead. It just feels unfair because I never wanted this kind of situation in the first place. I also messaged my half-brother from my mom’s side to ask where my mom was because she kept leaving my messages on seen. I was messaging her because school is about to start and I still haven’t bought many of the things I need, and I don’t even have a school uniform top yet.

Then my brother told me that my mom was there with them and had even accompanied them to buy school supplies. That really hurt me because it made me feel like it was unfair since I’m her child too. Or maybe I’m just overreacting.

I just want to vent because I feel like my mom is being unfair to me. My parents have been separated for a long time, and they both already have their own families now. I live with my dad’s side of the family. Since the school year is about to start, I’ve been telling my dad that I still lack a lot of school supplies. But now he’s passing the responsibility to my mom because, according to him, I’m living with him already and he’s the one providing food for me.

So I reached out to my mom, but she asked why I wasn’t asking my dad instead. It just feels unfair because I never wanted this kind of situation in the first place. I also messaged my half-brother from my mom’s side to ask where my mom was because she kept leaving my messages on seen. I was messaging her because school is about to start and I still haven’t bought many of the things I need, and I don’t even have a school uniform top yet.

Then my brother told me that my mom was there with them and had even accompanied them to buy school supplies. That really hurt me because it made me feel like it was unfair since I’m her child too. Or maybe I’m just overreacting.

Ganito kasi yan, may mga pumupunta sa bahay namin from church para mag bible study and ini-invite kami sa Church nila, ngayon nag excuse ako na hindi ako makakapunta kasi nga may sakit ako and si Papa naman pinipilit ako pumunta kasi nakakahiya daw sa taong nag pa connect sa amin ng kuryente para magkaroon kami ng kuryente, ngayon feeling ko kasi parang ginagamit lang ako ni Papa para hindi masira image niya sa taong yon. Okay lang naman sa'kin kaso sobrang sama talaga ng pakiramdam ko nilalagnat pa ako and nahihilo. Nakakainis lang.

Hi everyone, I just recently graduated from junior high school, and I’m planning to enroll in ALS because I’m already 20 years old. I want to continue my studies, but I’m still confused about the process and what happens after completing ALS.

I’d like to ask what the requirements are for enrolling in ALS and how long the program usually takes. After finishing ALS, will I be able to go directly to Grade 12, or do I still need to complete Grade 11 first?

I would also appreciate hearing from people who already experienced ALS or know someone who did. Any advice or tips would really help. Thank you!

Problem/Goal: Gusto kong malaman kung paano ko haharapin yung situation sa bahay kung saan ako lagi napagbubuntungan ng galit at napagbintangan, and kung paano ako makakapag-set ng boundaries or makakaalis sa ganitong setup.

Context: Naglilinis ako ngayong umaga, tapos pinatong ko lang sa lamesa yung iniinom kong kape. Biglang may pusang dumaan at natabig yung kape ko, kaya natapon sa speaker na nakuha ng stepmother ko sa raffle 3 months ago. After nun, nagsumbong yung stepbrother ko at sinabi na ako raw yung nakasira, kaya nagparinig yung stepmother ko ng “umalis na kayo kung ganyan” at “lumayas na dito mga walang silbi,” which I know ako yung pinapatamaan niya. Kahit ako naman halos gumagawa ng gawaing bahay kasi mahirap utusan yung mga anak niya, patuloy pa rin akong napapagalitan. Habang nagwawalis ako, binatukan niya ako from behind at sinabihan ng “lumayas ka na, doon ka na sa nanay mo, panira ka ng gamit.” Naiyak ako kasi pakiramdam ko wala akong kakampi sa bahay and gusto ko nang umalis sa toxic na environment na ‘to.

Previous Attempts: Wala pa akong nagagawang action para maayos ‘to or makaalis kasi wala akong pamasahe

Nag lilinis ako ngayong umaga, tapos pinatong ko lang sa lamesa yung iniinom kong kape ng biglang may pusang dumanggil ng kape ko at natapunan yung speaker na nakuha ng Stepmother ko sa raffle 3months ago, ngayon nag sumbong itong stepbrother ko na ako raw yung nakatapon non and bigla na lang nag parinig ang Stepmother ko na "umalis na kayo kung ganiyan" "lumayas na dito mga walang silbi" which is alam kong ako naman ang pinaparinggan niya, ako palagi ang nag lilinis sa bahay halos lahat ng gawain ako, kasi ang mga anak niya ay mahirap rin namang utusan, nag wawalis ako nang bigla akong batukan ng Stepmother ko habang ako'y nakatalikod, at sinabi niyang "lumayas ka na ha dun ka na sa Nanay mo panira ka ng gamit" iyak ako ng iyak kasi wala akong kakampi sa bahay gusto ko nang umalis para pumunta kay Mama kaso wala akong pamasahe ayaw ko na sa toxic na bahay na ito.