u/Big-Recording-1002

What’s going on?

She wants to continue, my stepping out is in the past and she doesn’t know. I’m also lost and confused on how to move forward

Found out my gf of 2 years cheated on me with her coworker after hiding from the fact they went out drinking. When I found out they went out she said nothing happen then admitted it weeks later that they had sex. She claims it happened once and didn’t mean nothing. Continued to have sex with me and be around be before and after that encounter with her coworker. I’ve cheating on her in the past with an ex situation-ship. She doesn’t know. It’s one of the only reason. Bedside feeling like I completely pushed her away, that I still interact after what she did.

Is this relationship over? Has anyone stayed specifically a man after a woman has cheated? Did you cheat to? Should I tell her of my past cheating? Does it even matter? She’s adamant about our “future” and continuing the relationship. But I think she tried to jump ship and saw the grass wasn’t greener. I can’t see myself continuing if I don’t tell her about the past so everything can be on the table?

Found out my gf of 2 years cheated on me with her coworker after hiding from the fact they went out drinking. When I found out they went out she said nothing happen then admitted it weeks later that they had sex. She claims it happened once and didn’t mean nothing. Continued to have sex with me and be around be before and after that encounter with her coworker. I’ve cheating on her in the past with an ex situation-ship. She doesn’t know. It’s one of the only reason. Bedside feeling like I completely pushed her away, that I still interact after what she did.

Is this relationship over? Has anyone stayed specifically a man after a woman has cheated? Did you cheat to? Should I tell her of my past cheating? Does it even matter? She’s adamant about our “future” and continuing the relationship. But I think she tried to jump ship and saw the grass wasn’t greener. I can’t see myself continuing if I don’t tell her about the past so everything can be on the table?

As a NY native and long time thunder fan I’m getting very excited at the likelihood of this matchup happening. I’ve never been a Knick fan but the city is electric when they’re competitive. The streets and bars are gonna be packed. And I wouldn’t mind if either team won tbh. I get a parade or OKC dynasty. Anything but SAS