Believers, What Do I Do?

For those who believe in manifestation, Neville Goddard teachings, witchcraft, energy work, spirituality, reality shifting, or consciousness practices, I’m looking for guidance from believers only.

My boyfriend passed away, but I still feel deeply connected to him and believe our story isn’t over. I’ve manifested, created a moon jar, made wishes, practiced revision, attempted shifting, and worked with spiritual practices to strengthen that connection. I’ve also experienced physical sensations during these practices, like feeling unable to breathe for a moment or feeling a pinch on my finger, which felt meaningful to me. Also, I have seen flashes of light and what looked to be barbed wire twisting.

For people who genuinely believe circumstances are not final, what would you do in my position? How would you approach this? What practices, rituals, meditations, spells, energy work, assumptions, or routines would you personally use? How do you persist in your faith and continue trusting in your desired outcome?

I’m not looking to debate (but willing to discuss) whether this is possible, be told to move on, or receive skeptical responses. I’m asking for insight, experiences, and advice from people who share these beliefs and have walked a similar spiritual path.

Please be kind. This comes from a place of love, hope, grief, and a deep belief that there is more to reality than what we currently understand.

Thank you 💙

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u/Big_Willingness9850 — 2 days ago

Need Career Advice: 23 Years Old, Starting Over After a Traumatic Loss?

I’m 23 years old and feeling completely lost when it comes to work right now, and I’m hoping for some guidance.

A little over a month ago, my boyfriend passed away, and I witnessed it. I was not ready to return to work afterward, especially to my receptionist position in a medical office where I had to interact with patients all day. My employer was unable to approve any additional leave and asked me to either return to work or resign. At the time, I genuinely thought I would have some time to figure things out, so I resigned.

The same day I resigned, I came home to an eviction notice on my parents’ door. Now I need to find work again as quickly as possible because I need to help contribute financially and I have nowhere else to go.

My background includes:
• Lead Infant/Toddler Teacher in a daycare
• Customer service
• Fast food/restaurants
• Medical office/reception

The problem is that I really don’t think I can handle a highly patient-facing or customer-facing role right now. I’m still grieving and trying to function day by day.

Are there jobs that might be a good fit for someone with my experience that involve less direct interaction with the public? Remote work would be great, but I know those jobs can be difficult to get.

I would appreciate any advice on:
• Career paths I may not have considered
• Certifications that could help me transition into a different field
• Entry-level jobs that are less customer-facing
• Remote or hybrid opportunities
• Whether medical billing, coding, administrative support, data entry, or similar roles would be realistic options

If you’ve been through something similar or made a career change after working in childcare/customer service, I’d love to hear what worked for you.

If you were 23 years old with my experience and needed a stable job as soon as possible, what would you do?

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

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u/Big_Willingness9850 — 17 days ago

For Those Experienced With Revision: How Would You Handle This Situation?

I lost my boyfriend, and I’ve been struggling deeply with grief. I’ve been studying Neville Goddard’s teachings, especially revision, and I keep wondering whether revision is the right technique to focus on.

For those who have experience with revision, how do you personally understand its limits and possibilities? Have you ever used revision for a loss that felt permanent? If so, what was your approach?

I find myself wanting to revise the day he passed away, but I’m unsure how to visualize it or what I should be focusing on. Part of me wonders if I’m holding onto false hope, while another part of me feels unable to give up on the possibility of a different outcome.

I know this probably sounds crazy, selfish, or unrealistic to a lot of people. I know that trying to change something involving death is not a topic most people are comfortable with. But I loved him more than anything, and I miss him every day. I feel lost without him.

What I keep struggling with is this: I know I want him back, but does he want to come back? How would you approach that question within Neville’s teachings? Is there a different perspective I’m missing?

I’m not looking for judgment or arguments. I’m genuinely trying to understand this from the perspective of people who have seriously practiced revision and Neville’s teachings.

Thank you.❤️

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u/Big_Willingness9850 — 1 month ago

For Those Experienced With Revision: How Would You Handle This Situation?

I lost my boyfriend, and I’ve been struggling deeply with grief. I’ve been studying Neville Goddard’s teachings, especially revision, and I keep wondering whether revision is the right technique to focus on.

For those who have experience with revision, how do you personally understand its limits and possibilities? Have you ever used revision for a loss that felt permanent? If so, what was your approach?

I find myself wanting to revise the day he passed away, but I’m unsure how to visualize it or what I should be focusing on. Part of me wonders if I’m holding onto false hope, while another part of me feels unable to give up on the possibility of a different outcome.

I know this probably sounds crazy, selfish, or unrealistic to a lot of people. I know that trying to change something involving death is not a topic most people are comfortable with. But I loved him more than anything, and I miss him every day. I feel lost without him.

What I keep struggling with is this: I know I want him back, but does he want to come back? How would you approach that question within Neville’s teachings? Is there a different perspective I’m missing?

I’m not looking for judgment or arguments. I’m genuinely trying to understand this from the perspective of people who have seriously practiced revision and Neville’s teachings.

Thank you.❤️

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u/Big_Willingness9850 — 1 month ago

For Those Experienced with Revision: How Would You Handle This Situation?

I lost my boyfriend, and I’ve been struggling deeply with grief. I’ve been studying Neville Goddard’s teachings, especially revision, and I keep wondering whether revision is the right technique to focus on.

For those who have experience with revision, how do you personally understand its limits and possibilities? Have you ever used revision for a loss that felt permanent? If so, what was your approach?

I find myself wanting to revise the day he passed away, but I’m unsure how to visualize it or what I should be focusing on. Part of me wonders if I’m holding onto false hope, while another part of me feels unable to give up on the possibility of a different outcome. I’m not looking for judgment—just honest perspectives from people who have seriously practiced revision and Neville’s teachings. How would you approach this situation?

Thank you ❤️

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u/Big_Willingness9850 — 1 month ago

Is it possible?

For those who practice manifestation, revision, or reality shifting: what experiences convinced you these concepts are real?

What do you believe is truly possible when it comes to changing circumstances, timelines, outcomes, or reconnecting with people who seem beyond reach?

Have you ever experienced something that felt impossible becoming reality?

How do you stay grounded while exploring these ideas?

I'm interested in hearing honest experiences and different perspectives.

Thank you.

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u/Big_Willingness9850 — 1 month ago

Is it possible?

hi everyone,
i'm writing this because i honestly don't know where else to turn, and i need help from people who might have experience with this.
my boyfriend died on may 2nd, 2026. i loved him deeply, and i still do. always will. since losing him, i've been searching for anything that might help me understand what is possible and what isn't. i've found myself reading about revision, manifestation, reality shifting, parallel realities, neville goddard, and countless stories from people who claim they changed the past, moved into different timelines, reunited with loved ones, or woke up in lives where tragedies never happened.
if i'm being completely honest, there is nothing i want more than to have him back. i want the life we were supposed to have. i want the future we talked about. i want to wake up and find out this never happened.
but i'm struggling with something.
i can't tell whether these stories are genuine experiences, misunderstandings, wishful thinking, coincidences, or outright fiction. i want to keep an open mind, but i also don't want grief to make me vulnerable to believing something that could harm me. i don't want to spend years chasing something impossible, and i especially don't want to push myself into denial, obsession, or psychosis because i'm desperate to be with him again.
at the same time, i don't want to dismiss possibilities simply because they sound impossible.
so i'm asking sincerely:
have any of you experienced revision, manifestation, shifting, or any similar practice in a way that genuinely convinced you it was real?
what do you believe is actually possible when it comes to changing circumstances, timelines, or outcomes?
have you ever used these techniques after losing someone you loved?
how do you balance hope with reality?
how do you know when a practice is helping you heal versus preventing you from accepting what happened?
is there a healthy way to explore these ideas while staying grounded?
if your answer is that bringing someone back or changing the past isn't possible, i would appreciate hearing that too. i'm not looking only for answers that tell me what i want to hear. i'm looking for honesty.
more than anything, i'm trying to figure out how to move forward. if i can't have the life i imagined with him, then i want to find a way to live a life that honors him. i just don't know what that looks like yet.
please be kind. i'm asking from a place of love, grief, and genuine curiosity.
thank you. ❤️

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u/Big_Willingness9850 — 1 month ago

Is it possible?

hi everyone,
i'm writing this because i honestly don't know where else to turn, and i need help from people who might have experience with this.
my boyfriend died on may 2nd, 2026. on may 1st, he took his own life. i loved him deeply, and i still do. always will. since losing him, i've been searching for anything that might help me understand what is possible and what isn't. i've found myself reading about revision, manifestation, reality shifting, parallel realities, neville goddard, and countless stories from people who claim they changed the past, moved into different timelines, reunited with loved ones, or woke up in lives where tragedies never happened.
if i'm being completely honest, there is nothing i want more than to have him back. i want the life we were supposed to have. i want the future we talked about. i want to wake up and find out this never happened.
but i'm struggling with something.
i can't tell whether these stories are genuine experiences, misunderstandings, wishful thinking, coincidences, or outright fiction. i want to keep an open mind, but i also don't want grief to make me vulnerable to believing something that could harm me. i don't want to spend years chasing something impossible, and i especially don't want to push myself into denial, obsession, or psychosis because i'm desperate to be with him again.
at the same time, i don't want to dismiss possibilities simply because they sound impossible.
so i'm asking sincerely:
have any of you experienced revision, manifestation, shifting, or any similar practice in a way that genuinely convinced you it was real?
what do you believe is actually possible when it comes to changing circumstances, timelines, or outcomes?
have you ever used these techniques after losing someone you loved?
how do you balance hope with reality?
how do you know when a practice is helping you heal versus preventing you from accepting what happened?
is there a healthy way to explore these ideas while staying grounded?
if your answer is that bringing someone back or changing the past isn't possible, i would appreciate hearing that too. i'm not looking only for answers that tell me what i want to hear. i'm looking for honesty.
more than anything, i'm trying to figure out how to move forward. if i can't have the life i imagined with him, then i want to find a way to live a life that honors him. i just don't know what that looks like yet.
please be kind. i'm asking from a place of love, grief, and genuine curiosity.
thank you. ❤️

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u/Big_Willingness9850 — 1 month ago