u/Bkm150

I have been on birth control pills for the past 6 years. Typically if I accidentally miss a pill I will immediately get break through bleeding. I actually had to up the estrogen level because I was bleeding all the time on low estrogen pills.

I went off the pill 3 weeks ago and haven’t gotten any bleeding yet. Is this normal? I took a wondfo pregnancy test and it was negative so I don’t think I am pregnant. I just want to get my first period so I know when to track ovulation.

We are old though - 42 years old! We already have 3 kids 10, 9 and 6. We always wanted 4 but didn’t feel ready for it when we had the other 3 so close other Now we are on the other side of it and he wants to try. Would it be crazy? I am open to it but am very very nervous about health problems for a child given our older age.

Kids would be super excited (or so they say). They all ask for another sibling all the time.

Finances aren’t a problem. Would this be the dumbest decision ever?

We are old though - 42 years old! We already have 3 kids 10, 9 and 6. We always wanted 4 but didn’t feel ready for it when we had the other 3 so close other Now we are on the other side of it and he wants to try. Would it be crazy? I am open to it but am very very nervous about health problems for a child given our older age.

Kids would be super excited (or so they say). They all ask for another sibling all the time.

Finances aren’t a problem. HHI is $700k and we have a good trust from family as well. Would this be the dumbest decision ever?

We are old though - 42 years old! We already have 3 kids 10, 9 and 6. We always wanted 4 but didn’t feel ready for it when we had the other 3 so close other Now we are on the other side of it and he wants to try. Would it be crazy? I am open to it but am very very nervous about health problems for a child given our older age.

Kids would be super excited (or so they say). They all ask for another sibling all the time.

Finances aren’t a problem. Would this be the dumbest decision ever?

Goal is not D1 or pro soccer. DD plays for a small club. Got an invitation to a bigger club on a higher team.BUT DD wants to stay one more year with her friends. Plus current club is closer to home and easier logistically for us.Do you as a parent push your kid to move to the bigger better team? Or let them make the choice?