u/BlastoWasTaken

Salut tout le monde !

Je viens d’arriver sur Paris il y a peu pour le travail et je ne connais quasiment personne ici. Cependant, je sais qu’il y a une quantité d’activités juste phénoménale en comparaison de ma ville natale (Bordeaux).

Dans l’idéal, j’aimerais trouver au moins un(e) ou deux ami(e)s pour constituer un groupe avec qui partager des activités : passer du temps dans un bar, aller au cinéma voir le dernier Marvel ou se faire une soirée jeux-vidéo.
Bon j’ai beaucoup d’autres passions à partager mais on pourra voir ça dans un second temps sûrement !
J’en profite aussi pour préciser que j’ai 27 ans.

Le top serait d’avoir un groupe qui s’intéresse également au JDR car j’aimerais m’y remettre sérieusement. Je suis débutant, je n’ai pas tant joué que ça mais j’aimerais m’y remettre vraiment adoré et ça m’intrigue beaucoup de voir jusqu’où on peut aller.

Oui, je ratisse large pour le coup puisque je ne sais pas trop qui lira ce poteau. Mais si vous vous retrouvez dans l’une de ces catégories (voire des deux !), n’hésitez pas à poster un commentaire ou à m’envoyer un message privé !

Merci d’avoir lu mon pavé, bonne journée✌️

Hello everyone!

This will be a long post, just so you can better understand who I'm looking for.

First of all, I know it will look like a shopping list. It isn't. Some people do not read and then complain think I'm being out of touch. We all have our ideals, it doesn't mean we can't be attracted to someone who is totally different. So please don't be afraid or feel offended by what I'm going to write below. I'm trying to explain what I'm looking for but it doesn't mean you have to match EVERYTHING. Even if you are totally different from the description: reach me out anyway and welcome!

I've tried dating apps for years, I would say it's not really for me. Judging people by their looks isn't exactly my cup of tea. I’m exhausted by shallow conversations, meeting people everyday who do not appear interested in bonding with new people.

To be honest, I’m not even here to meet new people and talk about anything for days or weeks. I want to find THE person I’ll spend my life with. Maybe I’m daydreaming?

Serious people only, I don't want to waste time for people who will disappear after a few messages. If your message sounds unserious or is a one-liner, I probably won't bother replying. However, if you're genuinely interested, go for it and shoot me a message!

Well, after such a long introduction, let's go for it!

**Who am I?**

I'm 27, from southwest France, but I'm now part-living in Paris. I can basically travel anywhere in France if needed. 178cm (5'10), light brown hair, light skin, blue-grey eyes, average build with some muscles. I'm quite often told I'm attractive. I dress differently depending on days: casual most of the time but I'm trying to switch to the old money style as much as possible to match my vibe. Maybe you can help me with it?

I deeply value intellect, humor and culture. The darker your humor is, the more I will like you. I thrive to learn always more on a lot of subjects and am very curious. I love literature, cinema, sciences (astronomy, chemistry, computer science), cats and pop-culture including the video games history. You could say I am a nerd, yes. I am mainly an introvert but I appear extrovert to most people, and it allows me to get along with anybody. It is simple for me to talk about basically anything.

I am confident and mostly quiet, calm, faithful, with strong values.

My family comes from the Iberian Peninsula, so be ready for a strong character, some temper and intensity in the relationship (in a good way of course). What it means is that if you're looking for someone who will agree with every single one of your takes, it won't be me. It doesn't mean I won't respect yours, though! However, this is something that you can only really get if you're close to me. Other than that, I like to take care of my partner, show a lot of affection through words, touch and quality time.

I'm also open to relocation for the right person, though I would really prefer to stay in France and ideally in southwest.

Among things I like: the sound of rain, petrichor, walking in the forest, cold and dark mornings, a nice sunset on the sea (especially near where I live). A music so beautiful it makes me imagine a whole story behind it. A delightful meal with my family and/or friends. Eating good products in general. Dark humor and sarcasm are the best, I hope you're enjoying both.

I plan to have my own house in the future, though I haven't decided where I would like it to be located yet. Maybe in the countryside so we can build whatever we want? My dream is to have that big library to store all of our books among many other things.

**Who I am looking for**

What I'm currently looking for would be ideally someone like me, who enjoys indoor time just as much as an afternoon with friends. Someone who wants to build a home with everything we need inside of it. Someone who will love and trust me just as I do. Someone who isn't afraid to show her affection. Someone who will not be afraid of the « boredom » that will eventually happen in a relationship.

Physically, I do not have much criteria. I'm naturally drawn to caucasian/latin women (bonus if you're mediterranean). Please no BBW, but I'm open to anyone else, may it be skinny or curvy women. Ideally, you like to dress casually or a bit classy but please, no daily sport outfits. Being feminine is always appreciated - though it doesn’t mean that you have to wear makeup if you don't want to (by the way, I tend to prefer natural or no makeup, women are beautiful as they are). I'm more into older women but feel free to reach out even if you're younger!

Also, please don’t be religious. I’m however fine with it as long as religion doesn’t rule your life.

Give me your all and I'll do equally.

Thanks for reading! If you decide to send a PM, please introduce yourself a bit and do not just send a one-liner. I prefer to say it again since people do not read the whole thing haha
Please tell me what you liked in my post or what you disagree with. Also, include your favorite color in your message!

Let's discuss and get to know each other, I don't bite!

Hello everyone!

This will be a long post, just so you can better understand who I'm looking for.

First of all, I know I'm looking for a quite specific kind of person but maybe she's there? Please don't be afraid or feel offended by what I'm going to write below. I'm trying to explain what I'm looking for but it doesn't mean you have to match EVERYTHING. Maybe you are totally different from the description: reach me out anyway!

I've tried dating apps for years, I would say it's not really for me. Judging people by their looks isn't exactly my cup of tea. I’m exhausted by shallow conversations, meeting people everyday who do not appear interested in bonding with new people (pun intended).

To be honest, I’m not even here to meet new people and talk about anything for days or weeks. I want to find THE person I’ll spend my life with. Maybe I’m daydreaming, huh?

Serious people only, I don't want to waste time for people who will disappear after a few messages. If your message sounds unserious, I probably won't bother replying. However, if you're genuinely interested, go for it and shoot me a message!

If you're not in France and we start online, it would be ideal for you to plan to relocate at some point - though it's not mandatory at all, I think that when you want to be with someone, there are always solutions in that matter.

Well, after such a long introduction, let's go for it!

Who am I?

I'm 27, from southwest France, but I'm now part-living in Paris. I can basically travel anywhere in France if needed. 178cm (5'10), light brown hair, light skin, blue-grey eyes, conventionally attractive, average build with some muscles. I dress differently depending on days: casual most of the time but I'm soon switching to the old money style as much as possible to match my vibe.

I deeply value intellect, humor and culture. I thrive to learn always more on a lot of subjects and am very curious. I love literature, cinema, sciences (astronomy, chemistry, computer science), cats and pop-culture including the video games history. You could say I am a nerd, yes. I am mainly an introvert but I appear extrovert to most people, and it allows me to get along with anybody. It is simple for me to talk about basically anything.

I am confident and mostly quiet, calm, faithful, with strong values, while leading naturally and without having to raise my voice.

My family comes from the Iberian Peninsula, so be ready for a strong character, some temper and intensity in the relationship (in a good way of course). However, this is something that you can only really get if you're close to me. Other than that, I like to take care of my partner, show a lot of affection through words, touch and quality time.

I'm also open to relocation for the right person, though I would really prefer to stay in France and ideally in southwest.

Among things I like: the sound of rain, petrichor, walking in the forest, cold and dark mornings, a nice sunset on the sea (especially near where I live). A music so beautiful it makes me imagine a whole story behind it. A delightful meal with my family and/or friends. Eating good products in general. Dark humor and sarcasm are the best, I hope you're enjoying both.

I plan to have my own house in the future, though I haven't decided where I would like it to be located yet. Maybe in the countryside so we can build whatever we want? My dream is to have that big library to store all of our books among many other things.

Who I am looking for

I'm actively looking for a muse, that person who will inspire me each day through her affection, devotion, love, trust and submissiveness. I need that person to be deeply feminine and able to fully embrace it through me thanks to my physical and mental strength. I'll make the decisions for you so you only have to turn your brain off and go with the flow. I'll carry you through the good and bad times (because they always happen at some point), just make me want to nurture you. I don’t mind dealing with the « boredom » that will eventually happen in a relationship, as long as I’m with the right person.

Physically, I do not have much criteria. I'm naturally drawn to caucasian/latin/asian women (bonus if you're mediterranean). Please no BBW, but I'm open to skinny or curvy women. Ideally, you like to dress casually or a bit classy but no sport outfits unless you're home. Being feminine is always appreciated - though it doesn’t mean that you have to wear makeup (by the way, I tend to prefer natural or no makeup, women are beautiful as they are). I'm more into older women but feel free to reach out even if you're younger!

Mentally, you can either wait for me to lead you on our daily life or take the decisions equally, I'm fine with both. Also, please don’t be religious. I’m however fine with it as long as religion doesn’t rule your life.

Give me your all and I'll do equally.

Thanks for reading! If you decide to send a PM, please introduce yourself a bit and do not just send a one-liner. Also tell me what you liked in my post or what you disagree with.

Let's discuss and get to know each other, I don't bite (unless you want me to)!

Hi everyone!

I’m Thomas, 27, currently living both in Paris and Bordeaux in France.

Right now, I would prefer only talking with women from France but if you think we could be a good match, feel free to contact me anyway!

I used to work in IT but switched jobs recently. Whenever I can, I go back to Bordeaux since I was born there.

Physically, I’m 178cm tall, brown hair, blue-grey eyes with an average build.
Among my hobbies, I love IT (obviously), computer science, video games, pop culture, reading, cinema and space.
On my free time, I love to spend time talking with friends about news or discuss our different hobbies.
To be honest, it’s almost impossible to write down everything I like to do so please ask me!

I’m looking forward for your message, see you soon!

J’ai remarqué ça depuis plusieurs semaines mais personne n’est parvenu à me donner une réponse claire.

Sur le lumineux des taxis, il est indiqué « parisien » à Paris mais partout ailleurs, c’est le nom de la ville qui apparaît. Pourquoi ?