u/BoatIll2662

But their names can not shared because of their age. The amount of free pass people get under 18 is unacceptable and outrageous. Not only that self defence is considered illegal when these animals are basically trying to kill you in the day light. Unbelievable.

So many murders in Dublin recently...

This is absolutely heartbreaking and disgusting. When are these teenage crimes ever going to stop??

Cork (Ballincollig) — 75.3%

Galway (Carnmore) — 67.6%

Birr (County Arms Hotel) — 67.0%

Clifden — 66.8%

Kilkenny (O'Loughlin Gaels) — 64.3%

Loughrea — 64.2%

Clonmel — 63.2%

Thurles — 63.1%

Tuam — 62.6%

Sligo — 62.2%

No matter how much effort I put in to, for years and years, I think I could only date one guy (he was going to bail on the day but then got sad and actually met me)Then we liked eachother very much so he glad he took the effort going on that first date..

They chat you for a while, but when it's time to meet, they vanish. Ghost you. They give you promises, "Wer gonna have so much fun, your amazing, your so hot, let's do this date yada yada". Then they are ice cold. Act like you don't exist. It's not a decent adult behaviour, it's not just one or two guys, it's %98 of them.

Why???? Why is it so hard to even find hookup, not even a date?

The only time I was lucky was trying to catch straight guys on straight tinder which was very spontaneous and 3 of them actually came to my place in different occasions. But gay / Bi Irish guys? Or the ones on Grindr? Never...

After I show my pictures say on Grindr, some guys are like wow your so hot, completely amazed and all and then 2 seconds later, they ignore every message you send. I truly wonder what their thoughts processes are like. "Hmm this guy is unbelievably hot, let me not respond him no matter what even though he's so interested in me"

Text after text, I feel humiliated because how much nobody cares to even meet at all. Its always me trying to get their attention in every conversation. Are Irish guys really that uninterested literally in anyone? Do they have sexual life? Like it's crazy to me. Everyone needs sexual partners time to time. It's pity because lots Irish guys are so freaking hot and just gorgeous. In France it's so easy to get guys if they are interested enough to chat you. You just get along and then agree time and place then you meet. Simple.

Also, I think these days like from 2020 onwards, most gay and bi men have this delusion that there are so many guys for them waiting when in reality it's a straight world we live in. You'll probably never gonna have flirtation in real life with another guy unlike straight people. Unless your in gay bar. Decent looking straight people can just naturally find someone in their mundane lives, meanwhile if you try to flirt with another guy say like in random day on the train or at work or on the street, you can even get attacked for it. So like, why would you not let this nice hook up or date happen if you both happen to find each other attractive? He's probably your best bet in years. Social media and Grindr ruined everything, distorted their perception of reality. Being gay is in fact still minority no matter how much social media or dating apps make it seem like it's very common, it's not.

Especially in a country like Ireland, even if there was a group of 20 guys, only 1 or 2 are Bi or gay, you couldn't even tell nor would they tell you. So gay men i think needs to understand this thoroughly as a reality check. Gay men would be surprised the amount of attention straight women get from even extremely hot men, with full package, nice career, money, house, car, beauty, height and all - it would be even too overwhelming for most. The point being, you are not straight, you'll never gonna have the same large pool of candidates. Stop being miserable and pushing people away for no reason.

If you like someone and they like you back, just go for it. Don't hold yourselves from having nice moments. Or you're going to be alone for the rest of your life and I've seen it with lots gay men. It leads to horrendous mental health issues and sometimes ends tragically.

Do you do the driving test 6 months after finishing the 12 EDT or 6 months after you got your learner permit?

I got my learner permit in February but I started my lessons now.

I live in Raftharnham and was wondering if there are any very remote spots in either Wicklow or close to south Dublin where you can DRIVE and park to stargaze? It should be safe though for parking. Like very remote areas.

I'm working full time and still can't meet ends. I have chronic diseases as well as mental health issues that require medicine. I can't afford to pay 80 euro so many times. I can barely afford food.

I feel like there's a judgement when it comes to medical card, people look down on you. The cost of living in this country is extremely high and salaries for graduates does not match the cost of living and rent.

I would be homeless if I had to pay all the medicine and GP visit out of my pocket.

He can barely look me in the eye - he's very dismissive, impatient, cuts me off, talks about his life and I'm sitting there feel like I'm the therapist on the top I'm trying to make him feel comfortable.

I have severe anxiety issues and life circumstances like life and death. This guy is not helping me at all.

Should I ditch him?

He can not make eye contact, he talks over me, very impatient as if I'm his therapist.

This made me so uncomfortable and I could never open up to him. Its like baby sitting him.

I felt worse leaving especially as a gay person who's about to seek asylum and that my life is in danger.

I've been called faggot by 22 yo idiot even though he's literally on Grindr. What's up with them? They seem to be very homophobic yet always on Grindr. They also never meet at all, completely shameless people with zero civil sense. Very sociopathic. They block you after making promises each and every time.

I'm a gay guy who's very feminine and only bottom.

For me to be able to orgasm hands free, I need to be pounded for hours. That's how I feel like I'm finally making love.

But literally no guy can give that to me.

I heard this from women as well, most guys can never make women orgasm because they either ejaculate fast or get tired physically. If it is natural and both parties meant to reach orgasm while making love, why can't most men give this to us? Or did modern men get physically weaker?

I never been there - I'm feminine openly gay guy. Just scared of there are homophobic male groups there.

I been to George bar million times and I'm bored of it. Mother club is too masc4masc and techno music isn't for me, they be staring at the DJ mindlessly as if something magically will appear.. 66 is too packed and can't breath, there's no ventilation system. Pantibar is fine but again people don't talk, only creeps creep on you.

I just want large venue with pop music and maybe dance or have fun. I think dicey's garden is the only one in Ireland for that?

I finished my bachelors here in Ireland and built my life here - If I go back to my country, I would get killed, probably murdered in the most brutal way because of how religious and homophobic they are.

The thing is, because of all the right wing eco chamber I've seen so much in Ireland, I feel ashamed to even admit people that I need to seek asylum even though I would be dead otherwise. I shouldn't feel this way as it's about my well being but again, I just feel embarrassed for telling people about this. Im very close to being admitted to hospital due to anxiety and panick attacks for fear of my life. But people look at me when I say this that I'm sort of a parasite, because that I need humanitarian help. Its so degrading and humiliating.

I'm out and all. But because of the fraudulent applications, bad people etc, I just cant help but feeling judged as if they think I'm just like the ones who don't need help.

There is so much right wing influence in all over the world, both US and Europe. Sometimes it really gets into your mind. I hate it. It really makes you feel like you are doing something wrong.