u/BorrowedSpacetime

these are the things i bought:
adapter
case
protector

I am 18F. And my bf is the same age as me. We have been together for 1 year. I always had his instagram account and password. And he had mine. But when he gave me his account he told me not to open 2 chats—one was from his male bestie and one was female bestie. I was trying to be understanding and respected his privacy. Since he had that rule, even I asked him not to look into my best friend’s (F) chats. At one point it started feeling invasive. So I told him that maybe we should just log out each other’s accounts because I am having this constant feeling that if I write this particular message to some friend, someone will see it(my bf). This wasn’t about me being not loyal but a constant thought that someone’s watching my texts, whether im talking to my childhood friends or cousins or family. So he understood and logged out. I did the same.

But I was not so fond of his female best friend, honestly. Her instagram posts were a bit more showy than needed. Not judging her for that but im very decent and modest so it’s not something i like personally. And her jokes were always dark. They were a group of 3 friends —my bf, she, and my bf’s male bestie friend (which i mentioned). So it felt really awkward to me when she used to make those kind of jokes w the 2 guys. Again, im not judging but I am a bit religious so it’s not something i would like seeing. Let me give you the worst joke she ever said. I heard it from afar but damn it hit me very badly.

Please dont see if you are sensitive >!“We are gonna r*pe kids in your basement”!< It was some joke they were saying, I dont remember the context. But it was not something I liked.

So I opened his instagram account again, without letting him know. I checked her chats with him. And I saw that they exchange posts of half naked girls. And there were some comments from my bf “>!she is not fleshy enough, thicc”!< I was angry. Very Angry. Because he had created this image of himself infront of me that he is an angel, who doesnt do bad stuff, is religious, doesnt say cuss words, doesnt even look at other girls. It really opened my eyes.

So I confronted him. I told him everything I felt. And ofc i was angry so i said in a very bad tone. He didnt apologize. He asked me to apologize for “invading his privacy “. So I said sorry. And i stopped talking to him.

Later after 3 days, he sent me a long message saying how sorry he was for doing that. He didnt realize that it was wrong. He used to share those images w her as a joke. She was straight but my bf and his male best female used to joke that she is a lesb. So to tease her they share such images w her. They did not have such intentions.

My stupid self, Oh My God. I forgave him after a week when i was calmer. But he promised me he would not talk to her, though i told him that dont cut off connection w her… just be normal friends without such kind of filthy jokes.

Later after a week or two. He went to her birthday party. And when I asked him “why did you go!” he said that he has family connections with her so his family forced him to go(which i believed). Just after that week, he met her at a mall and they went to a restaurant. When i asked him, he said that the three of them had plans to meet at the mall but the male best friend cancelled last minute… but since the female best friend had almost reached, he had to go.

I told him I understood him. But i did not. So I sent him my favorite song about sadness. It was a form of poetry kind of. I have always loved that song. He said to me “ I dont like poetry which is not written by me”, “I can write so much better than this”. It was the last straw, it made me super angry and I brought up everything in that argument —the girl, the songs, the things i forgave. Then he blocked me. And we dont talk.

And one more little thing, which i never liked about him was that whenever he used to bring chocolates for me to school. he used to bring for her too.

should i buy a stethoscope now? maybe even a cheap one for the first two years? because littman is expensive and maybe not even required? also in case i should buy, let me know the brand too

i’ve taken the test 5 times over the last 3-4 years and i’m so confused at this point.

the weird thing is, my result is always XNFP-T. The only thing that keeps changing is whether I’m an E or an I.

My results have been:
52% Extraverted → ENFP-T
58% Extraverted → ENFP-T
54% Introverted → INFP-T
59% Introverted → INFP-T
52% Extraverted → ENFP-T
Everything else (N, F, P, and T) has stayed pretty consistent.

I’m honestly confused about what I actually am.

i always thought I was an introvert because I enjoy being alone, I need time to recharge, and social situations can be draining. but at the same time, I also love talking to people when I click with them, I get excited sharing random ideas, and I can be pretty outgoing in the right environment.

since my E/I percentages are always so close, i can’t figure out if i am an ENFP or INFP?

has anyone else had their type constantly switch between ENFP and INFP? If so, what helped you figure out which one fit you better?

i had already read about the negative feedbacks about this university. BUT I WANT REAL ONES THIS TIME. What difficulties will I have to face and how to avoid them?

is any georgian licensing exam required to practice in india after MBBS from georgia, if we clear FMGE/NEXT?

i'm confused because some people are saying you must clear the georgian state exam (in georgian language) to be eligible for NMC registration. is that actually mandatory or is clearing FMGE enough?

I AM SO CONFUSED WITH THESE TWO. IF YOU ARE STUDYING IN ANY OF THESE TWO. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME REAL HELP

Hey everyone,
Ever wonder how often you’re actually picking up your phone? I used to think I wasn’t on my phone that much until I checked my screen time—and wow, it was more than I ever expected! Turns out, I was picking up my phone over 100 times a day. I thought it was a quick check here and there, but it added up fast.

Curious to See Your Numbers? Go to your Screen Time (Apple) or Digital Wellbeing (Android) to check. For many of us, the numbers are way higher than expected. Once I saw mine, I realized just how much my phone had become a reflex, even when there was no need to check it.

If you find yourself hitting a higher number of pickups, maybe consider setting some boundaries. I’m working on reducing mine, and it’s already helping me focus better and be more present.
Share your numbers below if you dare! And your strategies to reduce it.

Im planning to study in TSMU. What would be the best girls hostel nearby?
I was recommended Medventa. Is it good?