u/Brendanh2

My twin flame cut me out of his life 16 years ago because of the Mormon Church. He never believed in the doctrine he was just following orders.

When we were best friends we could look at each other and knew what we each other was thinking. Being together was like being in heaven but I knew that our friendship wasn’t going to last forever.

There have been countless synchronicities when we were together and when we separated. His birthday, 3-19 would show up, songs, his name, his hometown, favorite rapper, clothing brands, ex-Mormons giving me their opinion on why he cut me out of his life.

There were many synchronicities when I searched for answers this year and then they went away as I came towards the conclusion.

Trying to go on with life without him and dealing with the pain and grief.

My father was physically and emotionally abusive until I was 25. In 2022 he was diagnosed with chronic kidney disease and has been wanting me to get tested to see if I can be a donor.

I’m not getting tested because I’m not giving him my kidney. I’ve had cancer before, a recovering alcoholic (partially caused by the trauma he gave me) and my own physical and mental illnesses.

For years he had told me the reason he worked so much and was never around was because the money he saved up was eventually going to be mine. He said that he was going to give me a down payment for a house and a car and when it came time to make a purchase he never gave me money.

I’ve been no contact since December 25th 2025 and it feels so good.

Edit: he tried selling me the idea that if I had one kidney and I was diagnosed with chronic kidney disease I would be higher on the transplant list 😳🤣.

We all moved into our houses around the same time last year. My dogs escaped our backyard and went into theirs through under the gate. My first interaction was knocking on the door and telling the wife that our dog is in her backyard she came out and we made introductions, exchanged numbers and talked for 30 minutes.

Over the weeks and months she would speak to my spouse in the front yard and I’d come out to say hello. She would try to make plans with my spouse but work schedule got in the way.

I would say hello to her husband if he was outside but he was short with me and not particularly friendly.

On Super Bowl Sunday February 2026 my spouse and I decided to get burgers for lunch. Our neighbor, the wife texted us in the group chat and invited us over for a Super Bowl party with her parents, husband and dogs. We told them we’re eating lunch and we’ll be over. I thought to myself “I’m up for making friends with them and doing activities”.

She greets us at the front door and gives us a tour of their house while her husband stayed on the couch. He barely said a word and didn’t try to get to know us and here I am having made myself at home on his couch 🤨😂. We get to know the wife more and what she does for a job. Her mother loved our dogs!

They made bacon wrapped hot dogs with chips and salsa and because I told her we had already eaten cheeseburgers we weren’t hungry.

The husband’s friend comes over and he goes and hangs out with him playing video games in the game room after the Super Bowl ended 😂. I love video games but he didn’t invite me to play.

When it was time to go we offered her a tour of our house (they have the same model as us) and I invited her husband to come to see our house. He responded “you guys have the same house right? I’m good”. And continued to play video games.

We gave her a tour of our house and said thank you for the hospitality, left on a good note (so we thought) and turned in for the night. Later that week I added them on social media and only the wife accepted my request and not the husband.

I haven’t spoken to them since that day and my husband says they are awkward, distant and short to him in passing while walking the dogs.

Not sure what happened 🤷‍♂️. Do I still wave or interact with them in anyway?