School stopped buying weed killer- wants weeds gone.

Im sorta new at my school but this year they stopped buying weed killer ( yay environment!) But they want the weeds gone. Principal asks we do something about it. Most we can do with our equipment is weedwack for hours and mow over the weeds in woodchips and all. They kinda act like theyd like them picked but provide no equipment for that. Im still new and struggling with the heat so ive been going out in chunks and doing my best but days into my efforts we are bassicly asked to go outside and start dealing with the stuff out there. Like as if we havent been trying to keep it under control all summer. Im battling unclear expectations and a learning curve with no directions as well as heat humidity being overworked and burnt out from the summer we just went through. I brought my own glives and pulled weeds but burt myself when i found out the gloves i own arnt made for picking those prickly weeds and ultimatly just ran it all over with the riding mower. I wish boiling water was an option but theres no way to boil it here much less get enough boiling water going for a playground of weeds. I could try to use carboard under wood chips but that seems likely to fail with little kids coming back to the playground. Anything used has to be safe for kids to interact with. Is it litterly just pulling weeds?
Im curious to what yard work is like for other school custodians. The main issue is the weeds in the wood chips on the playground here

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I hate the last 2 seasons so much- i dont even wanna finish

Im 1.5 episodes from the finale. Its been hard to get through. I spoiled most of it anyways. Im not happy with how they chose to write alot.of it. Only seem to be happy with hoyt and jessica coming back. Was everyone else dissappinted when the seasons finished up then

>!plus i spent a few seasons beleiveing eric and sookie were end game and found out now thats the books ending... not the show. I cant wait to get a hold of the books because the first few seasons were AMAZING. And now im just frustrated lol!<

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u/Brief_Woodpecker_795 — 10 days ago

Waxing floors during humidity problems

So as im preparing to leave i see my floors are looking pretty crazy. I was going to apply last coat to room 3 and 3rd coat to rooms 1 and 2. My head custodian is out this week and my helper applied two coats of wax with 4 hrs in between. As humidity rises it causes the floors to get damp and i cannot vouch for how dry they were after 4 hours. My problem is that they look shiny and good woth the light on but in natural light from the doorway as usual you can see every imperfection. And room 3 is particularly bad! Room 3 is on 4/5 coats of wax. And the floors was def wet but not sticky. The other 2 rooms are on 2/5 coats. Those ones have alot of crazy visual texture and night have felt sticky but not wet it was hard to tell. All were fully stripped. Im at a loss do i start over. In room 2 my helper left shoe marks in the wax grr!

Pictures uploaded jumbled

Picture 1 i beleibe is room 2 with shoe marks

2 is room 3

3 is room 3 upclose

4 is room 3 with my humidity foot marks i was able to use a microfiber towel on please see picture 2

5 is room one honestly the least of the problems today

u/Brief_Woodpecker_795 — 24 days ago

What questions would you ask in a head custodian interview

As the interviewee what type of questions would help to gauge the job. Coming from a cleaner who already works for the district looking to get a head position.

What type of questions would you expect them to ask?

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u/Brief_Woodpecker_795 — 30 days ago

Underqualified for head custodian?

Who here landed a head custodian job but felt they had little qualification.

All i got is 4 years cleaning most of that in schools.

I definitely know the job but I wonder if im still too green to go for a head custodian position

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u/Brief_Woodpecker_795 — 2 months ago
▲ 15 r/lonely

My birthday is next week. Givin up on expecting people to care.

Last year was my golden birthday. I planned a hike got a vegan cake so my vegan friend could partake and invited 6 or 8 people. Everyone had plenty notice of the plans and it was on a day everyone had off. Well half the girls diddnt remember i guess no communication. Only one showed and ultimately i ended up removing all the others from my life or just shutting down in general. I dreamed of my golden birthday since i was a kid i had all the decor and party favors ready. It really broke me. Ive really shut down and isolated since then i have a few new friends i meet up for coffee with. Ive bassicly just ignored the fact that one said she was gonna come and then dissnt show no comminication and im extra hurt this year being her bridesmaid for her wedding 4 days before my birthday and knowing she will be on her honey moon on my birthday. Historically shes never come through on Prioritizing my birthday.

One of my new friends and i made plans and she suggested my birthday as the day of the week to meet not knowing it was my birthday. I invited 2 other new friends to join for the day too. Inside i just feel really sad and lonely knowing historically noones ever showed up for me for something that does mean something to me. I always want to celebrate and feel close to people and when noone shows up it reaffirms how small and lonely my circle really is.

I want to enjoy my birthday this year but i feel like imma say absolutely nothing and just give up. Last year was so heart breaking i cant get that back.

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u/Brief_Woodpecker_795 — 3 months ago

SEED OIL SCOUT STEALS MONEY DO NOT DOWNLOAD APL

They charge you when you accept a free trial they dont respond to emails and they will never give your money back. Dont risk this scam do not download!!!

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u/Brief_Woodpecker_795 — 3 months ago
▲ 3 r/BPD

My birthday is next week. Givin up on expecting people to care.

Last year was my golden birthday. I planned a hike got a vegan cake so my vegan friend could partake and invited 6 or 8 people. Everyone had plenty notice of the plans and it was on a day everyone had off. Well half the girls diddnt remember i guess no communication. Only one showed and ultimately i ended up removing all the others from my life or just shutting down in general. I dreamed of my golden birthday since i was a kid i had all the decor and party favors ready. It really broke me. Ive really shut down and isolated since then i have a few new friends i meet up for coffee with. Ive bassicly just ignored the fact that one said she was gonna come and then dissnt show no comminication and im extra hurt this year being her bridesmaid for her wedding 4 days before my birthday and knowing she will be on her honey moon on my birthday. Historically shes never come through on Prioritizing my birthday.

One of my new friends and i made plans and she suggested my birthday as the day of the week to meet not knowing it was my birthday. I invited 2 other new friends to join for the day too. Inside i just feel really sad and lonely knowing historically noones ever showed up for me for something that does mean something to me. I always want to celebrate and feel close to people and when noone shows up it reaffirms how small and lonely my circle really is.

I want to enjoy my birthday this year but i feel like imma say absolutely nothing and just give up. Last year was so heart breaking i cant get that back.

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u/Brief_Woodpecker_795 — 3 months ago
▲ 8 r/BPD

Had an amazing time at an event i planned worked hard to bring together. Wiplash after.

my friend is getting married. I knew her in hs we arnt really as close as i thought when she made me her bridesmaid( the only one) im honored but i cant help but wonder why. I mean we hang out when we can i live farther away now. We dont really text. I never receive invites i just view pictures and posts of her friend groups on fb. I see this alot with old friends they have seperate friends ive never met i dont get reached out to first. I could honestly dissappear and it might take folks over a year to notice.

Life wasnt easy growing up i mean you dont get bpd by being loved and cared for and treated really well as a child typically. Ive made alot of mistakes. Ive been sober and healing for years now. But my early 20s was hard for everyone. Im happy now im slwoly making friends even if it takes years to find people.

I planned a bach party and pulled it off went eay overboard making it the best i could for this girl i really love her. But now returning home it feels like whiplash. My sadness and rejection sensitivity is spiking. I keep thinking of how i looked back and they kept talking and hugging in a group after i walked away and i just continued to leave like yea i know i wont ever see these people again ill go back to my small life and barly hear from people first. Its cool.

I only have my bf and he doesnt do much as a 3rd shifter. I have no family. I wish i had a relationship with my dad more but seeing my abusive mother is too much so its limited.

Im so happy for her and i put on a brave face and an act of being a nirmal happy person and i try to be normal but inside im dying. I have noone. I have absolutely noone. Noone would do the things i do to show love. Ive slowly givin up and cut contact with people over the years and they never even noticed i was gone. I wont commit suicide i promise i have cats to care for and id neved do that to my man. Hes all i got and it would crush him. But thr thoughts are still there. Just like they were when i was a teen trying to act on them. Im sorry for bridges burned im aorry for my actions in the past i diddnt have anything better to guide me.

Im changed now im changed

Im alone.

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u/Brief_Woodpecker_795 — 3 months ago

Just discovered a new lazy technique...

Every room has disinfectant wipes. I normally have some on my cart to help with poop or pencil marks. But i discovered i can spot clean anything on the ground with it by scrubbing it with my shoe. Throw it down, toe it around, bend down once. Saves time getting rhe mop bucket or hallway scrubber out for small or frequesnt sticky stuff.

Most of my career has been about learning how lazy i can truly get... jk jk

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u/Brief_Woodpecker_795 — 3 months ago

To say the least i started that job super happy and excited about being there. I had alot of chamges to my life and was deepyly into the things i was interested in as it was part of a personality chage, becoming sober for several years and gave me health like id never had before.

But i worked at a place where gossip was most peoples lives and between what was said behind my back and actually getting bullied in my face and hr contributing to how bad things were and refusing to help i lost that part of me i needed so bad. Lost my health. Lost my smile. Truly lost myself.

I got labs done recently after a year + away from that workplace and the labs reflect that while im in normal.function my body isnt handling stress well. Im bassicly always in fight or flight since working there.

It is distressing knowing that what was a normal week for them became lasting physical harm to my health.

Something i cared so much about before it got beat out of me

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u/Brief_Woodpecker_795 — 4 months ago

So long story short, my mother was really abusive growing up. She hasnt really changed she just doesnt have any control anymore. And I just don't have a relationship with her. My sister is no contact with her. But my mother is basically the caregiver for my dad at this point in his health.And it would also cause him stress if she was left out.But it would honestly ruin the event for myself if she was there in any way shape or form.

Anyone have the same kinda situation?

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u/Brief_Woodpecker_795 — 4 months ago